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I hate my parents in law. I hate how they treat me. They're the sort of people who highly value politeness, and this is the reason for why we hate each other; because we have different understandings of politeness. For them, it's the excessive use of "thank you" (no, saying it one time and being sincere about it isn't enough, they want to hear it so often over even the tiniest things that everyone else would think you're being sarcastic), always formally saying hello and goodbye with a handshake (which I was taught to only do the first time you meet someone, and later be casual. Our families are just different here, which is unfortunate and I don't think anyone's to blame) and talking a lot, which isn't a possibility for someone who's as shy as me - I guess every person who's shy can relate to this. Extroverts think you hate them or are being rude when you don't talk much. Which brings us to what I see as being polite: making someone, especially when they're guest in your house, feel wanted and welcomed. By looking them in the eyes when you come in and say hello, by being friendly to them even if you don't like them very much. Especially when your son wants to marry this person. I always try my best to not show that I hate them - at the beginning I didn't even, I tried to understand why they were so cold - try to talk more, to say thank you loud and clearly and as much as I can fit into the conversation, to not tell my boyfriend that I have problems with them because I know it upsets him. And they? Openly hate me, ask my boyfriend why he even wants me and don't make an effort to try to understand me. If we were living alone, I would have no problem with all of that, just avoid visiting them, but we're both still living with our parents, and since my place is too small to have 4 people in it, we mostly sleep and hang out at his place. We're both the type to really need to be close and around each other all the time. Which now doesn't seem to be possible anymore because I don't know how long I can bear this anymore. (So, this is the end of the confession, but I feel the need to clarify a few things. First of all, There are reasons for why we're still living at home, and it's not because we're too lazy to work. Secondly, I know there are problems far worse, but I needed to rant about this. Furthermore, I'd like to apologise for my aggressive tone, I'm mad at them, not at you.)

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I hate my parents in law. I hate how they treat me. They're the sort of people who highly value politeness, and this is the reason for why we hate each other; because we have different understandings of politeness. For them, it's the excessive use of "thank you" (no, saying it one time and being sincere about it isn't enough, they want to hear it so often over even the tiniest things that everyone else would think you're being sarcastic), always formally saying hello and goodbye with a handshake (which I was taught to only do the first time you meet someone, and later be casual. Our families are just different here, which is unfortunate and I don't think anyone's to blame) and talking a lot, which isn't a possibility for someone who's as shy as me - I guess every person who's shy can relate to this. Extroverts think you hate them or are being rude when you don't talk much. Which brings us to what I see as being polite: making someone, especially when they're guest in your house, feel wanted and welcomed. By looking them in the eyes when you come in and say hello, by being friendly to them even if you don't like them very much. Especially when your son wants to marry this person. I always try my best to not show that I hate them - at the beginning I didn't even, I tried to understand why they were so cold - try to talk more, to say thank you loud and clearly and as much as I can fit into the conversation, to not tell my boyfriend that I have problems with them because I know it upsets him. And they? Openly hate me, ask my boyfriend why he even wants me and don't make an effort to try to understand me. If we were living alone, I would have no problem with all of that, just avoid visiting them, but we're both still living with our parents, and since my place is too small to have 4 people in it, we mostly sleep and hang out at his place. We're both the type to really need to be close and around each other all the time. Which now doesn't seem to be possible anymore because I don't know how long I can bear this anymore. (So, this is the end of the confession, but I feel the need to clarify a few things. First of all, There are reasons for why we're still living at home, and it's not because we're too lazy to work. Secondly, I know there are problems far worse, but I needed to rant about this. Furthermore, I'd like to apologise for my aggressive tone, I'm mad at them, not at you.)

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i just wanna scream and yell and break things and get away from people for just 1 full day.

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  • same lol

  • So, take the day off and go somewhere?

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A girl I didn't like at work either quit or was fired so that's great. She was obnoxious, fake, and just plain rude.

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  • It’s small victories like this that need to be celebrated. Trust me, annoying coworkers getting fired happens less and less often as you move up the ladder. Enjoy the moment, buy a cake, have a bottle of bourbon

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I think people who belive in The Secret as in ''positive thinking will make things happen in your life'' are literally retarded. and they can't see the obvious correlation and not causation of ''positive thinking''.

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  • OP sounds like a miserable fuck

  • Thoughts become actions. Actions become habits. You're an idiot for believing that positive thinking won't impact your life at all. Making yourself see the brighter side of things won't make your wishes come true, but it'll put you in the right mindset to make those things happen, and it'll make you more ready to accept such opportunities.

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''At least 36 school shootings and/or school-related acts of violence have been committed by those taking or withdrawing from psychiatric drugs resulting in 172 wounded and 80 killed (in other school shootings, information about their drug use was never made public—neither confirming or refuting if they were under the influence of prescribed drugs). The most important fact about this list, is that these are only cases where the information about their psychiatric drug use was made public'' -from CCHR International website

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  • Stop right there!

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I am a wreck. But would i want it any other way? i dont think so.

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  • Damn, that's low.. You really don't care about yourself enough to not even capitalize the letter "i"??

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Please don't be rude to call center agents. If I process a charge on the wrong account because YOU gave me the wrong account number, I'll apologize and do everything I can to fix it. But don't get rude with me because you don't know your account number and didn't give me any clues I was in the wrong account. As far as I could see, it was the right one. Everything looked nornal. I can only go based off of what you give me, you didn't even tell me you had another account.

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  • same thing for restaurants... if you give me the wronf order. or you watch me make it and see something wrong. speak up. I can only go based on what you told me or what showed up on my order slip. cant read minds

  • Hello! (In my sassy voice)

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My sisters hate men, and they take it out on me. they pretend like it's feminism or whatever but really they just are so angry and bitter towards anything ''manly'' and i had to pay the price for it cuz they are older. the result is that i now pretend that they died, i ignore them completely and don't interact with them at all... after a couple years of this i think they are starting to understand what their blind hatred did, and how it destroyed the family, but now i don't care anymore, dealing with that was hell, and now that i'm strong enough to just ignore them completely, i will never go back, i will let them live in regret of the things that they did just because i am the youngest sibling.

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  • *some women

  • Men are amazing. Some are a dick head. Like they brought their crotch up to their head kind of dick head. But other men are amazing. Humanity wont survive without men. Men are gems too like women. I just dont understand why women hates all of them. It sounds like theyre dehumanizing men.

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if you just started dating someone and you guys like each other, so you guys have sex and then you find out she has an std and now so do you. does that make me a dumb ass for liking her and trusting her to be clean as i was. Or is she really a careless person and should do better? now we are having a hard time getting rid of this and it really turns me off

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  • You're a dumbass and she's evil.

  • She knew she had it? if so she is evil, disgusting and demented. that's a psychopathic thing to do. run the fuck away, even tho it's not much help, she infected you already. you could take her to court

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