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Unpopular opinion of the day: I actually like that it's normal nowadays to break up various relationships during your life and that people constantly get divorces. There's a social pressure on so many things, I'm just glad that this isn't among them anymore. I'm glad that nobody feels the need to stay in a relationship that makes them unhappy because they're afraid of what people will say. I'm glad that once I get married, I won't chicken out of it because of the dread of having to decide something for the rest of my life (how it's often portrayed in movies, you know). I also think staying together means a lot more when it's more normal to break up for people, and when there's no pressure on you. Nowadays we have the choice to repair a relationship, and deciding to do so means something, unlike in the past days when you simply had to try to stick together. Sure, there are downsides to it; I guess I don't have to name them. But every coin has two sides. So yeah, that's my personal opinion on that.

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  • At first I was kind of pissed off reading this, but I think we agree and you just worded it badly? Like I thought you were saying you were glad so many people break up and divorce, but I think you're actually saying you're just glad divorce is an option now because it didn't used to be, so now people who are unhappy don't have to stay in those relationships.

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My finance wants kids, but I don't. I now have to decide whether I one day will agree to have kids, or the marriage is not gonna happen. I have no idea what to do. I don't want to lose the love of my life - that's the very selfish reason for why I would actually agree to have a child. But from a moral point of few, I think this is a very wrong reason for bringing a life into this world. On the other hand, everyone I've talked to about it (who, I fairly have to say, all are much too keen to become grandparents or uncles to be unbiased) says that it won't matter, because once I'm holding the baby in my arms, I won't care whether I initially wanted it or not. I'm lost. Also, what if I say no and in a few years suddenly want it, and then I regret breaking up?

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  • You probably should have known this before getting engaged. Most people have an idea if they are a 1 or none kind of person when it comes to kids....

  • The thing is, you might change your mind, you might not. I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago because I knew we could physically never have children (I'm a girl) and that she didn't even really want kids, so adoption was out of the question. There were other factors that led to us breaking up, but kids was a big one. Now she kinda wants kids, but we've both moved on. It hurts. But ultimately, life goes on, and it's probably for the better that we broke up.

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Are there normal women who WANT to have babies anymore? My friends and I were discussing odd women who call themselves "Dog Moms." They claim they are happy but the dog is clearly a substitute for a child. Stroller and all. Lady, if you weren't mounted by Scooby Doo, and pushed this thing out, that isn't your "Furbaby." Then it came up on the news that a Swedish minister was calling Hungarians Nazis Because of a policy to make it cheaper & more accessible to have children. Saying "Women fought to free themselves of this." Taken alone I would assume it's just crazy cat-lady talk. Sour grapes. I recall in Middle School girls would call me up and say, "I want to have your baby." Sex was secondary, a baby was priority #1. Did I miss a memo? Don't try to tell me your career is so "fulfilling." I'm typing this at work because corporate drudgery is meaningless and unfulfilling.

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  • I hope no one has your baby, you sound like a prick. Yes, some women prefer pets to children. They call them their 'furbabies' because they love them like children, they're part of the family- but they're not as expensive and not as much trouble as kids. Pets are, in a sense, children. And women don't have to pop out babies to have fulfilling lives. Having kids is a very big and personal decision. It's expensive, it's difficult, many women have health issues that prevent it- Some people also just don't want to pass on mental illness/physical genetic issues. Why are you so pissed that not everyone wants to have kids? There are too many kids out there as it is, why don't you adopt?

  • Whatever is fulfilling is very individual. In the end no one wants to have lives uselessly and that's why we leave things behind, a legacy. And to every person a legacy can be a different thing. I don't need one specific thing to be happy, It doesn't have to be a child, or a career, or anything else I leavebehind. But one of those things will be. Saying only a child can fill a void is somewhat unhealthy, it's near impossible to be happy with another life if you don't love your own. Many women even get depressed having children, fearing they themselves lose meaning. Whereas others may find having children the most rewarding in their lives. But don't forget, if you are in a corporate world you only see corporate women, there are family women out there, with their families. Your perspective is never complete and there is always more to the world. And just because something seems a certain way to you, doesn't make it so.

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I missed the feeling of having a boyfriend. It's been 7 years since the last time I'm in a relationship. Wow. Even me shocked.

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He loved me at the point where I was not confident with myself. I love him now, at the point where he's tired of waiting on me.

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Like any usual girl, I do masturbate. and everytime I masturbate I calling my favorite celebrity. Well, hurt no one tho, but I do wonder if I could actually do it from the start. Like I still need help by watching porn and when I'm about to climax I put my phone down and call out his name. It's like I'm not actually dare to try to imagine fucking with him but I'll kill to try. p.s. : I do get wet when I'm think about making out with him, but I stopped right there. thanks for reading and good night

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  • idk why but I can't get off to porn. I'm a girl too. Watching it just... doesn't do anything for me, it just makes me wish I was with someone else instead of alone in my room.

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I missed my chance to say my goodbyes to my ungle as he was in his death dead. Dont do what I did. Tell your loved ones how important they are too you. Tell them you love them because you may think they will always be there..but eventually, they wont be.

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I don't know why I watch porn, i like women sexually but I'm also a misanthrope

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  • Its just an itch you have to scratch i guess. Even if you hate humans in a social way, you cant help being forced by your brain to find them sexually attractive.

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The kine is faint, but I think we're finally pregnant. Is Ethan a good name for a boy?

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  • That's wonderful! Definitely get tested by a doctor to be sure :)

  • Congratulations! I think Ethan is a wonderful name😃

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Well i like a man who's married. Im very irritated that I cant let go. Well I distance myself from him to avoid jeopardizing his relationship to his wife. I adviced him to not pursue a relationship with me at all even though he knows it was hard between us .... I told him to just be friends with me and move on. So yeah im was single on valentines day... but im imagining somehow how he was treating his wife right now... oddly im thinking of their nice date...

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  • You made the right choice, just know that.

  • In time, you'll move on. Just remember that if he would cheat FOR you, he would cheat ON you.

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