I hate people who intentionally give someone with anxiety the silent treatment as a form of punishment. They know it drives them insane with worry and self-hate, yet they do it anyway. And it's almost always people who claim to love them. That's not love. It's abuse.
Sometimes I miss my ex. We didn't break up because the love died, we just broke up because we had different plans for the future. He's not perfect, but I loved him. I'm not in love with him anymore, but I do still care about him. And I'd be lying if I said I wasn't at least a little bit attracted to him still. I just wish things were different. Or I at least wish I could get a new boyfriend so I could stop thinking about my ex every time I get lonely.
I'm so fucking gay and I want a girlfriend SO BAD but at the same time I have a crush on a guy lmao. Honestly if I had the choice, I'd rather have a girlfriend right now, but I'd be so happy if my crush asked me out. I just want someone to give my love to.
Being a girl who likes girls is really confusing, at least for me. Not being able to get off because I couldn't look at her naked without being jealous of her perfect bidy and feeling bad about my own. Staring at a girl's ass and not even knowing myself whether I admire the butt or the cute jeans. Am I into her or is this friendship - I have no idea, years of believing I can or should only feel something for boys confused me about what this feeling actually is. And, of course, the age old question: is she flirting with me or is this just the typical girls-can-touch-without-being-gay thing?
I need advice from any of the lesbian or bi people on here... How does one get in contact with other lesbian or bi people, I really just need someone to talk to or confide in, someone to give me advice.
She keeps saying that im funny, is that a flirt?
I'm always fantasizing about my future with my boyfriend. I know that thinking about these things is sort of futile since we’re so young and anything could happen, but I just see it. When I’m bored in class, when I’m doing chores around the house, when I can’t fall asleep, I see us. I see us living together. I daydream about little things like going grocery shopping together, or making him breakfast, or taking care of the garden with him, or being able to wear his clothes whenever I want to because they’re right there, in our closet, or falling asleep in the same bed as him every night, and having him be the first thing I see every morning when I open my eyes. And every night that I wake up crying or wanting to cry from a nightmare the only thing that really comforts me is the thought that one day I’ll wake up and I won’t be afraid anymore because he’ll be asleep next to me, on our bed, in our house. I don’t know. I probably sound delusional. We always talk about it. We have it all planned out, essentially. Sometimes thinking about it is the only thing that keeps me going. And I know that’s dangerous. Because it’s not definite yet.
i am worried about someone i care about but i cant tell if she has fallen for me then her bf but im not sure if im ready for something like that i forgot what love feels like so everything is confusing me i do like her but i doubt she does like me
I never thought I'd be into threesomes, but the more I think about it, the more I like the idea. But I also really like the idea of making out with/banging a girl and just making her boyfriend (or mine) watch. If only I actually knew anyone worth banging who would be down.
Why do I always fall so hard for impossible girls? It's so easy for me to get a crush on an attainable guy, but the only girls I get crushes on are either celebrities, in relationships, or straight. I've had 5 boyfriends and only one girlfriend. Why is it so hard to find girls that I can realistically date?