yung alam mo na sa sarili mo na maling mali na pero patuloy pa rin...di ko alam kung gaga or gago lang talaga ako
how do u do giys not yo talk to someone u just slepy with
I think apps like these attract a weird audience. that includes me
imagine coming to a mental health oriented place like this to prey and bully on peoples problems trough the comments. you know who you are. you absolutely suck and you make the world a worse place to be in with your actions, and ultimately thats the reason why yall suffer so much, your pain is your own making
I've always struggled with regular personal hygiene. I don't know why, I just always hated getting in the shower. I seriously don't know why. Sometimes it's a depression issue, I just can't give a damn. Sometimes I say "I don't feel like it, I don't have time, I'll do it when I get home from work", but then I don't feel like it after work. But I'm trying to change that. Today is my third day of taking a shower every day. It feels good not worrying if I smell or if my hair looks greasy. Showering in the morning as soon as I wake up also gives me a push to go ahead and get dressed for work so I'm not rushing at the last minute. If I can get to 30 days of taking a shower every single day (washing my hair every other day), hopefully the habit will stick for good. Google said it takes over 2 months for a habit to stick, but I'm going to start with 30 days as my first goal so I don't get discouraged. After that, I'll keep setting new goals until it's so ingrained I don't need to keep track anymore. I'm 27 gotdang years old. I don't have an excuse for not taking care of myself like a normal person. I need a routine
there is nothing wrong with sleeping with a mate's sister
I am sick and fucking tired of having BPD. Don't romanticize mental illness, it isn't fun to actually live with. 🙃
I wish we could help each other more here....its nice to get it off your chest but we all are still struggling.
I'm bisexual but I'm scared to come out. My husband would probably be ok with it. One of his best friends is a lesbian and he knows I'm a big LGBTQ+ supporter. I think he already gets a vibe I'm attracted to girls. I'm just scared to tell him when I say "I'd go gay for _____", it's not a joke. If we weren't together and I wasn't hiding in the closet, there are several women I would completely fall in love with. But I'm scared. Once I say it, I can't take it back. And my family is a pretty conservative, Christian, Republican bunch. There's one cousin who I know would be okay with it because she's a liberal, Democrat, and best friends with at least one gay person. That cousin, her husband, and their grown kids would totally be okay with it. But everyone else...probably not so much. As far as I know, I'm the only non straight person in the whole family (including my husband's family). I don't even **need** to come out. I'm not leaving my husband for a woman or anything. I could live as a passing for straight woman for all my life and nothing would change. But I don't want to hide this part of me. But I also don't want to ruin my relationship with all of my family so I can tell them "Hey, I'm attracted to girls especially blondes with short hair". I don't know what's worse: Coming out to my Mawmaw and Grandma and having them reject me; or never coming out to them, they die, and I'm left wondering if they would've accepted me and should've known. For now, I think I might only come out to my husband and maybe some coworkers if it comes up in conversation. And maybe that one cousin, but we don't talk that much.
If you are a guy over 35 please let me know. I'm a girl by the way