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my best friend loves my boyfriend and my boyfriend loves me dearly and i love him but i care about my best friend alot too . Even though I was mad at first I forgave her at the end. any suggestions? shall I break up with my boyfriend or just let my friend get over it.

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  • No need to break with anybody. Just share him and let everyone be happy!

  • If you consider breaking up with your boyfriend because of someone else's feelings then yes, you should break up.

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So I'm friends with my coworker. A few months ago, he set me up with his brother, and I'm dating him now. This is all well and good. Well my mom works with us too. She left our area for a while but now she's back. My coworker has been essentially hovering around her to chitchat. Now he's always liked talking to my mom, because she's one of few people who can carry an interesting conversation. But he is SO up her ass lately that I can't help but wonder if he's got the hots for her. I really hope he doesn't, because not only is she not even single, but she's twice his age! A small age gap is fine, but not that. Not dating someone old enough to have birthed you. Plus, even if she was interested and they dated, it would be REALLY fucking weird for my brother in law to be my stepdad. Part of me thinks maybe it only bothers me so much because some subconscious part of me is jealous since I used to have a crush on him... but no. I haven't had feelings for him in a long time. And it's just gross to chase someone that much older who isn't even single. But if he does even have a crush on her (since I'm really just speculating), I'll admit I'd be a bit hurt that he never once found interest in me, but he did find interest in a woman who is related to me and twice his age.

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  • he is after the money of your mom! monitor him from distance, i am 100% sure you will find out!

  • I have always gotten along with older women. they like to be teased and complimented too. and they have lots of interesting stories and different viewpoints. I've never dated one other than eating lunch at work together.

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flirts with me and then five seconds later dosen't even care. my feeling are all over the place I really like them though but I feel they are just joking about it .

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I've had a wifes friend come onto me and it's been tempting me ever since shes not even cute but my wife and I have been distant lately and it's hard sometimes i need someone to be my conscience

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  • Maybe her friend doesn't even want to have an affair and is she just playing you to see if you will be tempted or not... that's happening a lot nowdays

  • No no no what the hell are these comments?! You should NOT get involved with her! How would you feel if your wife started seeing someone (let alone your friend for God's sake) behind your back? If you want to see this girl, you should go through your divorce first. If you really think that's worth it, ask for a divorce. But I can tell you now, it isn't. You should never get divorced/seperated because of a third person. You should get divorced/seperate purely because you don't love that person anymore, not because the grass is greener on the other side. It really isn't. Sorry for the rant but PLEASE do not be like this... It will break your wife forever..

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I really like my best friend . we do spend the most of the time together talking and hanging out , I want to tell them but I dont want to ruin the friendship and I don't know if they like me .i dont know wat to do

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  • Don't say anything. Don't date them. I've ruined so many friendships by dating my friends.

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I'm thinking about becoming celibate for the rest of my life

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  • I mean, sure, why not? But if you're just doing it because you're butthurt over a rejection, then... come on dude. Grow up.

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How can i stop thinking about him? I tried meditating... Did nit work. He pops up all the tike, and my heart trembles.. I need him to be gone!

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  • If that's your ex you are talking about, time will heal the wounds, if that's a crush then you have two options to get over him with time or you can start hating him, it helps. Or you can just tell him how i feel. When i am on the critic point of liking someone i just tell them even tho i know he would say no. And no is actually what i need because if he said he wants to be with me i would probably frick out... 😂

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Three of my exs are talking to me lately. Whyyy... I'm in the longest and best relationship I've ever had, so I really don't need distractions or temptations.

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  • Explain it to them and stop talking to them if you see them as a distraction

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When me and my boyfriend talk about things we want to do together in the future, it makes me really happy and it gets me excited about moving forward instead of fearing the inevitable changes. Today we talked about what kind of dogs we'd want to have, what size bed we'd get, even looked at cool dish drying racks online haha. It's just nice to think about spending my life with him and casually sharing every day with someone I love so much.

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I'm currently playing around with 2 of my friends with some romantic interest. They are both aware of it and both said they were alright with it, at least until either relationship gets more serious. What they don't know is that there is a third person who I used to have a mostly sexual relationship with that I'm starting to see again with the idea of resuming our previous relationship. I want to note I have no romantic interest on this third person. Honestly speaking, I believe my ideal would be to be with all three of them and somehow make it work with everyone being happy. But I'm not so sure how to make that happen nor if something like that can ever work.

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  • have a group with them and have all your holes stuffed!

  • Slowly let everyone know you believe you would enjoy or even prefer "open" relationships. I have limited experience with this and two close friends who have open relationships. we each have our long term partners but occasionally have other meaningful long term relationships. Mine situation is less obvious but my two friends have 100% open relationships.

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