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So I'm a 24 female. Since I was 16 I had strong sexual needs and I begun experiencing. Until recently I felt the need for intercourse almost daily (sometimes a few times a day) and it was wild and fun. Now I'm in a serious, committed, loving and caring 1.5 years old relationship and, since last 7-8 months, I don't feel the need for sex and I feel like something is wrong with me. My bf is understanding about this, but he is always horny and sometimes I just sleep with him just to please him. I feel broken. I want to have that urge again. (P. S. He is a beast in bed and looks athletic, I don't think the problem comes from him)

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  • Could be a hormonal imbalance or are,you taking any new medication? When I was on a certain antidepressant I had no sex drive at all. Basically stopped masturbating for five months.

  • You might just be vitamin deficient. You should talk to your doctor about it and see if they can help. The problem could also be hormonal

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I want my boyfriend to slap my ass again. Sucks to be in a long distance relationship.

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I've only ever dated girls before, but I recently discovered that I'm bisexual and started dating a boy a few weeks ago. He took me to this amusement park where there was a haunted house. There was a guy with a fake chainsaw that jumped out to scare us and I got startled and screamed. My boyfriend was standing behind me and put his hands on my shoulders and moved me away from the man with the chainsaw while laughing. We held hands when something scary happened and made out when it was dark. He is taller than me so he makes me feel safe. It feels so good to be the one being protected instead of being the one who protects someone else, the way it was when I dated girls. I think I'm so much happier dating my boyfriend than I ever was with my girlfriends. I feel like this is how it should have been all along. I really am happy.

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  • Welcome to the bi club haha. I'm glad you're happy, my dude. It really warms my heart

  • Ohh it sound a very nice feeling.

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Try and do a "good deed of the day" everyday. You'll be surprised how it makes you feel, whether it's holding the door open for a stranger, helping someone who's car broke down, or buying food for the homeless. If your trying to fill a void, but nothing seems to work, try starting with your heart first. Appreciation & gratitude goes along way, & you might just make someone's day! :)

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  • I thought holding a door open was just a plain everyday thing?

  • This is true, it won't help everyone but you should try. Always at least try.

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I broke up with my ex a few moths ago.. He was the love of my life, we still love each other, but we can't be together because he makes me sad all the time. He hurts me and makes me feel lonely. But he always comes back to me somehow. He was aggressive, jealous and always did the wrong things. He always had trouble with the police and drank a lot. Nevertheless he loved me in a way no one else did. But there's this guy I just met. He's in love with me and I kinda like him a lot. I don't love him (yet). There might be a chance that I never will, but he makes me happy for the moment. He does everything for me and he's completely different than my ex. He's the better man.. shall I choose him and start a new chapter in my life or shall I risk it all and choose my soul mate (hoping that he'll change), the man I used to love for many years? I'm so confused either follow my mind or my heart..

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  • Hey, your so-called 'soul mate'? ...He doesn't love you. People who love you won't treat you that way. He's an abusive piece of shit and you deserve better. If he makes you sad all the time, he doesn't love you. Why do you love him? That's not love. That's manipulation. Forget him and be glad he's out of your life.

  • Go for the new guy, give it time to see if you really like him but no more than 4-6 months. This is a chance to be away from an abuser and find out what you really like.

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If you like me, please tell me. You have to understand that I'm not in a position to tell you first, but I'm trying to make it as subtly apparent as I can. I get the feeling you might actually feel the same way I do, but we'll never know if you don't bring it up. If I say something first, I could ruin everything. But you won't. It has to be you. I'm begging you, make the first move if you really feel the way I think you do.

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  • The old ‘the other person had better be a mind reader’. I predict good things for this relationship!

  • If he is your boss, then confessing is a little too much on his part and he could get into serious trouble

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I'm sorry... I don't think I could get over you... Not that fast anyway, I mean how could I... The things you told me you never think about... When you said I should just let go cause you were unsure about your future... Because you wanted the best for me too... And you at the time wasn't prepared.. Of course I couldn't asked for you then... I totally respected your decision... But now... Seeing you prepare a lot for the future... Putting a lot of thoughts to it... Even preparing yourself for marriage... I know it's not for me... But don't expect me to get over you... Not now anyway...

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I've had no sex drive for months. I haven't even had the urge to masturbate, and even when I'd try just to see if I could get the gears going, it was just unenjoyable because I couldn't get wet. But I finally got my drive back and I'm so damn glad I could finally get off. Mentally, the desire was there, but physically, I just couldn't get myself in the mood. Only problem now is I'm constantly horny.

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  • How did you get it back?

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This Wednesday was my boyfriend and I’s six month anniversary and I wanted to get him something really cool. I decided to get him a Polaroid camera since he’s always talking about how much he would like to have one and I was feeling really proud and thought that there was no way whatever he was going to get for me would be able to top this super amazing camera. But, of course, I was wrong. Damn him. He really outdid himself this time. He took me to the ocean! Ahh, it was so much fun :-) I haven’t been to the ocean since I was twelve. His grandparents have this giant house that’s like a two-minute walk from the sea and they let us stay there for a night. We spent all day at the beach and walking around town. There was a psychic reader nearby and when we asked her to do a reading on us I couldn’t understand anything she was saying. It was all so vague, lol. At one point she said “I felt your happy energy as soon as you sat down” to me. It was kind of unsettling :c but also flattering. And she told me that my aura is pink and my boyfriend's is green. I don’t know what that means and I’m not even entirely sure what an aura is but it sounds interesting. I guess I’ll have to look it up sometime. Then at night time, we couldn’t sleep so we snuck out of the house while my boyfriend's grandparents were asleep and we went back to the beach. I forgot how fascinating the ocean is after midnight. It’s so dark that the water starts to look like ink and you can see the stars and planets so much better than you ever could in the middle of the city. We sat on the dock and talked about life and stuff for a long time. My sign language has gotten so good that there’s, like, no communication barrier between us at all anymore! He makes me feel so normal. Better than normal, even. We were talking about everything that the psychic lady had told us and trying to analyze it but then there was a huge wave and we got soaked. Scared the crap out of me. But it's funny now, looking back. And I can honestly say that kissing my boyfriend at the beach at one in the morning is my new favorite thing in the world :’) When we snuck back into the house it was four in the morning and we went to bed and I used his arm as a pillow and like, usually I wouldn’t do that because I like having space when I sleep but I was so happy that I didn’t even care. And we could still hear the ocean from the house and I was hyper-aware of how his chest would rise and fall in rhythm with the sound of the waves. I wonder if he was aware of that too, because for some reason I found that to be the most entertaining thing ever. Ahh I sound ridiculous. But everything was so amazing. Every tiny detail made me happy. Even the two-hour long drive back home became fun because halfway through my boyfriend pulled over and let me drive and it started to rain and I’ve never driven in the rain before. There was thunder and lightning and it was so cool. I honestly think that was one of the best days of my life so far. He makes me so happy in a way I’d never be able to put into words.

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  • Girl I like your energy. You're so grateful. He's gonna wanna marry you one day. Heck I'm a 200% straight woman and I'd def lock u down if I were a man. Beautiful! God bless your relationship and you!

  • I hope he used the camera while you guys were there! Sounds amazing. And as for auras- an aura is the energy that someone gives off. Some people are sensitive to these energies and can detect them, and for some people auras have colors. For me I just sense emotional energies.

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When you got a bombarded hugs, you jst can't help yourself to sing happy happy song.

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