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Try and do a "good deed of the day" everyday. You'll be surprised how it makes you feel, whether it's holding the door open for a stranger, helping someone who's car broke down, or buying food for the homeless. If your trying to fill a void, but nothing seems to work, try starting with your heart first. Appreciation & gratitude goes along way, & you might just make someone's day! :)

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  • I thought holding a door open was just a plain everyday thing?

  • This is true, it won't help everyone but you should try. Always at least try.

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I had sex with the girl i had a crush on and now im worried i fucked everything up. I’ve been feeling her for awhile but things have been progressing slowly because conflicting schedules. We hung out last weekend after I had a bad couple of days and was feeling down. We talked for hours and watch some netflix. Before we knew it it was after 3am. At first I offered to follow her home but eventually told her she could stay in the spare room if she didn’t feel like driving. Mind you i had 0 intentions of hooking up. I genuinely just needed someone to talk to. She went to bed and I stayed up in my room watching Netflix. Hour later she came in and said she couldn’t sleep. I told her it was okay to use the tv in the living room unless she wanted to watch whatever the show was I had on. She went out there but came back a couple minutes later. We watched for a good 30-45 minutes before the blood flow started taking over. I went to the bathroom hoping it would go down. I walked out with a semi and she made a comment about it and i couldn’t help myself so i made a flirtatious joke and it was all up (or down) hill from there depending on how you look at it. I didn’t want to hook up with her because i was hoping to eventually pursue a relationship and I didn’t want to start it off that way. It was a good night but now how i wanted things to go. I don’t want her as a fuck buddy or a friend or anything like that I wanted to be with her. I’ve waited for so long to find something serious after years and years of hook ups and this is what fucking happens when i try to get serious. I couldn’t keep my dick in my pants and now I probably fucked up a chance at the only relationship ive wanted in 4 years. I’ve talked to so many different women before her and none of them made me feel as good as she does. I don’t want her thinking I only want her like that plus i would be devastated if she didn’t see me as a serious relationship. I was ready and finally willing to take that leap of faith and might have screwed myself. Now I need to figure out where to go from here. I can’t believe i let this happen. I’ve never felt this much regret after sex in my life. I legitimately feel guilty about it. I just wanted a chance to show her i could be serious and im not a player lookin for ass. I’ve worked so hard over the last few years trying to be a better man. I just want a chance at something. I don’t know if i can handle the outcome if it’s bad. I hope she gives me a chance still. There’s so much more to me than good dick ans netflix.

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  • I mean she was willing, so it's not like you forced her into it. I don't think you've ruined things. Maybe be honest with her and tell her that you're trying to be a better person and you don't want her to think she's just another toy for you, and tell her you want to be in a relationship. Take her on dates and show her that you aren't just attracted to her, but that you care for her. And remember, if it ends up not working out, in time you can find someone else and try again.

  • I can't speak for all girls, but for a lot of them. What you did certainly did not ruin anything. Girls usually are the ones who are afraid of sleeping with a guy too soon, because they think that the guy will think she's a slut, and that SHE is undateable. Simply show (or tell) her that you don't think she is. Also, especially girls tend to develop feelings after sex, so you might've done yourself a favour, even. Either way, the most important thing is how you act now. If you ignore her, you show her that she was just a one night stand for you. Instead, show her that you want more than just sex. Tell her that you do, but also show her, by suggesting dates that don't end up in the bedsheets. If she likes you, which she should if you plan a relationship, then she most likely won't see you as an asshole if you don't act like one from now on. Seriously, a lot of relationships are started by people who have sex on the first date or friends who suddenly sleep with each other. Don't worry too much!

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I broke up with my ex a few moths ago.. He was the love of my life, we still love each other, but we can't be together because he makes me sad all the time. He hurts me and makes me feel lonely. But he always comes back to me somehow. He was aggressive, jealous and always did the wrong things. He always had trouble with the police and drank a lot. Nevertheless he loved me in a way no one else did. But there's this guy I just met. He's in love with me and I kinda like him a lot. I don't love him (yet). There might be a chance that I never will, but he makes me happy for the moment. He does everything for me and he's completely different than my ex. He's the better man.. shall I choose him and start a new chapter in my life or shall I risk it all and choose my soul mate (hoping that he'll change), the man I used to love for many years? I'm so confused either follow my mind or my heart..

