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Not rven dreaming, but it feels like doing acrobatics in my sleep that when I am awake, my body aches. Fxk you my fragile muscles.

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I swear I stand so strongly by the fact that people who hate cats, have never been loved by a cat. And im not talking the "yeah cats are okay, but I prefer dogs." Im talking the countless people that come into the shelter I work at and turn their nose up at cats. The ones who when I say say where the cat room is(I say where all the rooms are when someone asks to look around) go "oh id never own a cat. I hate them." Ive always loved cats and always wanted one. October 4th 2018, i got that chance. My moms friends cat had an accidental litter. She did the right thing. She paid to get mom and all babies spayed and neutered and then gave the kittens away. In the end she was left with 2 brothers. I took one when he was 6 months old. And let me tell you.... He came to me as a scared boy. He wasnt fond of being touched. He hid a lot. He didnt eat. But after 2 days of giving him his space and all the food and toys he could want? He came out of his shell. He is the most loving thing. Im his favorite place to lay on. Ive had a lot of dogs... snd two right now that ive had for 5 and 3 years. And theres just... theres a different bond with this animal. I love my dogs deeply. I wouldnt trade them for anything. But theres just a different bond between you and a cat and you and a dog. And its because that cat chooses you. Dog are easy. food and pats and youre in with 90% of dogs. Cats are different. You have to earn every pawstep of their love. I remember one we had at the shelter a while back. I used to work cat intake. So Id clean the new cats every day. One day we got this old tabby boy. He was pissed. He was mad at the world. he hated everyone. I got a few claw marks from him from just trying to clean him. I dont know why... but i took to him. I liked him. I decided to earn his trust. So i set about my mission. Over the course of a couple weeks(we had no room on the adoption floor for him) I slowly pushed hos boundaries. Sitting beside his closed cage for a few minutes. Figuring out his favroite food. Sitting beside his open cage. Letting him sniff my hand. One quick pet on the head. A chin scratch. One rub down his back. A few more rubs. A chin scratch snd a head pat. Just slowly... slowly started to earn his trust. Then one day i went for it. I picked him up just long enough to put him in my lap. He stayed. He purred. He let me pet him. After about 5 minutes, He was done and got back in his cage. After that... we were friends. Everyday he would let me hold him and love on him for a few minutes. He would let others pet him if i held him, but no one else got the privilege of holding him. Then he started headbutting me. And meowing when i walked in the room. I loved that cat. And he started to like me. It was the best feeling ever. With some love and hard work, that cat went from hissing at everyone and everything to a calm and chill cat. He still went to be a barn cat, but his owner told us that he wants to be loved on every now and then. And from a feral cat? what more can you ask. cats are amazing creatures. You have to prove yourself to them. But once you do? Its amazing.

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  • I agree. I honestly hate people who say they hate any animal. 99% of the time, they either just don't know anything about them, or they had one bad experience and then decided all of them were bad. My cat is an asshole sometimes (he's 4 and in his rowdy stage) but I love him with all of my heart, and despite everyone telling me to put him up for adoption when he started having health problems and behavioral issues, I kept him and worked with him and he's a sweet little angel. He gets under my blankets and sleeps with me at night. He tries to groom me. He lets me hold him on his back like a baby and purrs while I do it. And he was a feral kitten when I rescued him off the streets. He's so gentle and rarely bites or scratches unless he feels trapped or threatened. Cats are wonderful, people just don't know how to work with/train any animal that isn't a dog. People barely know how to properly train dogs anyway fjskdjskhd

  • I love to read this, your experience with 🐈 🐈 and 🐕 🐕. You sharing this is very much appreciated.

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Porn is disgusting and anyone who watches it is sick. Yes, even you. Sorry not sorry.

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  • I don't watch porn anymore, but as a teen with no real sex education, I used to watch it trying to learn. And of course I know it's all fake, and I tried to find amateur videos for that reason. But a lot of the porn out there is disgusting... Not all of it though. I don't have a problem with people who watch porn, just people who are addicted to it or people who watch really fucked up shit.

  • If you can't explain why then your argument is invalid

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I don't understand how rape is such a universal and frequent thing. First of all, even if I'm horny as hell and feel like dying from the lack of sex, it makes me sick to only imagine doing that to someone. Okay, horrible people exist, I get that. But even then, it can hardly be enjoyable to beat a struggling person, hold them down, and force your way into an unaroused, dry vagina/anus? I mean, you could probably as well fuck your vacuum cleaner, that one at least doesn't try to get away. So why the hell does it happen so often?

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  • Cuz you're normal Hun. These people who do his don't do it for sexual arousal. They're sociopaths who don't feel anything so they're angry and whoever they see they can control, they go after. To fill their angry sexual lust

  • Its not really about the quality of the ''sex'' its about having power over another human being. They like to feel less like piece of shit losers. A lot of the time they're not even overly attracted to the person they're assaulting. They just want the rush and to feel like they hold someone else's future in their hands. Or so a few of my rapists have admitted.

