I really want to dissuade my sister-in-law from having a kid. She's super depressed (at least she's on therapy now), her marriage isn't going well (but I hope this can be fixed with therapy), and I don't know from where she got this idea that having a kid will actually save her from depression. I won't say a word, of course. It isn't my marriage or my mental health and well-being. But if I could, I would have her wait one or two more years, to see if therapy improves her depression and marriage, before trying to get pregnant. She can wait, she's only 28.
What is a trait/act that would make it so easy for you to just drop that person from your life? What consists a bad person?
I always know that in life we always have so much we still need to learn especially while still young and growing. But when I'm actually in the situation where I started stepping towards my goals, that's when I realized how much how I still don't know and still need to learn. Knowing something is just stuck in our minds but realizing something it's something we embody.
I keep notes on my phone that I write when I get anxious it’s an anxiety relieving because now I know I can’t forget it and the anxiety goes away also I keep a phone diary ... these are the best two ways I found how to keep my anxiety undercontrol it doesn’t work with all my anxiety but it eliminates a lot
One thing I find very rude is when people put themselves down about something that they're clearly better at than you, in front of you. A few examples to illustrate what I mean: someone who says how bad they did at the exam for only getting a B after you told them that you got a C. A girl who could work as a Victoria's Secret model complaining about how fat she's gotten over Christmas while her insecure, slightly overweight classmate sits next to her. Someone with one pimple crying over said pimple to you while you're standing there with your face full of acne. I'm not saying those people shouldn't complain at all, but you should still be considerate and watch out for who you're complaining to.
I'm not one of those people who lives by astrology and constantly asks people what their sign is. I don't believe in all that. But there are parts of all that craziness that seem to have something to them. For example, the past weeks have been complete shit for not just me but EVERYONE I KNOW. Found out today Mercury is in retrograde. It was like "Oh well that would explain a fucking lot." Sometimes I wonder how much "insanity" people dismiss that's actually at least somewhat valid.
Thank God for prostitutes!
I'm not American but I think the democrats are assholes that want to win at every cost against the republicans. Don't get me wrong, I hate Republicans too but I think the democrats should act better than they been doing things.
Sometimes i just think that life is like the sims.. we are just the sims of someone or something..
I've been depressed for so long that even when I feel okay, I still look to suicide with rose tinted glasses. It's become a personal belief now to off myself and I've engrained it so deep into my head that I can't think of any other way. I have my own plan and everything. I've grown too comfortable with the idea, but I can't change the way I think about it.