Sorry for the long one in advance. So I grew up with only my mother. My dad tried to kidnap me twice as a child and succeeded once so haven't seen him since I was young and he went to jail for this. In the meantime my childhood has been tough for a number of reasons, one of them is that I've always been my mothers only form or support. When I was 11 years old I found out she has a chronic disease, Huntington disease if anyone cares, and so I've over the years become my mother's mother more and more. And though I can take a lot and still love my mother, she hasn't always been good. She called me worthless and cried about wanting to die because of me nearly on the daily, breaking half the house in her rage on the regular. And even though I'm an adult now and I moved out some years ago already, I still get bothered by her a lot. She calls me 3 times a day at least, constantly tries to come over and pick me up from work and so on. And many say "why do you complain, your mother is just spoiling you, I wish I had a mom ready to pick me up any time". Well not if it means crossing over personal boundaries. One day I was on a date with my (then) boyfriend who lived oversees. Him and I would go on a double date but we were way too early so being in the city centre already anyway we decided to pop into a store as he needed some clothes. When my mom texted how I was I happily replied what we were doing and she want crazy on us. Getting angry and ranging on and on about how she didn't get to go along. This was just hopping into a store for like 20 minutes mind you. And the other day I had to get angry and scream, legit scream at her that she wasn't allowed to come to my house because I had to leave. All I did was ask if she knew where something was which I lost after she visited. I never needed her to come over. Its just become disrespectful and condescending by now how much she's even unwilling to consider I have boundaries. I don't know what to do. Tldr: My mother is just too much, I don't know what to do.
I've seen so many failed relationships that I'm gradually turning into someone who doesn't believe in marriage. I used to dreamt of having an extravagant wedding, but now I can't see the spark or magic on it.
This has been driving me crazy does anyone know the name of the puppy game Eve was playin in the 8 passengers vlog today when chad got suspended I have looked every where for the name I can’t seem to find it
i have this really bad side of me that is obsesed with sexual stuff, sex talk, seductiveness ect. i feen the feeling and i love being naughty....with other men..and i have a man...i love when a man takes control of me and treats me really naughty.....then i feel so ashamed ....
What makes a man a man? Do you think its based on facts or opinions?
I really love the perspectives I get to see here. Sometimes I get stuck in my echo-chambers. You kids help me understand humanity.
just wanted to share that I have finally decided to to give law school a shot. i will take the philsat this coming September and start preparing next month. hopefully going to law school will help me find direction in life. atm I am so clueless and struggling
Prisons are all wrong they give them 3 balanced meals and work out equipment...They should be given couches and cake...
80% of Boomer advice can be safely discarded because they are talking about an era and society that no longer exists. They think you can still walk into a factory off the street and get a job and work there for life and afford to own a 2 story house. I wish. When I entered the workforce in the great recession they wanted 2 years experience to flip burgers. I changed majors 4 times due to structural unemployment. Everyone has two jobs. "Learn 2 code" you mean that minimum wage job now outsourced to India? Their love advice is the worst. Free love, man. Of you want a baby, have one. You can work and support a kid off one income. Fucking lol. Unprotected sex with randos won't have consequences. Oops, I brought AIDS to North America. Suck it, Gen-X. I take comfort in the ironic justice that they will be consigned to the nursing homes they created to skip out of caring for their parents.
I lost all my overweight by smoking weed in my spare time and not giving in to 'munchies', for it boosts the metabolism. You can literally loose weight by doing nothing.