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My boyfriend is a really nice guy, good looking and funny. We started dating because he was my crush and I asked him for a date, but with the pass of the time I feel less attracted to him (we've been dating for 4 months), I don't know if it's because of my depression or because I'm not really into him and getting to know him made me realize that. The thing is that I'm confused because I know he is a nice guy and he love me, but lately I'm feeling like meh with him. What do you think I should do?

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  • If you suffer from depression, it's entirely likely that's the reason you're losing interest. Give it time and see if things change when the depression cycles back to dormancy.

  • Take a break from him for a while

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Hi I am a girl and I want to tell my story about how my relationship started and how it ended to be now... Till the age of 18 I have never had boyfriend due to my strict parents ,they were afraid of me doing something inappropriate like intime .. But things have changed since I got to the university , I have met a guy that I fell in love with, the problem was that that relationship was and still is forbidden for me as I am Christian and he is Muslim , my parents will negatively react to that, but this is not the biggest problem. The thing is that since I have started to go out with him I felt myself imprisoned, I couldn't do something without his permittion I couldn't talk even my old school friend as he was a guy he didn't even give me the chance to explain him about that situation.. I am so tired ,I feel myself like it's not really me, like i am walking in his shoes .. I can't even explain about my true emotions because the only thing that he would do, is to turn me his back away .. I am so afraid of telling him about everything I feel. I have never been like that before and now for everything that happens in our relationship he blames me .. He would never apologize first.. He even blames if a guy in a university ask me for a favour.. He is so nutty and he can really quick lose his temper , I can't even protect my rights, he really hates when I conflict or I argue with him especially when our positions and opinions doesn't match so always I have to back off , I am so tired I feel myself imprisoned and unable to open my feelings and be straight forward with the guy that I love most of all in the fear of losing him...

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  • Leave as soon as you can. His constant controlling is unhealthy.

  • First relationships don't always work out. No shame in dumping him and looking for something better. I know the feeling like no one will ever be the same, that's not true though. My sister-in-law was dating a Muslim fellow like that once. Not quite as hardcore, more fat jolly carefree kinda guy. It wasn't a super big deal because her family only left Islam in the 80s so they still had Muslim relatives. Well, he went off to someone else and now she regrets giving him her virginity. She's marrying a different guy now. These issues are the kind of issues you will have to raise a family under if you marry him. Choose wisely.

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do teens have sexual feeling for older men? because I have sexual feeling for teens.

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  • only the teens with daddy issues and mental problems

  • Male or female teens? You're not being specific.

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I snoop through my boyfriends phone sometimes.. yes it is because I don't trust him but him and I are working on that. I've been trying not to snoop because I'm trying to trust him again, but I went to check his phone battery because he was using the fast charger and it showed a text from this chick on snap. So I brought it up to him, and put like a no sex clause in place until he can not flip out everytime I even go to give him his phone and like stop texting girls, like talking to them in person is fine but I don't feel the need for either one of us to be texting the opposite sex unless they are family, of course and he has a girl best friend but other then that like nah... right? My main reasoning, which for some reason I feel I have to like justify.. is that he has had problems with like doing some dumb stuff with chicks online and just a bunch of dumb shit.. Is anyone else kinda dealing with the same thing by any chance..?

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  • You need to deal with your own insecurities. Just because he talks to girls doesn't mean he's cheating. What if you dated a bisexual? Would you forbid them from talking to anybody? That's a form of abuse. You can't restrict your partner's friends. And withholding sex as a punishment is a form of manipulation. You need help. If you can't trust him, leave him instead of forcing him to bend to your will.

  • Just because you feel that you don't need to talk to members of the opposite sex doesn't mean he feels so too. Maybe he doesn't see girls as walking sex objects, but as people? People he likes to have conversations with? Even if not, even if he is cheating on you, with this behaviour the relationship is doomed to end either way. Continue working on the trust thing and stop controlling him, or he'll feel the need to get love from someone else.

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I think I might be hi but idk?

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  • I'm bi :) What are you confused about?

  • might be bi**

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I was so filled up with you. You being gone is a huge emptiness that I dont know what to fill up with inside my life

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  • You need to work on you. Stop depending on others for your happiness.

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I'm 29 m and have a thing for younger girls.

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  • pedo

  • From what I understand, actually a majority of men are into 18-25 yo girls regardless of their own age. It's a biological thing since women that age are the most fertile.

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Mental illness and romantic relationships. When I start talking to someone I get paranoid they're doing me wrong so I get jealous, controlling, and guilt trip them because I feel like I'm a victim. But really I'm just looking for that clarification with feeling secure about being with them. I just want them to say "you're my only one" I just want to hear and see care. Once I feel it in not like this anymore and that's something most women don't understand about me and that's why I stopped getting into relationships because I haven't found anyone that can handle my mental illnesses.

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  • Your problem is that you're trying to find someone who can 'handle' your mental illness instead of trying to learn how to handle it yourself. It's not other people's jobs to deal with you, it's your job to work with your issues and learn how to get around them. I'm mentally ill too. Stop using it as an excuse.

  • I have the same problem of constantly doubting people's love for me. I haven't ever dated anyone and I won't until I learn to trust people.

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Sometimes I wish my boyfriend would give me a gift. Maybe I hope he will be sweet to me from time to time. But whenever I hint for just a single flower or treat me to snacks, he would start telling me he is not a sugar daddy. It just makes me feel bad and pissed at the same time. We always go on dutch when we go out. I sometimes make surprises for him. I spend my own money for my needs, bills and personal things. Already told him it isn't funny. It just really make me feel bad. Is it wrong to ask for a gift or being sweet?

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  • I think y'all should calm down a bit. He certainly doesn't behave like the optimal person but that doesn't mean he's an asshole or doesn't love her. Maybe he just doesn't like showing affection like this? Everyone does it differently. Some people don't like giving people gifts. It might seem easy for you, like he should just do it to make you happy, but maybe this is more stressful for him than you think. I love my mom but never get her anything, despite wanting to, because I don't know what. In theory I know that even a half crushed flower would make her happy, but when I'm about to actually buy something, I feel that it isn't enough. My boyfriend also never gives ANYONE a gift because he doesn't see the value of it (he also only likes receiving gifts for the monetary value, he doesn't see the emotional part because he's somehow a bit retarded in this particular situation. I blame his parents). It took him years of convincing and reminding that I like getting something from time to time. He's not an asshole. He is just different.

  • hes not worth your time in the sense that, he's offering you what every other man who isnt your boyfriend is, nothing. you're single sis, not spoken for, fending for yourself. at least stop being physical with him, you'll snap back to reality. physical intimacy makes things cloudy for women

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Happy Pride month to all my fellow LGBTQ+ friends! Here's to celebrating how far we've come already, and revving up to keep fighting for our rights. We'll get there.

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