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Husband and I have lived in his home town for four years now, his brother lives very close by. We go over to visit once a week and for me it's bad. My husband will go off periodically to take long buisness calls and I often get left to small talk with his brother and my sister in law and after a few sentences it will just fall into an awkward silence everytime. My mind will go blank as I'm desperatly trying to think of something to chat about and I can physically feel my face go all stiff. Just painfully awkward. It's always been like this,right from the start - I thought it would get better with time but if anything it's gotten worse. I've tried to discuss this with my husband but he's flippant about it and doesn't want to know, he just expects me to be friends with them. In fact at times I have the impression that his brother deliberately ignores me and that makes it even worse, again tried to mention this to my husband but he doesn't believe me. I've never felt so shy or awkward around anyone as I do around these two people and I dread seeing them every week and feeling so uncomfortable. I'm at the point now where I don't know what to do, any similar stories/ suggestions?

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  • I don't think they dislike you, I think they feel as awkward as you do and just want to avoid the awkwardness. When I'm in situations like that, I ask them if they've read/seen/played one of the things I'm interested in at the moment so we can talk about it. For example, 'Have you seen Haunting of Bly Manor on Netflix? It's SO good!' or 'I've been playing Breath of the Wild lately, it's a really fun game! Have you played it?' Even if they haven't done the thing, you can tell them about it and maybe convince them to try it so you guys can talk about it next time.

  • Guess you really can't choose your family. maybe find out what interests they have and try and talk about them. You never know one day you might actually enjoy going to see them.

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did my "back to the office" training for work (it was mandatory even though I've never been out of the office this whole pandemic. but that's beside the point) and 1 video training was all about masks, when you're supposed to wear them, how to wear them, the ones that protect you, etc. the second one was about covid 19 in general and how to prevent it. well the covid specific video, says masks should ONLY be worn by those showing symptoms. while the mask video obviously says everyone should always have them on. this is why I'm skeptical about all these protocols and mandatory things.... because it's so inconsistent that it makes your head hurt. and no, my work training is not the online time I've seen "official" information about this virus that wasn't consistent. the experts can't even agree what should and shouldn't be done. so how are we supposed to know?

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  • it's hard bruh. no one knows all the answers. but if we all work together, the disease can slow down. it takes years to get the right answers. medicine is actively changing to new info while bacteria and virus are evolving. if I helps you can do your own research on virus. I recommend start with the last pandemic I think it's 1912 flu. the more you know the better. education is key.

  • We don't know. We just have to keep up with the most recent info. Just wear the damn mask. It won't hurt you to wear one if you aren't sick, and since people can be asymptomatic you could be sick and not know it. That's the whole point

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I think it is most interesting how 90% of this App/Website has become a forum for badly written (incest) literotica, insane ramblings about men wanting to suck dicks and someone being driven to suicide due to his unhealthy obsession with "rose". You, who writes these shitty Vanessa Adeoye - Stories: There are websites for that shit, no one here believes that any of your writings actually happend anyway and it is just plain bizarre. And about the Rose guy... dude, get professional help...I mean, it is obvious that you've got serious problems.

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  • Let this app be a place to ease the mind.

  • between Vanessa Adeoye, The Rose Namablarbagarble, that's pretty much the basis of this app. not including the occasional pedo post that pops up.

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Is it okay to have wild fantasies about your boyfriend?

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  • yes, just don't do it...

  • yea he's hot so I get it

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Attachments create doorways to suffering. Refusal to let go beckons sorrow. Acceptance that things begin and end allows opportunity to let go. Devoid of physical and emotional attachments create peace of mind and body and spirit. Detachment is not to be devoid of emotion, but rather accepting that death is a natural force or love begins and ends and the waves of life are never concrete and solid. But constantly changing and flowing in different directions.

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  • cringe

  • Detachment is to be disconnected from love and the cycles of living/dying/living. Existence, and the ceasing of it, can only truly be embraced by opening oneself up to becoming part of those things. Otherwise you are merely an observer who contributes, and thus ultimately means, nothing.

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so i have a relationship with my friend's little brother and he is 2 years younger than me, i'm 18 he's 16. is it weird? should i stop this or go on?

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  • that depends on the laws where you live

  • seems perfectly fine to me. it's only weird if you make it weird

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so me and my friend go on each other's account all the time and I'm not the type of person to read through other's messages but I was confused by something my boyfriend texted her so I checked it and he said "yeah I'm going to have to talk with her about this" and "also all the shit she made me deal with in the past". I'm just worried because I try best to do everything correct for him and I don't know what I did wrong , I just don't know how to ask him about it

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I don't care who wins the election but fraud is not okay. Whoever wins, wins fair and square! That's how America was built for everyone to have a fighting chase. Now have we always lived up to it? No but dam well try and this is a major step backwards especially within the government! The government should not have as much authority over things as it does and citizens voices are so often overruled by politicians ajendas for there only selfish benefit. Don't be fooled. Educate yourself as much as possible and don't stand idle as corruption happens. America deserves to be fair whether you agree with me or not doesn't matter. Everyone deserves to respectfully express their thoughts and opinions. Step up America we have work to do.

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  • Except every single institute and agency that has investigated has found no evidence of fraud in the results of this election. While I absolutely agree things should be won fairly..... the point is they were. This time. The problem I have is that people are pointing out political problems NOW instead of last election. They existed then too. They've always existed. So why is fraud suddenly such a buzzword when a dem wins?

  • this is great to see that some people still believe this. more people need to think for themselves and not to let petty thoughts influence a whole country. the media is just as much to blame as the politicians because they openly LIE to the general public and manipulate stories to back their agendas as well and people actually believe it. so much so they can't see what's happening right infront of their eyes and it's sad to watch.

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All of these cliche wanna be philosophical posts make me wanna throw up!

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my sister has been going down the wrong path.. i just found out she has a vagina and I feel like I need to mention this to my parents but idk how

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  • ohno next she'll have lungs & a heart & it'll be too late

  • put your penis inside her vagina then let all of your friends do it too

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