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Thoughts of a guy who went from "absolute beginner" into having kinky sex in a few month: Things have gotten kinda weird since we established a safeword...for example, she doesn't want me to do anal, yet things get worked up and since she didn't say the safeword, I still do it, then she asks me to continue because according to her, she likes it if I go, as she said, "wild" on her and "abuse" her. I mean, yeah, hardcore sex is fun and all, but it's utmost questionable once the point at which "no means yes" is reached. Also we're into pet play, and it's fun to hear her purr like a cat while cumming, but, dear god, the implications of the whole "animal"-theme kinda make me uncomfortable. Another interesting thing is: While I'm horny, her cum tastes really good, but afterwards I realize that it actually tastes hardly defineable, mostly like urine - google it, the stuff's mostly made up from it - yet slightly better, I guess... (I'd would almost be sad if this doesn't end up on r/Ihavesex)

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  • Talk to her about the things that make you uncomfortable. If you can't compromise or work through it, she might not be for you. No one should have to be uncomfortable having sex.

  • It's normal to be a bit uncomfortable at first, but please don't keep doing things that you don't like just because you're too eager to have sex at all. You two can always compromise. For the cum part, it's natural to be turned off by something the second your general arousal wears off. The part of the brain that makes you feel disgust literally shuts (partly) off when you're turned on.

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to the people who think that a girl must not have actually been sexually assaulted 'because if she had, she would of ____" are part of the reason why there is no justice and now everyone thinks that all guys are victims of false accusation claims. yes, there are some false accusations, I won't pretend it doesn't happen. but you don't know what kind of emotional trauma sexual assault can produce, you don't know how you would react until it happens. sure before it happened to me I used to think 'why wouldn't they have reported it right away?' 'why not get a rape kit' 'there's no way someone who was sexually assaulted who would still be around their aggressor after it happened'. but these are just not true. the truth, is that everyone reacts and feels differently about the situation, everyone's aggressor meant something different to them. in my case it was someone I cared about and was very close to. sometimes I think it would of been easier to report if it had been a stranger, but realistically there are so many women who don't report those either, so maybe not. now in my case, i'm still friends with the guy who did it... yes I see him on a regular basis and we still hangout. sounds like i'm making it up now doesn't it? I know what it looks like and that's a huge reason why I can never report it. him and his gf at the time when it happened, made me feel as if it never happened, that I made it all up. and yet I know it happened, because it wasn't just once. and I also know he used to rape his gf as well, but they were dating it isn't rape, right? she stayed with him for almost 2 years and if I had to guess probably got sexually assaulted at least 50 times. because she never said no. because she would be half asleep or drunk and she couldn't. is that a normal response? to stay with someone for so long. then when it happens to another girl, you still take his side and make her feel worthless? no, not really. to a court that would look like BS. but when u care about someone, when they manipulate you into thinking he did nothing wrong and no one would believe you. you do some weird stuff. so don't judge someone because u may never know what really happened, only they do and their potential aggressor. that's why rape and sexual assault is so hard to convict. because it's intimate, often no witnesses. it's all he said she said unless a rape kit is performed within the time frame. but unless there are sure signs of force or semen, it won't work and with certain sexual assaults, force isnt always obvious. nor do all aggressors ejaculate. so as I said. you may never know what happened, so just cuz it sounds unreal, doesn't mean it is

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  • My wife was talking about this recently. About how women tend not to report it due to the humiliation factor. It makes sense to me as a man, because I know if I was raped by some ugly Fucker I would NOT want to let people know. It's humiliating. That's why I'm fine with the death penalty for proven rapists. This is a core tenant of civilization itself. Not allowing rape is what separates humans from animals.

  • I understand that you may be scared, but please try to will yourself to report him. If not for your own sake, please consider that the guy is probably dangerous to other people around him. (That's what I think of when I have trouble doing things, anyway.)

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How hard is it to put a grocery cart in the collector thing? Seriously. I'm at work, on my lunch, and it kills me me to ignore stray carts in the middle of spaces. I'd get it myself, but stray carts tend to multiply and I can't be caught working off the clock. All people gotta do is walk maybe 5-10 feet to the collector spot and walk back to the car. If you know you're getting a big haul and your feet will be tired, just park close to a collector. Stray carts get in the way of people wanting a parking space. If it's windy, the cart will roll into a car and the store's not responsible for damages if that happens. Just don't be lazy.

