It was never easy to move on.
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, before being with him I was with someone who cheated on me which has made me insanely insecure and horribly impacted my self-worth. So yesterday I asked him if he thought this person called Liv was pretty whom he was friends with in 2017, and he said "Liv was pretty sure, but I never thought she was pretty since being in a relationship with you, like I have said so many times I can't look at someone that way anymore, whether they're pretty or ugly is irrelevant" but just thinking about the fact that he used to think people before me were pretty makes my insides burn, and I know I shouldn't feel this way because it's irrational but I can't help it and it's starting to negatively affect our relationship. I also don't tell him but I secretly cry for hours and feel like absolute shit when he (rarely ever) meets up with female friends. So for my own sake and that of my relationship, how can I stop being so insecure.. ?
Women who can get laid, but can't find a man who wants to commit are the female version of incels. The reason no one want stop be stuck with either is because they are two cheeks of the same ass.
Maybe I can find answers here. My Gf likes to be spanked hard, but I just fail to understand why anyone would like that...Yeah, sure, shock-like stimulation of an erogenous zone is bound to feel somewhat good if done correctly, but, I mean, what's the appeal of this on a psychological level...? My thesis, do not get me wrong here, is that most women like to be dominated in bed (The sales of the 50 Shades of Gray-Books seem to proof that), accompanied by the fact that it is some kind of affirmation that the one indeed is attracted to the partner...but I still don't get it...I am overthinking, aren't I?
I think school sex education should do more than teachng the medical terms for genital anatomy and what the stages of a baby growing in an uterus are called. I think teachers should pull themselves together and actually discuss sex and intimacy and periods and everything that has to do with it. That way we maybe would have less grown up men (and, what is even sadder; women) who think a girl's pussy gets loose when she has more than two sexual partners, that masturbation is gross or that girls are gross for not washing their vagina with soap. And similar shit that you still hear. I know that in some schools it's already pretty well done, but it still isn't the standard and varies from teacher to teacher.
Someone suggested to me that in the early 00s we had cliques based on music. Punks, Emos, metalheads. But when the bottom fell out of the touring band industry we switched to politics to identify ourselves. Now all the teens have to line up as Commies, Nazis, Nazbol, Globohomo, or some other ridiculous political group. You don't like bands. You like politicians like Merkel, Duterte, Abe, and Clinton. Politicians love it. They get free volunteers for their campaign and you literally believe the enemy is a cartoon supervillain. This not even remotely sane. If we can't stand as one country, we will fall to a country who can.
I bought an android a few months back to replace my old iPhone 6s and to be honest, worst decision i ever made. It was on black friday, so i didnt spend a fortune, but it still sucks. The camera is (suprise) whack, it doesnt even run smoother than my old phone which is a pretty sad thing if you think about it. The only uprgade i have is the screen because OLED really does look pretty. I have a Pixel 3 but as soon as i get to my new job that thing goes straight to the trash. First i thought it was my mistake for choosing the pixel (which apperently has the best AI Camera on the market rn) but the new Samsung my friend has is just as useless.
Why almost relationship is hard to forget?
I think Gilette's ad is good and that men who are offended by it are either just offended because they got the message wrong or, which I think is the case quite often, because they themselves actually do a lot of "toxic" things. And I think that, if genders were reversed and the ad was from Venus, men suddenly wouldn't have a problem with the whole thing anymore and would instead agree with the ad.
I think that when it comes to euthanasia, animals have better rights than us humans. I don't get why it's seen as more humane to put a suffering animal to sleep, but when it comes to a person, who can sometimes even SAY that they want it, it's murder and not allowed.