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I suggested that we build a cat patio at home so our cats would be safe from woodland animals and whatnot and also not kill birds. My father just laughed at me. He also said it'd be impossible for adult cats to get used to it. I don't think it would be! Sure it might be difficult, but not impossible. My dad never listens to me when it comes to our cats! He thinks he knows everything about them just because he grew up having farm cats. He's never even read books on them like I have done.

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  • How dense are you? If you have read even a doctor Seuss book about cats you would know that every cat kills. They still have lots of wild in them that when they are hungry they will kill for it. If you let your cat be a cat and let it outside more often they won't get ate by "woodland creatures", the cat would kill it be for it could kill. Your dad laughed at you because he just realized his boy is becoming a sissy. Stop getting your "reading material" from random people dot net. City kid, doesnt know much about living.

  • My parents are like that too. They think that just because they've owned animals, they know everything about them, as if they couldn't possibly have done anything wrong to them. Adult cats can adjust to catios just fine. My cat was 'feral' (found him on the street, had to keep him outdoors) for 4 years, and I just made him an indoor cat. He can't roam the whole house, but he's got free roam of the basement, and he's adjusting very well. I have a harness and leash for him so I can take him outside sometimes. He's doing great indoors. Cats don't like change, but they can handle it as long as you know how to help them adjust.

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I don't know what I'm doing, when it comes to relationships. I get it wrong a lot, and end up being single. I don't know how this one will turn out. So far, I've never been pregnant and honestly may just not have children at all. I don't even feel bad about that.

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  • Well, perhaps you just need to reconsider your priorities and really think about what you want in a relationship. Like if you really do want children some day, you gotta seek out someone who wants the same type of future. If you aren't interested in having children anymore, that's fine too. Learn from the mistakes you made and take some time to figure out what you want before jumping back in the dating pool.

  • As a bastard myself, hold off on kids till you get someone committed to have kids with you. It's easier for the kid. But what's wrong with the relationships? Maybe we can advise?

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Fuck being me. I am just the mistake of a naive man and an indecisive woman. My life could have been avoided if two people had not been stupid. Words cant express how disgusted i am. All i see is a man who cant keep a family together, started a new one just to break it off, and a woman who thought she was a lesbian, then decided she wasnt and is now thinking about having kids again.

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HELP. so my boyfriend constantly claims he has a small penis because "every" girl hes ever dated has said so in the past and tells me I'm going to eventually leave him for someone bigger. usually insinuating a black guy. Then today I found out he watches BBC porn... is this all because hes insecure and wishes that's what he had? I'm so confused.

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  • Dick size is a very huge unsolved problem for men. I have a small dick and i don't like to watch porn where guys have small dicks. Whenever i see a guy with a nice dick i genuinely feel happy for him. There's all the group talks you have where guys often talk about their great penis or where girls talk about how they love a nice penis and i just have to sit there listening and smiling. It sucks and my confidence reaches low levels.

  • My ex constantly jokes about his 'small dick' even though his penis is of very average size. He's not huge but really he isn't small and idk what he expects of dicks? But sounds like your bf watches BBC porn because he either A. gets off on the insecurity/inferiority, or B. just fantasizes that he had that big of a dick. Maybe have a talk with him and tell him that big dicks are actually kind of the worst (because this is true, although to each their own I guess) and you love him for him, every part of him, and that you'd love him even if he had no dick at all. Also maybe point out that he's going to drive you away with the constant self deprecation and negativity before his dick size ever will.