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  • Hey, your so-called 'soul mate'? ...He doesn't love you. People who love you won't treat you that way. He's an abusive piece of shit and you deserve better. If he makes you sad all the time, he doesn't love you. Why do you love him? That's not love. That's manipulation. Forget him and be glad he's out of your life.

  • Go for the new guy, give it time to see if you really like him but no more than 4-6 months. This is a chance to be away from an abuser and find out what you really like.

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One thing that really bugs me is when someone complains about their relationship (and not about the whole thing, but just an aspect of it) online and most comments are "break up". Not just on here, also on other forums. I'm not sure if it's just an internet phenomenon to think that if a person complains about something, they must find the whole thing bad, not just the one aspect they complain about; or if it just shows how nowadays people's mindset is to immediately break up a relationship instead of fixing it. Sure, there really are situations that should lead to a break up, like e.g. abuse. But in most cases, those comments just don't help. You don't know that person's relationship. Just because her boyfriend doesn't do the dishes or because his girlfriend won't give him a bj, it doesn't mean they aren't wonderful people apart from that one bad habit, that they aren't in love or aren't functioning as a wonderful team.

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  • It all depends what the issue is, what might be a deal breaker for 1 isn't necessarily 1 for someone else.

  • There are too many people and it’s too easy to meet them, if your relationship is troubling you you can have a better one in an hour. Dump them!

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I want someone to randomly go on a vacation with me, anywhere, anytime, any day. let's get outta here fr

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Just found out my ex got engaged today and I can’t lie, im disappointed. We broke up awhile ago but it’s hard seeing someone else live the life you thought you were going to have. I thought I would marry this girl and start a family but she cheated on me more than once. I tried to make it work but ultimately the trust was completely depleted and it started fucking with me mentally. Every time she went out or was around other guys it drove me in-fucking-sane. I’ll always have love for her because she was the first and so far the only girl i can legitimately say I was in love with. I was having a good weekend until i heard the news. I wish i dictionary feel like this but I can’t help it. Even though it sounds stupid, there are days where I wondered if being together and being cheated on is better than being apart. It’s a shitty way to look at things but that’s how deep my feelings were.

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  • I went through a similar thing. I am over my ex but I was kinda pissed that he married someone who I knew he didn't respect and he had to get married the weekend before me. But if you're not with a cheater, you have won believe me.

  • You were only in love with the ideal possible her. The actual her was a cheating whore that drove you in-fucking-sane. You can tear yourself up about ‘what should have been’ but it never was and never would be like that. Let this new guy figure out for himself that’s dhes a cheat and move on.

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My boyfriend is a hot head and thinks fighting is like the only solution to things. I don’t even tell him when things upset me anymore because he always wants to go out and fight someone. I want a boyfriend, not a bulldog.

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  • Get a different boyfriend. You cannot have a healthy relationship with someone you can't talk to/be honest with.

  • So, you have low standards and regret who you hopped into bed with?

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Ok so I am noticing this annoying trend on Facebook... I say that if you have kids and are on friendly terms with an ex to co-parent that's great you know, like whatever...but what I find annoying is if a person posts weekly updates saying "He's my ex and my best friend! So glad we could get together today!" It just seems like you are totally not ok with him being with someone else..

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Christians know you were born this way thats why the bible requires we're born again spiritually and God is the father of that

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  • There are many people who are born again and are still homosexuals just as almost all people who are born again still lie and gossip; being born again doesn’t ‘cure’ you of sin. Your clever little bit or word play doesn’t mean anything at all. Your Biblical God doesn’t fixate on homosexuality as a sin or hate gay people so you shouldn’t either.

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If you like me, please tell me. You have to understand that I'm not in a position to tell you first, but I'm trying to make it as subtly apparent as I can. I get the feeling you might actually feel the same way I do, but we'll never know if you don't bring it up. If I say something first, I could ruin everything. But you won't. It has to be you. I'm begging you, make the first move if you really feel the way I think you do.

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  • The old ‘the other person had better be a mind reader’. I predict good things for this relationship!

  • If he is your boss, then confessing is a little too much on his part and he could get into serious trouble

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