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I have 80+ notes on my phone so I know things I like to look up or things I want for my birthday or Christmas things to pack to a friends house what to watch on YouTube etc it makes me anxious and I start obsessing if I don’t write notes down it’s like when I write stuff down it takes away my anxiety But I’m not sure why I don’t understand I mean like why is that comforting is it because I have control or what I don’t understand it just gives me a breath of fresh air when i write it down knowing I can’t forget it now and I don’t have to obsess with thinking about what I was trying to remember

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  • I'm the same way. Writing things down helps me not feel anxious because I worry about forgetting things a lot (because I forget things a lot). Nothing wrong with doing it tbh. It's a good way to organize your thoughts.

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I wish I could just fall in love with somebody who loves me back, is good for me, and maybe actually lives in the continental US. That'd be great.

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so my husband has been fucking my "best friend" for about two months and she doesn't know that I know. we're poly and she knows this but she still went to him behind my back. he of course told me right away but I've waited to see if she'd tell me and she hasn't yet. I'm just upset that she feels the need to hide something from me JUST to hide it and that she's clearly not the friend I thought she was. she's due with her first baby in a couple weeks and if she hasn't told me by time she has him I'm cutting her off (which means he will too). to make it worse we've even had several conversations where I've expressed that I would be ok with it and that he doesn't do anything sexually without me knowing. she's constantly telling me to leave him too because "he doesn't love you like he says he does"...yeah he's not the one who's lying to me. (the only bright side is I getting excited about sharing him so at least I'm still getting something out of it.)

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  • I like romance as in "18th-19th-Century-Prose". You and your lifestyle sicken me and I think you should overthink polyamory forthwith.

  • maybe she knew your husband told you, so you already know. some people won't tell you something if you already know about it. now with that being said. my bestfriend slept with someone I was madly in love with and lied to me for 9months about it until I found out from someone else. and even after I knew, I confronted her and she lied about it for another 2 weeks.... so I know how you feel. and it's near impossible to forgive in those situations. it takes time, it takes a lot of heart and some aspects of it you aren't totally over. our friendship will never be the same. we still talk, I didn't cut her out completely. but I have moments where I feel bitter, where it's uncomfortable to be around her and it's hard to trust her again. if I were you, instead of waiting for her to say something confront her. saves u a lot of time and gives her a chance to say something about it. the comment below, the part about losing friends and not knowing why, i've had that happen a lot too...and some I still don't know what it was. but if someone thinks I hurt them or theirs something they don't like, i'd prefer the chance to change it or understand what happened. There's a lot to factor in and every situation is unique. but thats my 5cents

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I'm going to type this here because I just need to get the words out. Maybe saying it to someone else first will give me the courage to say it to him. Idk. I just have to get it off my chest. Hey, um... I need to talk to you. No, don't worry, it's not anything terrible. I just... I need to ask you something. Just please let me say everything I need to before you respond, okay? ...The thing is, I really like you. A lot. And I wasn't gonna say anything, cause I know that there's no way we could date while you're my boss. And I was willing to wait until one of us just quits or gets moved to a different area, cause for a little while, I was starting to think that maybe you might actually like me back. But... I heard a rumor that you actually have a girlfriend, and that it's kind of a secret. Which I mean, if that's true, then that's great! I'm really happy for you. I just... Well, if you do have a girlfriend- or even if you don't and you're just not interested- I'd like to know. If I don't have a chance, then please just tell me, cause I don't wanna disrespect your relationship, or our friendship. I've been so scared to tell you how I feel because I didn't want to risk losing you as a friend... but I didn't want to waste my time waiting and wondering, either, so... here I am. So... tell me. Do I have any chance at all with you?

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  • secret girlfriend is a red flag dear. just sayin.

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All my friends think I shouldn't be with my boyfriend. To be clear, my friends aren't assholes who try to interfere with my life; it took them quite a while to speak up because they didn't want to ruin it for me just because of an opinion they have. But then they slowly started questioning me about whether I'm *really* happy? And don't you, I don't know, want to try dating some other people before settling down? Recently they went as far as giving me an intervention. What really was the killing point for me though was when this one guy, who's dating my friend and had met my boyfriend and me for the very first time, later apparently said to her: "he's terrible, please tell your friend to ditch him". Like... It's one thing if my friends have this opinion, they might be biased, but if a total stranger has this impression upon meeting us the very first time... Now the thing is, I love my boyfriend and I don't see any problem in our relationship. I never did. But after this I do and I don't know how to deal with it. I don't even know what exactly it is that people don't like about us - they always say that they "can't really explain", but I guess they just don't want to so they don't hurt my feelings. I don't want to tell my boyfriend because it would hurt him a lot, so I don't have anyone to discuss this with and I don't know how to deal with it by myself. By the way, my family, on the other hand, love my boyfriend and constantly tell me that I should do everything to keep him.

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  • You could talk to your family.

  • Take a step back and look at everything. How does he treat you? How does he talk to you? How does he act around others, and is it different than how he acts when you're alone? How often does he try to tell you what to do? Does he ever hurt you, physically or emotionally? Does he ever twist things on you and always make you feel like you're at fault? And be honest with yourself. Really analyze why people might dislike him. Maybe it's nothing to do with how he treats you, maybe he's just got an abrasive personality. Maybe he has opinions that most people don't agree with. Maybe he's just loud. Maybe he's nice to you but mean to others. Some of my exes were like that. The best person to me, but awful to others, or just rude. After looking at all of this, if you genuinely don't see a problem, then don't listen to your friends. And if you do see some problems or red flags, maybe think about what that means for your relationship.

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i'm honestly going to give flowers to my boyfriend's mother for raising the best son in the galaxy

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  • Your boyfriend's mom surely gonna love you.

  • That's so sweet!

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My ex has met the perfect man for herself.

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i always get used, like i go out with girls and im so nice to them and everything is perfect. they tell me how much they like me and how much fun the had. after a few days they block me. this has happened way too many times and im sick of it. i try not to get attached but i cant help it. like ill do anything for the people i like but they just wont do the same for me. idk whats wrong with me or what im doing wrong. i can feel myself becoming sad and depressed again. :(

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  • Do you spam them with messages? Can you tell whether they are being honest when they say they had fun with you (do they tell you in person? Do they say it because you ask them? Do they form full sentences or just throw you a quick 'thanks for the date it was fun'?)

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I suspect that my mom might have told my coworker that I have a crush on him. He for some reason brought up to her out of the blue that he has a girlfriend but he wants to keep it a secret (which she passed on to me). And he's been kind of distant with me ever since she told me that. I'm feeling paranoid and thinking maybe she told him I like him and then he told her to tell me he's not single so he wouldn't have to reject me. I mean if she shared his secret, why wouldn't she share mine? I'm mad if she did because I was totally fine with just being his friend and him never knowing about my love for him, but if he knows I like him and feels awkward around me now, I have no chance at staying friends with him. But there's no way I can ask her without pissing her off, and I can't ask him because she might not have told him and then he'd definitely know. idk I know this sounds dumb and I feel like I'm 13 again going over this in my mind, but I'm really upset by this. He means a lot to me.

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Heyyaa Heyya quando la morbidezza incontra la morbidezza, qualcosa chiama la passione può essere accesa.

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  • Wat Wat dammi di nuovo il Watto

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