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Been in a hospital for eight days now. Damm tooth.

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  • Oh shit what happened to it that you have to stay in the hospital?

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Ladies, can we talk for a sec? Especially the ones in their 20s..... Why do y'all keep enabling bad behaviors in men?? You make these dudes believe that what they do is okay and then expect other women to be okay with that bullcrap?! Especially you Taurus , cancer and Pisces women. Like cut that shit out and be a real woman!! No it's not ok for men to fuck around and you be faithful to him. No it's not okay or sexy when he curses you out and disrespects you. We are queens and we deserve to be treated as such. Don't have these boys thinking being that way is cute. Trust me, we women have more power than we think. If we push our guys to be real men, we can and trust me, they'll appreciate it. I've seen it. Why do you think single men in their late 20s, 30s still act like boys? Because they don't have a woman to put them in their place. Same can be said about guys who date immature girls. The majority of these men are garbage and we allow these dudes to get away with their fuckery. I was talking to a dude and his mfer had the nerve to say that he's poly and he can't help his urges and can't be with just one woman but his "women" are like his property and he's very possessive. And it's because he was in a 3 way relationship where these thots allowed this. He told me he never can go back to anything else again. So good job ladies on enabling shitty ass behavior in men. Stop being a slave to them. Stop thinking that it's okay for them to treat you bad but you still have to clean up after him, cook for him and put up with his fuckery while he does NOTHING for you. Fuck that. If you stood up to it, trust me it will make him think twice. But once you allow it, they get addicted to that and go around thinking all women will be okay with that and most are, but us queens, us REAL women.. Know our worth and value and would never settle for that kind of garbage. So think long and hard before you let a man get away with everything and think what benefit does that have? Oh you don't wanna end up alone? Honey, there are more men than women in the world. Pick and choose. Stop letting these fuckboys put in your head that your worth is nothing. And another thing.. Stop letting men Pin us against each other. Stop that jealous shit and support your fellow females cuz y'all know damn well we go through too much. Life is very unfair to us.

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  • ok slightly batshit mom

  • This lost me at Taurus

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Im so fucking hurt right now. I respected this woman’s boundaries for 2 fucking years and I just found out tonight she’s having a baby by another dude it barely been 5 months since we broke up. We started dating 2016 and she ended things in December 2018 and im so dead inside right now. I gave every ounce of love I had to this woman. She told me she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex and despite my concerns and hesitation I accepted it and was faithful to her in a sexless relationship just for her to fuck some other dude and have a baby by him not even 5 months later. I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life. This was supposed to be my future wife, we were supposed to have a family together. I put my all into this woman. I’m just in absolute shock right now I can hardly breathe.

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  • Wow, you have dodged a bullet. Please be thankful for that. I know it hurts at the same time! Believe me, I can really feel you right now. But please see that you have indeed dodged a bullet!

  • i know that feeling of not being able ro breathe all too well. just like you i couldnt any other way to describe that pain inside. believe me time heals all wounds and it will get better I promise. i know right now that seems stupid unrealistic and probably annoying but its true. i felt like that when my friends and family would tell me after a heartbreaking end with a man i was inlove with. in fact i wanted to punch anybody in the face that uttered those words. as long as you have no personality or mood disorders or depression or any kind of mental health issues ( if you do please see a counselor. you will need help getting thru this) you will be just fine in time. this could be a blessing in disguise. maybe you will actually meet the love of your life cus it wasnt her. just be grateful u didmt marry her amd have kids with her just 2 find out she is fucking some other dude that would be 100× worse and painful 4 you. u will be ok.

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I fell inlove with a gay guy for almost 2 years, who later became my bestfriend, he knew though, but he has a bf, he had gf’s before. I thought I’ll never get over him, and now I am flirting with a straight guy who is flirting me back, and my bestfriend, doesn’t like him for me. What shall I do?

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  • I'd ask WHY he doesn't like him for you, but you gotta know it's your life. Maybe he's wrong about what you need in life?

  • Have you asked your friend WHY he doesn't like him? My boyfriend's gay best friend didn't like his old girlfriend and people assumed it wss because he was,in love with him himself. Really it was because the woman called him slurs and gloated about setting a gay guy's car on fire. Said he should 'be careful' where he parked.

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Just wondering though, for real fubus, the ones who are really great friends with each other, do you turn into a fubu because you like them physically?, I mean, it is physical right? Means you are attracted to each other? And is it possible to turn into a real relationship.

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  • In a fwb arrangement 18 months now. Fell in love. It's not reciprocated but I kinda expected that. We're very good friends and that's the really important part imo.

  • I hate the term fubu

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despite struggling with anxiety and depression, i managed to finished my first semester in diploma

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  • I think you've been doing great, I wish I can also follow your footsteps. I am happy for you, in a way your experience will also motivate me.

  • Good job! I struggle with those things too, so I know how hard it is. Keep it up :)

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