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It was never easy to move on.

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  • That's what legs are for...

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I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, before being with him I was with someone who cheated on me which has made me insanely insecure and horribly impacted my self-worth. So yesterday I asked him if he thought this person called Liv was pretty whom he was friends with in 2017, and he said "Liv was pretty sure, but I never thought she was pretty since being in a relationship with you, like I have said so many times I can't look at someone that way anymore, whether they're pretty or ugly is irrelevant" but just thinking about the fact that he used to think people before me were pretty makes my insides burn, and I know I shouldn't feel this way because it's irrational but I can't help it and it's starting to negatively affect our relationship. I also don't tell him but I secretly cry for hours and feel like absolute shit when he (rarely ever) meets up with female friends. So for my own sake and that of my relationship, how can I stop being so insecure.. ?

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  • If you can afford it, therapy may help you. Maybe even couple's therapy so you two can work out your problems together. Unfortunately aside from that, I don't know what to tell you other than you have to trust him. Relationships are built on trust. And I know it's hard once somebody breaks that, it's so hard to let anyone else back in. But you can't be jealous of every woman he meets. And you especially can't be jealous of women he used to know. The big thing to remember is, there's nothing wrong with you. Your ex cheated on you because HE was a piece of shit, not because you were. It was 100% his choice, his fault. You are not to blame. Nothing you could or couldn't do is a reason for someone to cheat on you. You have nothing to feel insecure about. People don't cheat because their partners aren't good enough; they cheat because they're greedy and want more, or because they think it's fun.

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Women who can get laid, but can't find a man who wants to commit are the female version of incels. The reason no one want stop be stuck with either is because they are two cheeks of the same ass.

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  • If you think women who want commitment are something people 'get stuck with' then I think you're the fucking problem here, buddy

  • What’s an incel? Never heard of it before

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Maybe I can find answers here. My Gf likes to be spanked hard, but I just fail to understand why anyone would like that...Yeah, sure, shock-like stimulation of an erogenous zone is bound to feel somewhat good if done correctly, but, I mean, what's the appeal of this on a psychological level...? My thesis, do not get me wrong here, is that most women like to be dominated in bed (The sales of the 50 Shades of Gray-Books seem to proof that), accompanied by the fact that it is some kind of affirmation that the one indeed is attracted to the partner...but I still don't get it...I am overthinking, aren't I?

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  • Of it's all too much for you, I can spank your GF !

  • No, not all women want to be dominated. If that were true femdom wouldn't be such a big thing. Its all personal preference. Don't ascribe one sexual trait to an entire gender, we both know that wouldn't fly if a woman did it about men.

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I think school sex education should do more than teachng the medical terms for genital anatomy and what the stages of a baby growing in an uterus are called. I think teachers should pull themselves together and actually discuss sex and intimacy and periods and everything that has to do with it. That way we maybe would have less grown up men (and, what is even sadder; women) who think a girl's pussy gets loose when she has more than two sexual partners, that masturbation is gross or that girls are gross for not washing their vagina with soap. And similar shit that you still hear. I know that in some schools it's already pretty well done, but it still isn't the standard and varies from teacher to teacher.

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  • It should be taught like it was in Money Python's 'The Meaning of Life'. For those of you unfamiliar search for Meaning of Life sex ed.on YouTube or rent the movie....

  • It's astounding that parents don't teach this. With the the rise in incels and unmarriable girls maybe we should teach relationships too? These people are absolutely ignorant of life.

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Someone suggested to me that in the early 00s we had cliques based on music. Punks, Emos, metalheads. But when the bottom fell out of the touring band industry we switched to politics to identify ourselves. Now all the teens have to line up as Commies, Nazis, Nazbol, Globohomo, or some other ridiculous political group. You don't like bands. You like politicians like Merkel, Duterte, Abe, and Clinton. Politicians love it. They get free volunteers for their campaign and you literally believe the enemy is a cartoon supervillain. This not even remotely sane. If we can't stand as one country, we will fall to a country who can.

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  • I... don't think that's true. I mean you're right except I think teens still mostly identify themselves with fandoms. The political garbage comes into play in college.

  • What’s a globohomo?

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I bought an android a few months back to replace my old iPhone 6s and to be honest, worst decision i ever made. It was on black friday, so i didnt spend a fortune, but it still sucks. The camera is (suprise) whack, it doesnt even run smoother than my old phone which is a pretty sad thing if you think about it. The only uprgade i have is the screen because OLED really does look pretty. I have a Pixel 3 but as soon as i get to my new job that thing goes straight to the trash. First i thought it was my mistake for choosing the pixel (which apperently has the best AI Camera on the market rn) but the new Samsung my friend has is just as useless.

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  • I think the Android/IPhone debate is useless. It's all a question of both what you're used to and what you personally need. If you need an overpriced status symbol then so be it. If you don't care about a shitty camera then so be it. I'm a little sick of all people on both sides who feel superior for using their phone.

  • I feel the same way... but reversed. I didn't make the mistake of buying an iPhone, but any time I end up using my sister's, for literally anything- taking photos, texting, etc.- I despise it. I hate the layout, I hate the lack of control on the camera (most androids have a 'manual' mode that lets you take really good pictures in low light). I just don't understand the hype, especially when you mix in all of the frustrations that come with trying to change settings or use the iPhone with a Windows computer.

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Why almost relationship is hard to forget?

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I think Gilette's ad is good and that men who are offended by it are either just offended because they got the message wrong or, which I think is the case quite often, because they themselves actually do a lot of "toxic" things. And I think that, if genders were reversed and the ad was from Venus, men suddenly wouldn't have a problem with the whole thing anymore and would instead agree with the ad.

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  • I'd be interested to see an add by Venus about women who make false rape claims, stab each other in the back, lie to get custody or lie to a man to get child support on kids that aren't his. That (while valid) would be pretty insulting. I doubt they would DARE air it. It's not offensive. It's just whiney, dated, and preachy.

  • In my eyes it delivers an important message in the very wrong way. The scene i have in mind right now is the ones where some dudes simply want to approach women, i mean they sound like douchebags, but approaching a girl isnt wrong. bothering her when she wants to be left alone is wrong. The other thing is that they try to make it seem like only boys bully boys. Which too, tackles the problem of bullying in a completely wrong way. Discimination comes from both sites, especially when it comes to young people. When i think back to my school days, it was mostly girls who told me my long hair isnt manly. On top of that we had a dude in our class who entirely looked like a girl, and they werent that nice to him either. I could go into more detail about every mistake this ad made, but yall should keep in mind that this is a fucking ad for hair removal. they want to make money from conflict.

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I think that when it comes to euthanasia, animals have better rights than us humans. I don't get why it's seen as more humane to put a suffering animal to sleep, but when it comes to a person, who can sometimes even SAY that they want it, it's murder and not allowed.

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  • euthanasia is actually legal in some states

  • Because people are sentimental and view humans as more valuable than animals. Animals are seen as expendable. But people, even people who are suffering, are not expendable. No one wants to let their grandma die, even if she's battling cancer and she'd rather give up the fight. No one wants to lose their dad, even if he's 93 and bedridden and repeatedly ending up in the hospital with pneumonia. No one wants to let go. People are selfish, and we'd rather make our loved ones suffer so we can have more time with them instead of letting them peacefully slip away.

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