Not rven dreaming, but it feels like doing acrobatics in my sleep that when I am awake, my body aches. Fxk you my fragile muscles.
I swear I stand so strongly by the fact that people who hate cats, have never been loved by a cat. And im not talking the "yeah cats are okay, but I prefer dogs." Im talking the countless people that come into the shelter I work at and turn their nose up at cats. The ones who when I say say where the cat room is(I say where all the rooms are when someone asks to look around) go "oh id never own a cat. I hate them." Ive always loved cats and always wanted one. October 4th 2018, i got that chance. My moms friends cat had an accidental litter. She did the right thing. She paid to get mom and all babies spayed and neutered and then gave the kittens away. In the end she was left with 2 brothers. I took one when he was 6 months old. And let me tell you.... He came to me as a scared boy. He wasnt fond of being touched. He hid a lot. He didnt eat. But after 2 days of giving him his space and all the food and toys he could want? He came out of his shell. He is the most loving thing. Im his favorite place to lay on. Ive had a lot of dogs... snd two right now that ive had for 5 and 3 years. And theres just... theres a different bond with this animal. I love my dogs deeply. I wouldnt trade them for anything. But theres just a different bond between you and a cat and you and a dog. And its because that cat chooses you. Dog are easy. food and pats and youre in with 90% of dogs. Cats are different. You have to earn every pawstep of their love. I remember one we had at the shelter a while back. I used to work cat intake. So Id clean the new cats every day. One day we got this old tabby boy. He was pissed. He was mad at the world. he hated everyone. I got a few claw marks from him from just trying to clean him. I dont know why... but i took to him. I liked him. I decided to earn his trust. So i set about my mission. Over the course of a couple weeks(we had no room on the adoption floor for him) I slowly pushed hos boundaries. Sitting beside his closed cage for a few minutes. Figuring out his favroite food. Sitting beside his open cage. Letting him sniff my hand. One quick pet on the head. A chin scratch. One rub down his back. A few more rubs. A chin scratch snd a head pat. Just slowly... slowly started to earn his trust. Then one day i went for it. I picked him up just long enough to put him in my lap. He stayed. He purred. He let me pet him. After about 5 minutes, He was done and got back in his cage. After that... we were friends. Everyday he would let me hold him and love on him for a few minutes. He would let others pet him if i held him, but no one else got the privilege of holding him. Then he started headbutting me. And meowing when i walked in the room. I loved that cat. And he started to like me. It was the best feeling ever. With some love and hard work, that cat went from hissing at everyone and everything to a calm and chill cat. He still went to be a barn cat, but his owner told us that he wants to be loved on every now and then. And from a feral cat? what more can you ask. cats are amazing creatures. You have to prove yourself to them. But once you do? Its amazing.
Porn is disgusting and anyone who watches it is sick. Yes, even you. Sorry not sorry.
I don't understand how rape is such a universal and frequent thing. First of all, even if I'm horny as hell and feel like dying from the lack of sex, it makes me sick to only imagine doing that to someone. Okay, horrible people exist, I get that. But even then, it can hardly be enjoyable to beat a struggling person, hold them down, and force your way into an unaroused, dry vagina/anus? I mean, you could probably as well fuck your vacuum cleaner, that one at least doesn't try to get away. So why the hell does it happen so often?
Been in a hospital for eight days now. Damm tooth.
Ladies, can we talk for a sec? Especially the ones in their 20s..... Why do y'all keep enabling bad behaviors in men?? You make these dudes believe that what they do is okay and then expect other women to be okay with that bullcrap?! Especially you Taurus , cancer and Pisces women. Like cut that shit out and be a real woman!! No it's not ok for men to fuck around and you be faithful to him. No it's not okay or sexy when he curses you out and disrespects you. We are queens and we deserve to be treated as such. Don't have these boys thinking being that way is cute. Trust me, we women have more power than we think. If we push our guys to be real men, we can and trust me, they'll appreciate it. I've seen it. Why do you think single men in their late 20s, 30s still act like boys? Because they don't have a woman to put them in their place. Same can be said about guys who date immature girls. The majority of these men are garbage and we allow these dudes to get away with their fuckery. I was talking to a dude and his mfer had the nerve to say that he's poly and he can't help his urges and can't be with just one woman but his "women" are like his property and he's very possessive. And it's because he was in a 3 way relationship where these thots allowed this. He told me he never can go back to anything else again. So good job ladies on enabling shitty ass behavior in men. Stop being a slave to them. Stop thinking that it's okay for them to treat you bad but you still have to clean up after him, cook for him and put up with his fuckery while he does NOTHING for you. Fuck that. If you stood up to it, trust me it will make him think twice. But once you allow it, they get addicted to that and go around thinking all women will be okay with that and most are, but us queens, us REAL women.. Know our worth and value and would never settle for that kind of garbage. So think long and hard before you let a man get away with everything and think what benefit does that have? Oh you don't wanna end up alone? Honey, there are more men than women in the world. Pick and choose. Stop letting these fuckboys put in your head that your worth is nothing. And another thing.. Stop letting men Pin us against each other. Stop that jealous shit and support your fellow females cuz y'all know damn well we go through too much. Life is very unfair to us.
Im so fucking hurt right now. I respected this woman’s boundaries for 2 fucking years and I just found out tonight she’s having a baby by another dude it barely been 5 months since we broke up. We started dating 2016 and she ended things in December 2018 and im so dead inside right now. I gave every ounce of love I had to this woman. She told me she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex and despite my concerns and hesitation I accepted it and was faithful to her in a sexless relationship just for her to fuck some other dude and have a baby by him not even 5 months later. I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life. This was supposed to be my future wife, we were supposed to have a family together. I put my all into this woman. I’m just in absolute shock right now I can hardly breathe.
I fell inlove with a gay guy for almost 2 years, who later became my bestfriend, he knew though, but he has a bf, he had gf’s before. I thought I’ll never get over him, and now I am flirting with a straight guy who is flirting me back, and my bestfriend, doesn’t like him for me. What shall I do?
Just wondering though, for real fubus, the ones who are really great friends with each other, do you turn into a fubu because you like them physically?, I mean, it is physical right? Means you are attracted to each other? And is it possible to turn into a real relationship.
despite struggling with anxiety and depression, i managed to finished my first semester in diploma