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  • I know that a lot of people do stuff like this on purpose because they think that the employees don't have anything to do if they do it themselves. I've heard this so often and was even taught that by my own mom. "Don't fold the shirt, the workers here won't have work if you do it for them" "we don't have to put the cheese back in the cheese section, there are extra workers here for that, just leave it here".

  • I firmly believe that there is a special place in hell for people who do not use the cart corral!!!

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I really want the boys feel the pain of girl's period. EVERY MONTH!!!! 😭🔪🔪🔪🔪

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  • Science says men have a lower pain tolerance than women, so if they are in pain it's bad. Also if you think about it, I think it's a trade off either you get pain once a month as a woman or are at risk for painfully jostling your nuts 24/7 as a man.

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I'm a 32f and last summer I had sex in a park during the day time. we got caught by 2 teenagers who ended up watching us for about 5mins because my fiance didn't want to stop. I felt a bit uncomfortable especially after my fiance took my shirt off and made me completely naked if front of them but at the same time I felt it was kinda fun to have sex in front of someone. I know it was weird but does that make me a bad person?

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  • Not a bad person, but maybe don't do it in front of minors. Voyeruism and exhibitionism are kinks for a reason. Maybe record yourself having sex and upload it to porn sites if you want people to watch you.

  • No, it doesn't make you a bad person

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I am a lesbian woman, and after I masturbated I always sniff my fingers. I enjoy that smell so much. I just love the smell of a vagina.

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  • As a straight man, I agree.

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i dont need therapy but i've always been curious about therapists. when a therapist needs therapy themselves would they just refuse to go to one since they already know and can predict the ins and outs of the session? do they come home with an emotional baggage of their clients? how do they deal with it? do they get emotionally attached to their patients? do they learn how to emotionally shield themselves between them and their clients so they won't risk of crying? do they have the urge to cry in sessions? and yeah i get the whole thing of 'professionalsm' and the idea of barricading work and life but if you look at it at a more personal and human aspect it must've taken a toll to their mental health, its kind of ironic. and to think they go by with this on a daily basis like, im just amazed by them and i dont think we give them enough credit

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  • EVERY therapist needs therapy. Mark my words, NO ONE goes into that field unless they have an issue of their own. See Niles Crane on Frasier? That's basically the entire Psych section at my college. My buddy is training to be a therapist. Massive PTSD from surviving a school shooting in Pakistan. Great guy, he will totally help you, but he needs therapy too.

  • My therapist has a therapist. Much like how my doctor has a doctor. I've also made my therapist cry so I don't think the other commenters idea of clients being abstract problems is necessarily true for all. It depends on what kind of approach that particular therapist takes. They're all different.

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my mom is constantly on my case about my weight and money i'm spending. i'm oneof the most tight wad people in my life and yet every time I buy something, it's "you're wasting ur money again?" "why would u spend on that" "you're supposed to be saving" meanwhile she owes me 10k and my dad is an addict so they spend on much stupider things. then the weight thing. telling me I need to lose weight. stop eating junk food, i'm gonna get fat, etc. but then I join a gym this week and she went on for 20mins about why I would join a gym, i'm busy enough as it is, I don't have time to waste my money on a gym. oh my fuck like shut up. nothing I ever do is right.

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  • omg we must be siblings cause that sounds just like my mom! ( aside from her owing me 10k)

  • She's focusing on you to avoid focusing on herself and her own issues. I'm sure berating you makes her feel better about herself. Sucks to be in that situation. Hope you break free of that environment asap.

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i feel like almost everyone in my generation are whores. they just accept themselves and others so they think sex at such a young age and with some many people is the norm. I guess we live in a society where being a hoe is normal and being inncocent is rare asf. its not even being innocent thats rare just not being easy and not giving it to literally every person you date is rare like young people even think its a bad thing to still be a virgin and keep it a secret if they feel too old. like bitch ur 19 its okay to be a virgin.

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  • Totally agreed. I had to hide my virginity due to judgey millennials who bang anything that moves. I'm proud I waited, and I'm proud that I married a girl who did too. They can take their Boomer-ass "morals" and shove it. I have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

  • Why is it a bad thing to have sex? To be « easy »? If people are having consensual safe sex its not a problem someone has just instilled some quite archaic views about what is and is not moral in you. Get off your high horse, just because you choose to live differently than others doesn’t mean that you have to maintain a holier than thou attitude. By the way, I’m at 18 year old virgin but I don’t think that makes me better or worse than anyone else.

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