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I swear I stand so strongly by the fact that people who hate cats, have never been loved by a cat. And im not talking the "yeah cats are okay, but I prefer dogs." Im talking the countless people that come into the shelter I work at and turn their nose up at cats. The ones who when I say say where the cat room is(I say where all the rooms are when someone asks to look around) go "oh id never own a cat. I hate them." Ive always loved cats and always wanted one. October 4th 2018, i got that chance. My moms friends cat had an accidental litter. She did the right thing. She paid to get mom and all babies spayed and neutered and then gave the kittens away. In the end she was left with 2 brothers. I took one when he was 6 months old. And let me tell you.... He came to me as a scared boy. He wasnt fond of being touched. He hid a lot. He didnt eat. But after 2 days of giving him his space and all the food and toys he could want? He came out of his shell. He is the most loving thing. Im his favorite place to lay on. Ive had a lot of dogs... snd two right now that ive had for 5 and 3 years. And theres just... theres a different bond with this animal. I love my dogs deeply. I wouldnt trade them for anything. But theres just a different bond between you and a cat and you and a dog. And its because that cat chooses you. Dog are easy. food and pats and youre in with 90% of dogs. Cats are different. You have to earn every pawstep of their love. I remember one we had at the shelter a while back. I used to work cat intake. So Id clean the new cats every day. One day we got this old tabby boy. He was pissed. He was mad at the world. he hated everyone. I got a few claw marks from him from just trying to clean him. I dont know why... but i took to him. I liked him. I decided to earn his trust. So i set about my mission. Over the course of a couple weeks(we had no room on the adoption floor for him) I slowly pushed hos boundaries. Sitting beside his closed cage for a few minutes. Figuring out his favroite food. Sitting beside his open cage. Letting him sniff my hand. One quick pet on the head. A chin scratch. One rub down his back. A few more rubs. A chin scratch snd a head pat. Just slowly... slowly started to earn his trust. Then one day i went for it. I picked him up just long enough to put him in my lap. He stayed. He purred. He let me pet him. After about 5 minutes, He was done and got back in his cage. After that... we were friends. Everyday he would let me hold him and love on him for a few minutes. He would let others pet him if i held him, but no one else got the privilege of holding him. Then he started headbutting me. And meowing when i walked in the room. I loved that cat. And he started to like me. It was the best feeling ever. With some love and hard work, that cat went from hissing at everyone and everything to a calm and chill cat. He still went to be a barn cat, but his owner told us that he wants to be loved on every now and then. And from a feral cat? what more can you ask. cats are amazing creatures. You have to prove yourself to them. But once you do? Its amazing.

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  • I agree. I honestly hate people who say they hate any animal. 99% of the time, they either just don't know anything about them, or they had one bad experience and then decided all of them were bad. My cat is an asshole sometimes (he's 4 and in his rowdy stage) but I love him with all of my heart, and despite everyone telling me to put him up for adoption when he started having health problems and behavioral issues, I kept him and worked with him and he's a sweet little angel. He gets under my blankets and sleeps with me at night. He tries to groom me. He lets me hold him on his back like a baby and purrs while I do it. And he was a feral kitten when I rescued him off the streets. He's so gentle and rarely bites or scratches unless he feels trapped or threatened. Cats are wonderful, people just don't know how to work with/train any animal that isn't a dog. People barely know how to properly train dogs anyway fjskdjskhd

  • I love to read this, your experience with 🐈 🐈 and 🐕 🐕. You sharing this is very much appreciated.

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Porn is disgusting and anyone who watches it is sick. Yes, even you. Sorry not sorry.

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  • I don't watch porn anymore, but as a teen with no real sex education, I used to watch it trying to learn. And of course I know it's all fake, and I tried to find amateur videos for that reason. But a lot of the porn out there is disgusting... Not all of it though. I don't have a problem with people who watch porn, just people who are addicted to it or people who watch really fucked up shit.

  • If you can't explain why then your argument is invalid

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Everyone is really pissed about the black incel who threw a kid off the third floor at the Mall of America. Kid might still die. Bastard got arrested in Minnesota. Trust me when I say, I know lots of prisoners. They are just as disgusted as you. They don't tolerate people who hurt kids. He WON'T live out his full sentence. He's likely going to get what he deserves.

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I'm honestly impressed with this younger generation of Zoomer men. Never have I seen so many young guys talk about their desire to have a wife and kids. To be a husband and father. My generation of Millennials mostly just wanted to maximize their High score of pussy as if that was an accomplishment. I was the odd-man out for wanting a family. These kids are like anti-Boomers. It's great.