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Sometimes I hate my relationship, but we have a kid together so I try and make it work, because I feel like if I leave him that, he's really going to go done the drain, like real bad. It's not like we hate each other, it's just that we went to fast at the beginning of our relationship, and we are both so mentally broken, that we honestly can't handle a normal situation like normally haha so is it still bad to stay together..?

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  • I can't say anything about it, I don't know you, but being mentally broken together makes it easier to fix that, in my experience...

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I don't experience body dysphoria very often, but today, the whole period thing and bra thing just... really upset me. I wish body parts were detachable and interchangeable, like those Monster High dolls that used to be so popular.

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I love the fact that today's cinematic stories changed its concept. I really love it a lot! I love that films are less intended to be romanticized unless the movie scripted to be romanticized. Fiction is fiction, action is action, horror is horror, romance is romance!

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I really want to dress in drag, like do drag shows, but I have no idea where to start and how to get into the community, and I'm too nervous to ask someone who already does it.

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  • Start trying out drag makeup (youtube tutorials if you need to) and start an Instagram especially for it. Post your looks and tag them well and ask for constructive criticism. You'll get a few drag stars attention. Its a pretty supportive place for newbies. If you're not comfortable showing your face online the best course of action is going to drag shows. Try to replicate the looks at home. Eventually people will notice you as a regular and if you ask for help they'll be excited to give it.

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~UPDATE from I'd appreciate big help here... I'm 18, I'm Male blablabla~ This morning my bff got a call from the guy, he asked if she wanted to go with her brother make a campfire. He asked if I was there and well, he came to pick us up. My bff (who knows I find this guy super nice) made me sit in front, and we talked during the WHOLE ride, about all and nothing (nothing about homosexuality yet). We arrive, start the fire, cook sausages and drink a Palm Bay each. We all talked and had a lot of laughs and good vibes. I was the one putting music and made him discover Billie Eilish. We went through her album, and Wish You Were Gay came up. He seemed to focus on it and talk less, while my friend and her brother talked. So I looked at him staring at the fire a bit silent, and I start singing the whole chorus. At some moments we locked eyes, but really brief At the end, the last "I just kinda wished you were gay" (that I sang louder cause I don't sing well so I can't be as smoothly silent as Billie) he looks up and notices me staring at him. We looked away but he laughed about it and sang again. We arrived an hour ago, and before we left, he gave a fist bump to my friend, a handshake to her brother, and when we shook hands he pulled me in a bear hug (no fighting, he's just a softer big boy) and pat my back, then rolled away... So I guess maybe success? Also: During the night, since he likes fires and lives close, he kept saying we can stay at his house anytime and come any day for a fire... Finals exams are coming and its stressing me, should I take the chance to message him and ask if I can stay for a night?

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  • Can't hurt to ask! Maybe be like 'hey, you mentioned having a fire sometime and people hanging out... When were you thinking of doing that? I'd love to go' instead of inviting yourself over. It's slightly more polite/respectful ahah

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I am 17 very close to 18. I have a family member let's just call her (S) she is 47. I really like her and we'll I've been sniffing her used panties and bras. I also wear them a lot in private. she helps me a lot with my problems and makes me feel really happy so I actually feel really bad. but I can't help it. I really wanna see her naked body.

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  • Dude... bras and underwear are expensive, don't steal that shit. You're not actually in love with her, you're just growing a weird emotional attachment because you depend on her so much, and your brain doesn't know how to process those feelings other than thinking you're in love. You're not actually in love. You just admire her.

  • either there are a lot of aunt fuckers or one dude is really getting off on talking about it on here.

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My boyfriend whines... Like a lot. About traffic, about his job, about his friends and his family, about money, about classes... About a lot. It's been about a year since it started. At the beginning he wasn't like this and at first I didn't give it much thought but lately I get tired from being with him. I have even thought about coming up with excuses just to not go out with him. I feel bad about it but I'm so tired. I just want a normal date, without any complaints.

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  • Inputs determine feelings. Focusing on this stuff will make him depressed. When he starts tell him to shut up or you're not listening. We gotta break this cycle. Don't reward the bad behavior. I'm a guy who used to be like that.

  • Tell him, nicely of course. Don't phrase it as "you complain a lot and I hate it", package it as "I notice you're being pessimistic lately and I'm worried that you're not happy. Can we please talk about it". Tell him that you appreciate that he comes to you with his problems, and that you'll always be his listening ear, but that it's simply not normal to have only bad things to talk about and so few good things.

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Just met with my ex after such a long time.... we both are doing well with our lives. He just broke up with his girlfriend of 1 year, and I've been with no one after I broke up with him, 8 years ago. I don't think we still have the same feelings about each other anymore as we did years ago. But is it wrong if I hoped a little? That he still hold feelings towards me?

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  • It's not wrong. It's normal to still have at least some feelings for someone you used to share that kind of connection with.

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Hello everyone, I have a lot to say so I'm glad this can finally be lifted I have a huge crush on this guy, but pretty sure he's not gay like me, anyone have ideas how I can get close to him? (I see him once a day when he works outside and he's close to a friend's family, I don't wanna sleep with him but befriend him, cuddle him... Maybe benefits)

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I'd appreciate big help here... I'm 18, I'm Male, and its been a year since I have a crush on this chubby, kind and happy-go-lucky guy, who is my best friend's brother's friend... But I think he isn't gay. I think of him everyday, and I just dream to even hug him, but I can't cause I'm scared... Anyone has ideas on how I could get to just sleep with him? (Not any nudity anything just even feel him close)

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  • Sleeping next to someone with the intent of getting some kind of romantic joy out of it when they don't know you're doing it is honestly kind of creepy. This would have been way less awkward to read if you had just asked for advice on asking him out.

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