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When my parents are having an argument, they both tend to complain to me about the other when I'm alone with one of them. Typically either dad complains about how forgetful mom is while giving be a ride to the bus station, or mom complains to me about how insensitive and harsh dad is when he's out of earshot. I mean, both of those issues are true but they could try to actually work them out... They always keep using accusative language about each other, both when talking to each other and when they complain to me. Well, at least they aren't talking shit about each other at workplace... I hope. Dad, at least, isn't the type to do that. But I don't like being in the middle. There's nothing I can do even though I wish I could... I'm an adult at this point, so maybe that's why they talk to me about their problems like that, but it's still pretty uncomfortable. I don't know. Is this normal?

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  • No. Parents shouldn't use their kids as marriage counselors. My parents have been doing it to me since I was a teenager. My dad even went so far as to complain about his lack of a sex life with my mom... I'm sorry you're going through this. Maybe tell them you don't want to be in the middle of it, tell them to talk to each other like adults instead of whining to you.

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of course on top of everything else going on with my boyfriend--i would be pregnant.

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tfw you have lots and lots of people supporting you, some of them even willing to stood for you. yet here you are, cannot stop thinking bout killing yourself. i cant..

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Is it true thats v*ginas do not feel the same after birth? I feel like my boyfreind is asking for anal more often or tries to put it in more during.

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  • No. Vaginas are naturally very elastic and will recover surprisingly quickly. You using it for its natural function isn't going to wreck it. Also if your bf is trying to sneak anal he's a jackass and you should have a serious talk.

  • They should return to their pre birth state at least after a while

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I don't know what I'm doing, when it comes to relationships. I get it wrong a lot, and end up being single. I don't know how this one will turn out. So far, I've never been pregnant and honestly may just not have children at all. I don't even feel bad about that.

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  • Well, perhaps you just need to reconsider your priorities and really think about what you want in a relationship. Like if you really do want children some day, you gotta seek out someone who wants the same type of future. If you aren't interested in having children anymore, that's fine too. Learn from the mistakes you made and take some time to figure out what you want before jumping back in the dating pool.

  • As a bastard myself, hold off on kids till you get someone committed to have kids with you. It's easier for the kid. But what's wrong with the relationships? Maybe we can advise?

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why are my two closest friends incels. one thinks the friendzone exists and one thinks that modern times ruined all of our women because they wont talk to him. They think i am likeminded. Worst part is that i am too afraid to call em out on their bullshit. might hurt their feelings.

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  • I think the answer simply lies in what you just wrote out, which is the irrational anger they feel about being rejected or thinking that being ignored or rejected by women is somehow the women's fault even though. Honestly, if their feelings get hurt and they don't want to be friends with you anymore after being "called out" (or after telling them you do not agree with their perspective), let them go because being around people with that kind of negativity might end up taking a toll on you in the long run.

  • Their feelings are already hurt apparently. If you call them out for their bullshit you might help making them happier in the long run.

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HELP. so my boyfriend constantly claims he has a small penis because "every" girl hes ever dated has said so in the past and tells me I'm going to eventually leave him for someone bigger. usually insinuating a black guy. Then today I found out he watches BBC porn... is this all because hes insecure and wishes that's what he had? I'm so confused.

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  • Dick size is a very huge unsolved problem for men. I have a small dick and i don't like to watch porn where guys have small dicks. Whenever i see a guy with a nice dick i genuinely feel happy for him. There's all the group talks you have where guys often talk about their great penis or where girls talk about how they love a nice penis and i just have to sit there listening and smiling. It sucks and my confidence reaches low levels.

  • My ex constantly jokes about his 'small dick' even though his penis is of very average size. He's not huge but really he isn't small and idk what he expects of dicks? But sounds like your bf watches BBC porn because he either A. gets off on the insecurity/inferiority, or B. just fantasizes that he had that big of a dick. Maybe have a talk with him and tell him that big dicks are actually kind of the worst (because this is true, although to each their own I guess) and you love him for him, every part of him, and that you'd love him even if he had no dick at all. Also maybe point out that he's going to drive you away with the constant self deprecation and negativity before his dick size ever will.

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My son got into Pokemon and I know I have some rare gen 1 cards and figures at my mom's house. I know he really wants them but I have a hard time going back there. That woman is evil and that place screws with my head. To much trauma. I want to do it for him though. Don't know when I will get around to it. Don't want to take him to see her either. She doesn't love either of us.

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  • You can do it. You can do this. You are strong enough. She doesn't have power over you anymore.

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I had unintentionally been ignoring my friends because of the hurt they unknowingly caused me. I know it’s my fault that I fall asleep in class and make a fool of my self and they are just trying to help me by advising me but the way they put it hurts me a lot. I don’t care about others but I care about their view on me bc we’re friends. I’m now struggling to reply to them and honestly, I think I just made a rift because of all the internal hurt that has been compiling in me. I didn’t want this to happen but I caused it. I’m a shitty friend for doing this. This sucks too much and I’m coward because of I’ve been phobic of closer relationships since my falling out with my one of best friends. I don’t want a repeat of that. I’m shitty and I own up to that. This may seem minor but these internal battle I have been facing for so long has made me do rash decisions. I’m sorry guys for being a coward. I’m sorry for not being enough. I’m sorry and I hope one day we’ll forgive each other because I can’t trust you guys yet, not wholly.

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  • Just tell them how you feel. Tell them what they said was hurtful, and you avoided them for a bit because you didn't know what to say to them. Apologize for reacting harshly and acknowledge that you appreciate them trying to help.

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I think im going to break up with my boyfriend because he lies, hides stuff, and constantly watches porn. I even caught him on live one time, but no matter how or when I catch him he denies watching it all together. This is his new take, along with telling me hes not doing it when he is. He even chooses to do it when im home, in the next room. Porn itself, i dont find a problem with, but the lying and hiding stuff that i am fully okay with behind my back is an issue. Especially since ive caught him lying basically everytime he tells me anything lately, including hanging out with his little brother, going to work, etc. This is an even bigger issue since i caught him messaging girls about a year ago...

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  • Good choice. You deserve someone who cares about you.

  • He will be lying... You deserve a better man!

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