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My sisters hate men, and they take it out on me. they pretend like it's feminism or whatever but really they just are so angry and bitter towards anything ''manly'' and i had to pay the price for it cuz they are older. the result is that i now pretend that they died, i ignore them completely and don't interact with them at all... after a couple years of this i think they are starting to understand what their blind hatred did, and how it destroyed the family, but now i don't care anymore, dealing with that was hell, and now that i'm strong enough to just ignore them completely, i will never go back, i will let them live in regret of the things that they did just because i am the youngest sibling.

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if you just started dating someone and you guys like each other, so you guys have sex and then you find out she has an std and now so do you. does that make me a dumb ass for liking her and trusting her to be clean as i was. Or is she really a careless person and should do better? now we are having a hard time getting rid of this and it really turns me off

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  • It is very careless to have unprotected sex with someone you don't know well, and it doesn't make it any less careless that she might or might not have known about the std herself. I am not judging you, I have done dumb shit like that in the past (I slept with a boy who told me he's a virgin and therefore I didn't insisted in using a condom, and later I slept with my boyfriend without ever having been tested - if the first guy had lied to me, my boyfriend would now be infected without really being to blame. I was young and too naive.) Learn from this and never do it again.

  • Did she give it to you knowingly? If so, she is careless and maybe you should seriously reevaluate your relationship...

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I wonder why the fuck the shoulder straps in bras and swimsuits are so long even when shortened to the minimum. How big do the designers think shoulders are?

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  • I... actually have very broad shoulders. I can never tighten those straps all the way.

  • Actually, my bra straps are always almost extended the farthest it's possible. Maybe it's just like that for huge cup sizes, because women with huge boobs tend to be really big (often overweight), so their shoulders actually are massive. So I guess you're either big breasted with small shoulders, have incredibly tiny shoulders or are buying weird designed bras and swim suits.

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I've never been in a romantic relationship or on a date because I'm scared of men in those contexts. But I have this stupid yearning for romance and cuddling and stuff. I hate both of these feelings because they're so unreasonable.

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  • I'm a dude and i had dates but im also scared that it will be awkward and we won't have what to talk about or not get along. but i keep trying because in the few times that i met someone that likes me and that i like, it's the best, getting to be cuddly and sweet with someone who likes you is the best feeling

  • I'm a dude and i had dates but im also scared that it will be awkward and we won't have what to talk about or not get along. but i keep trying because in the few times that i met someone that likes me and that i like, it's the best, getting to be cuddly and sweet with someone who likes you is the best feeling

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I hate when people start arguments about anything related to rape or sexual assault or just taking advantage of people. I get really heated about it because, as someone who was taken advantage of and sexually assaulted, I have very strong opinions. And I've come to realize that people who haven't been in those situations just... don't understand. Like for example, people don't get that someone can take advantage of a willing participant. A group chat was arguing with me that celebrities who sleep with their fans aren't doing anything wrong as long as everyone is over 18 because the fans want it. But I argued that they're using their status and taking advantage of the fans' adoration to just use them like a sex toy before tossing them aside and moving on, and it's disgusting behavior. Now I just can't stop thinking of my personal experience and I'm so angry that people are okay with that kind of thing, and my mood is ruined. It's just so upsetting.

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  • I also hate when I have a strong opinion on something, especially when I'm the expert and the others are not... I'd say everyone knows this feeling. However, sometimes we just aren't the experts. Sometimes, we feel like we know it better than the others because we have been in this situation, completely ignoring the fact that everyone experiences situations differently and that, unless the situation is the very same, situations itself can be entirely different even though they look the same at the first glance. I have had several strong opinions on things and argued about them as if my life depended on it, and later realized that I had been completely wrong and just reacted so strongly because I was emotional about it.

  • So if I sleep with my crush, who I admire and am crazy about and dreamt about getting with for ages, he's actually abusing me? I seriously don't get the logic. Yes, the celebrieties are taking advantage of the situation that they can easily get sex from the fans. But taking advantage does not mean abuse. Abuse would be to pressure a fan who doesn't want to sleep with you into having sex with you - for example by saying he's not a real fan if he doesn't sleep with you, and then repeatedly pressuring him when he says no. But as long as the fan is WILLING to have the sex, how can it be rape or abuse? That's exactly the same as the, in my eyes, stupid drunk-debate. Some people say that drunk people can't consent and therefore every intercourse with a drunk person is rape or abuse. Which is just... it's insane and far from reality. I also think that, since you had an actual abuse happening to you and now have a trauma, the whole topic of sex is too sensitive for you.

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Beyonce ain't shit. she's extreme overrated.

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  • I think the whole package of her (which I also think is the reason for why she's so hyped) is actually pretty unique and therefore admirable. She looks beautiful, she somehow manages to be both black and white enough to be worshipped by both black and white fans who can identify with her, she has this perfect little family, she seems to be strong as hell but still ladylike, her music is awesome to okay to meh, at least not total trash (mostly). I don't know anyone else who has all that.

  • is this not common knowledge? her music is trash and she is basic as fuck.

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Its really difficult to put my desires into words. There is so much i want to do, but i have no energy for anything. I am so tired. I want to get stronger, i want to create art, i want to lern chinese and russian, i want to practice calligraphy and typography, but altough there are so many things i want, i have no energy to do even one of these. I am a bad person, weak and pathetic. Time is running out. I dont want this body anmore, nor this life. Everytime i want to end my life my other half finds excuses to push it back a little. One day when i end it all, the most satisfying thing will be that this side dies with me.

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  • Start with something small. You want to do all these things because you are a free soul. Cherish tch that in yourself. Find out what it is that stops you from doing what you really want to do. I know what it feels like. But start small and you will feel very different! Just like nature doesnt bloom all year round, so won't you. You just know what kind of person you WANT to be, and realise you're not that person right now. That's a gift bc not a lot of people have this insight. So use that to become that person you want to be. And don't be too hard on yourself. You're not obligated to be perfect. Take your time. Know that I, a stranger cares :)

  • Depression can make you feel like that. Buy I promise, once you make yourself start doing something, you'll start wanting to do it more. But please, get help.

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I hate not being able to drive. But I'm so scared of driving. But it's starting to become REALLY inconvenient that I can't drive. My crush actually invited me to go hang out with him and some friends, and I might not be able to go if I can't find a ride. It's just embarrassing. I really want to drive, I'm just so scared...

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  • The textbook approach for dealing with fear is to break it down into smaller sections and then voluntarily expose yourself to those smaller pieces. good luck

  • Can't your crush or the friends pick you up?

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Im really sad right now :/ I cabt find a job.. i cry everyday..i feel shit most of the time. I lie to my family everyday when they ask if im ok.. i smile all the time so people thinks that im really ok :/ i dont want them to know that im dying inside :( i was at the doc.. they told me i dont have depression and that im just pissed of. He gave me medicine to precent that i do bevome a depressive person.. i have to take ghat for 20 days.. im so shitty that i lie to myself that im ok and do not take the medicine :/.. i dont even know why im afraid to take this shit medicine.. im fucking confused.. somedays i try to sleep just to have the feeling that i dont have to think anymore.. fuck -.- i dont know.. sometimes i think im gonna explode :/ sorry for poor english.. its not my mother tongue

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  • Please take your meds. It's dangerous to not take them because you think you're fine. You know you're not fine. Don't worry too much about the job thing, just keep trying. You'll find one.

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i'm lonely. and i had a way out, and was close to the light trough my hobby, but i injured myself and lost it. now back to loneliness until i recover. i thought i couldn't take it anymore, but now i have no option but to wait

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  • We are here, confesster community listening to you.

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