I know that feeling. It's okay to long for it, but please don't act on it until you are truly ready to take care of a child. Wait until you're an adult and even then consider it carefully.

Wait till you have a husband if you care at all about your kid. That's just normal hormones.

You kids are gonna make it. Hang in there. It gets much better later in life.

Dont expect too much from people because nobody 's perfect and people surely make mistakes.

I'm not saying you should blame yourself because you're shit. You're not. But if this really keeps happening to you, repeatedly, with different people... then almost always the reason isn't the other people. Maybe you do some things that push people away even though you're a good person? Maybe you invest too much of your heart too soon? Maybe you even just see this wrong and have a totally normal life, but you take the break ups too seriously and see it as shit happening to you while in reality, it's just the normal way a person's love life goes?

If things didn't work with your ex, you shouldn't look for someone who's exactly like her, because then it won't work with them, either.

like everyones different dont try to look for your ex in anyone else bc each person has their own traits and personality, that being said there are still other people and hopefully youll find someone thats best for you

Why can't you stay together?

i am in the same position as you, met my now ex last month and we broke up bc of her family views on me not being from the same background and country as her!!!! at the end of the day itll just make it more difficult later on and me and my ex are still really close friends bc of how we feel about each other. i hope everthing works out and i wish you all the best.

i feel the same way, but if you feel things then its real and i guess thats what matters in a way

Happy for you :)

bestie is best for longer more fulfilling life.

Don't end your life over a relationship. That's stupid. Listen, it's okay and normal to feel this way; you're allowed to feel hurt and sad and scared. But your emotions are very raw right now, and you haven't had time to process everything. You haven't had time to meet anyone else. It could be weeks, it could be months, but you will get through this. She is just a person in your life, she's not your life. You can find someone else, I promise, even though it doesn't feel like that right now. I've thought the same thing several times.

Well hello there

That's... I mean, you're allowed to have preferences, but specifically wanting someone because they're foreign is bordering on being a fetish and just being plain racist.