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Ladies, I’m looking for advice on birth control. My old birth control pills were ridiculous and made me not want to have sex with my boo which is really annoying. Now we just use condoms. What has worked for you guys besides condoms?

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  • From one woman to another: TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR. Different forms of bc won't affect everyone the same way. I know some people who got the arm implant and loved it- and I know others who never stopped menstruating and experienced severe depression because of the implant. No form of bc is 100% effective either. Talk to your doctor and figure which kind is right for you.

  • A friend uses something called "umbrella" which is inserted for 2 years I think and has less hormones. It's also cheap. It's not very common apparently, but try to check it out. I'm also going to switch to that.

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I'm not sure how to word this properly, but I really want to share my excitement somewhere... I think I'm in my first poly relationship. I'm kinda dating this girl who has a boyfriend and he knows me and likes me, he's okay with her dating me and even encourages her to. I say I'm kinda dating her because we do everything a couple would do- we've even agreed that if we officially "declared" a relationship nothing would really change- but we haven't taken that step and officially declared it either. But she says she considers me her girlfriend, so I consider her mine too. And it feels so nice. I love her so much. I know a lot of people frown on poly relationships or think that it's cheating somehow, but no one is sneaking around here. No secrets are being kept. No lies are being told. It really is possible to love more than one person. And I'm so happy to be part of that.

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  • Congrats! Definitely talk to her about declaring it officially, just so there's no room for misunderstanding.

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それが私が本当に本当にあなたを愛している理由です。

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  • WEEEEEEEB

  • smile smile snile, not that pasty smile in front of a lens, but a smiley smile that make your 💓 beats, fluttering to life, I contagious happy smile that will make you, me, they, all warm.

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I saw her a few days ago, she greeted me much to my surprise. We haven't spoke in my many yrs. I used to love her but never had a chance, she made that clear. I was the wrong kind of man for her, I see that now. And I failed as a friend too. The reasons are not clear to me now but I remember being her friend in the hopes that she thought maybe different of me in a weak moment. She had plenty. Her family were her parents and three older brothers. Her father was the only one decent, her mother was a nut case. But the 3 brothers were the worse because they were drug addicts. One of them raped her. But she seems alright now and she's better off without me as a fake friend. I truly hope she finds peace and happiness.

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All I want is to adopt ten homeless cats and snuggle them every day

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  • My wife and I have 7 rescue cats and 2 dogs. Love it when they all snuggle us in bed or watching TV.

  • Or start fostering cats, there's always a cat that needs care and help to find a good family.

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How come every time I fall in love with someone who might actually be good for me instead of settling for someone terrible, it always ends in me getting hurt? I'm so tired of getting heartbroken when I try to make good choices. Why can't I just be happy for once? Why can't I be loved? I keep trying so hard to convince myself I can't possibly be unlovable. But I'm 22 and still haven't managed to keep a single relationship for even a year. Maybe I am unlovable.

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  • you're 22, not 42. you're young. I know lots of people who haven't even dated at all that's that age. early 20s is the time to experiement and see what you like in relationships, date, meet new people. doesn't mean you're unlovable you just haven't found the right guy and that's ok. you don't have to rush things or put yourself down. if you really think there's something offputting you could improve on though, never hurts to build yourself. if you wanted some advice, i'd say focus on yourself, work on you, figure out what you want, make yourself what you want to be and the right guy will love you because you love yourself and know who you are. (that doesn't mean become egotistical or arrogant. swinging too much the other direction can cause issues too)

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My crush and I have been flirting back and forth for a while. I started to think that maybe for once in my life, somebody actually liked me back. Well today I had to find out from someone else that he's secretly dating another girl. I don't know who she is... but I hope they're happy together.

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If I think you're considering leaving I'm gonna leave first. No matter how I feel.

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  • This is... a bad take, man. It's horrible to leave someone just because you suspect they might do it. You'd throw a whole relationship just because of an anxious fear?

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What’s your favorite childhood keepsake as an adult ?

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  • My gold necklace that's shaped as a mouse. I'm the golden mouse in Chinese horoscope and I've always seen that necklace as being lucky. It just made me feel better to wear it at situations where I feel like I need that emotional support

  • Probably my first teddy bear. But I also have a blanket that I affectionately called 'bunny blankie' because of the picture on it.

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I'm in a relationship and the sex is very bad. It's been 2 years and no improvement, and we've tried a lot. The problem here is that we're both each other's firsts - and I really can't tell whether it's so bad because we aren't compatible or because I generally don't like sex. To be honest, I feel like the latter is the case, but since I've never heard of anyone who doesn't like sex (except for asexuals, which I'm not), I rationally think this can't be true. I just wish there was a way to find out - trying someone else and still keeping the relationship is out of question though.

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  • How do you know it's bad if they were your first and you have nothing to compare it to??

  • Have you both tried learning each other's erogenous zones? Look it up and try it out

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