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having a bf gives me anxiety. flirting with guys not so much. flirting feels like all gain, with a bf I feel like the whole idea is to stop him from thinking of leaving. not fun.

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  • You need to address your self esteem issues

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I miss having a life...all i do is work...

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  • I can relate that. My friends are busy with their business. and here I'm all alone :(

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This might sound pathetic but the idea of sex scares me. I know it's probably just because I've let horror stories and porn influence my view of it too much, but I can't shake it off.

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  • The scariest part is paying her...😂

  • First of all: from personal experience, I can say that the kind of rough sex most people enjoy doesn't hurt. It might look like it does, but it doesn't. Hair pulling for example looks horrifying but doesn't hurt at all because ALL the hair gets pulled (try it on yourself). Orgasm faces look like pain faces. Part of your fear of being hurt probably comes from seeing those girls with faces of pain, but in reality they're just enjoying it so much (there's a fun game called "labour or orgasm" where you are shown women's faces who are either cumming or having a baby, and you have to find out which one it is. You can't tell, seriously. The facial expressions don't differ much or even at all.) So when something on porn looks painful, then maybe just because you judged her expression wrong. That being said, sex CAN hurt. But then you just stop and suggest a different position. I get why you are afraid of disappointing your partner, and unfortunately all I can tell you about that is that it will get better with time, but only if you give it a chance.

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I wish my mom would quit putting me down all the time. I feel like every thing I get excited about, every plan I have, every dream I want to make happen, she shoots them all down and tells me nothing will work, it's not worth it, it's not possible, etc. I'm just tired of her negativity. I'm tired of her making me feel discouraged and keeping me from wanting to even try. She's my mom, she's supposed to support me and lift me up, not criticize me and tear me down.

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  • If you go on reddit, try reading the subreddit "raised by narcissists" and see if you fit in the description. Then you may be able to talk to people there who will understand you, and maybe find a group for online help -- and maybe even some people who had to deal with the legal side of things who can give you a direction.

  • Maybe it's her idea of supporting you. Maybe she has failed so often in her past that she now thinks people can't expect anything from life, and constant failure taught her to fear hoping for too much because rejection is so painful. Maybe she subconsciously wants to spare you that pain by teaching you to not expect anything. It's definitely very wrong, but I think I've seen this type of behaviour in people before and it helped me to know (or at least assume) that they didn't hate me, they just expressed their love in a very bad manner.

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I want to lick and suck my crush's fingers, maybe nibble them a bit too. God, his hands are sexy.

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  • what about his cock? bet he would get more pleasure if you sucked that instead.

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Sometimes I wish I was born rich

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  • I just wish my family was above the poverty line

  • Rich who?

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Sometimes it's better to go home, if you cannot focus at work. Chances are you are exhausted, without feeling sleepy. Rest is more important than money.

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  • Rest is more important than money, but unfortunately sleep won't pay my bills.

  • That's dumb!

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A weird thing I do is that I always look on the road when I'm not the driver of the car, as if I was the driver of the car. No matter which seat I'm in; if I'm in the back seat I always sit very uncomfortably to be able to look out of the front. I also don't take in the beauty of the landscape or sleep or read, not even on long rides. I started doing this when I was a kid, I always was afraid of car rides when my dad was driving because he took his eyes off the road so much (probably wasn't even that bad but as a kid I thought he was gonna kill us all if he looked elsewhere for a second) and in my child brain I thought I could compensate that if I looked at the road instead. It became both a habit and kind of a superstition, and I'm not sure if it's healthy.

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  • I look at the road, but I also just kinda look around. Especially in the backseat, I won't contort myself to see the road. Honestly fixating on the road like that does sound kind of unhealthy

  • i do the same while driving at night. its like im afraid if i take my eyes off the road somethings going to jump in front of the car. im also terrified of looking to the side while in a car at night on a road through the woods. i dont know what i think ill see but i know it wont be pleasant.

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Do you need help or loans to pay your debt...

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  • Yes I do, I have a dental bill that I have been trying to get paid off little by little but getting it completely paid off will help me tremendously!

  • What a dumb question

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I keep notes on my phone that I write when I get anxious it’s an anxiety relieving because now I know I can’t forget it and the anxiety goes away also I keep a phone diary ... these are the best two ways I found how to keep my anxiety undercontrol it doesn’t work with all my anxiety but it eliminates a lot

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  • I wish that worked for me. I'm glad you found something that helps!

  • same. i have a google doc folder i just dump it all into.

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