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I’m a female,21 and I’m intimidated by other women. It may have something to do with the fact that I was bullied throughout elementary and middle school by other girls that I thought were prettier or more popular. But now even at work, in public, or just casual conversation I gravitate more towards men. I think it could also have something to do with having a brother that’s always been emotionally distant. I might be deep down seeking a big brotherly figure in guys. I have a boyfriend and we’re doing very well, he understands my issue and trusts me so we have no problem there. I just find it odd

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  • You could always try talking to a therapist to see if you can get to the root of it if it's really bothering you

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Seriously considering taking my bra off for the last hour and a half of my shift. It's so uncomfortable. I keep having to readjust and its not that subtle. It's getting too warm to wear a jacket inside but I don't want my boobs bouncing around. Probably no one would notice, especially since we're in cubicles, but it's a long walk to my desk. I'm definitely taking my bra off when I drive home.

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  • If you haven't already, try wearing a sports bra. I fibd that they are more comfortable than regular ones. Though of course they don't look good with all types of shirts, like tank tops with spaghetti straps and such.

  • Do it, and then try to find better bras. I don't know if it's a cup size issue but I have a bra that I never even feel, I literally forget that I'm wearing one. It's awesome, can recommend investing the time to look for one that fits perfectly.

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I used to delete all of my texts every day. Not to hide anything, just... because. I guess I didn't like them cluttering up my phone screen. But now I can't help but think about how stupid that was. How many precious memories must I have lost? Now I still periodically delete my texts- just to free up space on my full memory- but I always save the ones that meant so much to me. I never want to forget those moments. I'll cherish those words as long as I live.

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  • I like to delete them esp from the one I loved

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I wish time would move quick when you're miserable and slow when you're having fun. It's cruel that it's the other way around, whoever created the human brain either didn't think this concept through or was cruel as hell.

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  • Time doesn't actually move faster or slower, but when you're having a good time, you're constantly dreading its end and when it does end, you don't feel like you had long enough because you want to keep experiencing that feeling. The same is true for being miserable, you constantly wait and hope for its end, and when the end finally comes, you are wo glad to be rid of the misery that you just feel like it lasted too damn long. An hour is an hour. We just perceive it differently based on our emotions.

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I'd like to cut some so called "toxic" people out of my life, but I can't because they come in a double package with people I love. My dad is the worst person in my life and constantly pulls me down, but I can't cut contact with him without also losing my mom, which isn't an option. I love her. There's also a certain part of the family who I don't want to see anymore, but they come to all family gatherings and those are the only times I'm able to see some of my loved relatives regularly. I also wish I wouldn't have to talk to a friend anymore, but he's my spouses best friend and I definitely won't make him choose. It always sounds so simple when people say "just cut toxic people out of your life".

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  • If your spouse's friend is that toxic, why does he want to be around him? That's no more fair to you than it would be to ask him to leave the friend. As far as family goes, yeah, unfortunately the most you can do is avoid them as much as you can :/ I wish you luck

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I have attachment issues and because I know that, I now distance myself to others to avoid manifesting my problem and it's impulses....

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  • There are healthier ways to work through this without sequestering yourself away.

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I feel like my best friend is now closer to my sister than she is to me. Now I have no one. I mean, yeah, I have other friends, but I'm not as close with them, and I probably never will be. That's not the kind of thing you can just... make happen. You can't force someone to have a deeper connection with you. It's so hard to make friends. Why can't I have just one person? Just one friend who doesn't leave me. One friend to spend time with, to talk to about things we have in common, to support in their times of need but also to lean on when I need help. Is that too much to ask? Is it too much to ask for just one friend?

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I don't know what is wrong with me. I'm often secretly hate people eventhough i have no idea about them. I just think that they're bad person for me, and when I knew, the bad side of them appears.

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  • Sounds like there's nothing wrong with you. Unless I'm misinterpreting your post have you considered you have a high functioning intuition? Unfortunately a lot of people in this world are bad hence why it happens a lot

  • wish i could be like u, look from the bright side, u won't get hurt.

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I don't dress to impress guys. I dress to impress myself....so that I can impress them with my confidence. Learning to love myself here :)

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  • you go girl!

  • You found the secret of being likable. I'm happy for you!

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This last week or two has been really tough on my anxiety and depression. Not full blown panic attacks or anything. But it's been seriously tough to force myself out of bed and make myself go to work. Even when I'm at work, I don't care as much as I used to. I'm either wanting to lie in bed and do nothing but cry and numbly watch youtube, or I'm constantly feeling on edge and ready to snap with rage. Not caring about doing my best at work is making my performance goals suffer which makes my anxiety worse. I need help but I don't even know where to begin. It's tough for me to talk about this with people. I don't like admitting I'm weak, or failing, or that I need help. I don't like admitting any of that in any scenario. I can't afford medical bills and prescriptions. But I can't keep doing this. Trying to help myself with exercise and yoga and breathing exercises helps short term, but I can't put my headset down during a stressful call and start doing yoga. If I'm driving and start panicking, I can't close my eyes and focus on my breathing. What about the mornings I'm running late and can't do my exercises? Or when I'm too depressed to even try?

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  • It's not going to hurt if you ask for help. start with someone you close like family. if it's not helping, maybe friends or someone you trust the most. if it still not helping, start a conversation with yourself. say hi, asking how are you, hows youve been doing, and eveything will start to flow as it self. I'm not a professional of course, but I think it will help you. Good luck, you've been doing your best.

  • This is insane. I’ve been feeling this exact way and to see it all written out by someone else and still be so accurate blows my mind

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