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This is it. I'm finally asking him to hang out. It's... not a date, necessarily. But I want to get to know him as a friend before I try to advance beyond that. I don't want to rush things and jump straight into dating when we barely know each other for real. I've been nervous to ask him, but I need to get over myself. This will never go anywhere if I don't take a step.

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So I met this guy on facebook when i was a kid. He inspired me so much to do better in my life. It was long gone, we lost contact but whenever I talk to someone from his country, I get a lil excited. He means something to me it's ridiculous.

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Ikr this isn't a confession, but do you guys think that the first love is the strongest one? Do you think that a person only loves once? Like only once truly with all your heart.. is it always the first love because your heart wasn't broken back then? Because you trust a person no matter what? Because you've never experienced a heartbreak before? The first love shows you who you truly are and makes you feel safe without any trust issues.. Does a person only loves once? Or is it by chance possible to love again? Does love exist at all?

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  • I believe the very contrary, I think many people's first love happens in their teen years and even though the teenagers always feel like it will never get better, we all know that those loves mostly aren't very big and definitely not meant to last (in most cases, I know there are some that stay together). Most people have serveral relationships with real love invlolved before they meet the one they marry, and a lot of people even marry several people. If your first love really broke you so hard that you can never truly love again, then you have some issues, it's not normal. I've heard of people who never love again (or rather claim that) after being hurt a lot, but they're definitely not the norm and definitely not healthy.

  • My first love broke my heart so i dunno about any of that. no i don't think it's the strongest one, at all. and yes love is fucking real. i'm a guy btw and i cringe when someone doubts if love is real. wtf are you even doing with ur life if you don't believe in love? and if you don't believe in love, do you believe in happiness, art and beauty at least?

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I broke up with my ex, although we still love each other. We really do, but he started doing drugs and it's just something I can't accept.. Id have forgiven him anything but drugs are the worst thing a person can do tbh. He was my first love, the only man I ever trusted. He was the only one treating me right, showing some respect.. He loved me for whom I was and I appreciated that so much.. I don't know what to do, it's tearing me apart I miss him so much.. I miss his love, his late night texts asking if I Was okay.. But getting back together won't make me happy as long as I know that he won't quit. He won't. I will never love anyone else, he was my first love. The only man able to make me feel love. I'm scared that I'll never replace him. I'm scared to stay alone.. I'm scared that this agony won't stop. I'm scared never to feel this love again.. I want him so bad, how will I ever be able to move on ..

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  • inb4 he started smoking weed lmfao.

  • that's stupid all cuz of his addiction

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I know it has been two years already and not talking about it has helped a lot in avoiding unnecessary arguments but i always wanted you to know that I'm still hurting. I wanted you to acknowledge what I'm feeling, that I'm still affected and i still cry almost every night. I wanted you to console me and tell me that it's okay to cry sometimes. I wanted you to hug me and make me feel that you'll never let go again. Ignoring the fact that it happened did not helped me. It helped our relationship work but I'm still broken.

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  • This person does not love you.

  • He must have messed up and you stayed?

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That realisation that everything that youve gone through, your mental health becoming worse all because I was sexually assaulted, and its almost taken me two months to realise..

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  • This will get so much flak, but whatever. If it took you two month to realise that you were assaulted, maybe you weren't?

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I went to a party with my boyfriend and met his old classmates and now I can't stop thinking about one man in particular. I've been with my boyfriend for a long, long time and have never felt temptation like this before and I don't know how to get rid of it. This guy was really intelligent, sincere, kind and absolutely my type - I felt straight away a strong attraction to him. In general I don't really get crushes or anything like that so this has kind of unsettled me that this has happened and so powerfully, we chatted a little bit in a group and at times I felt him looking at me. He added me on Facebook the next day and of course I accepted but none of us have messaged each other yet. I say that because tonight I nearly did so, I just can't stop thinking about him even though I'm trying to rationalise with myself that it's nothing. The worst, most ridiculous bit is that we met just over 2 months ago - I haven't even seen or heard from him since and yet I still can't stop thinking about him nearly every day. This has never happened before, why won't it stop??

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  • You are still infatuated by these image of him that's form in your mind. Some crushes could crushed your relationship. Think it over.

  • Look, this is a pretty normal thing to go through. I went through it myself. Your relationship is probably having issues- whether you realize it or not- and your brain is just seeking solace in someone else.

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I think loyality is the greatest virtue, so I think slut-shaming is the morally right thing to do.

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  • to clear things up: promiscuity sucks, neither you gender nor if you are relationship matters to me, if you sleep around like a whore, you should get called out for it.

  • No, because slut shaming means shaming girls who have one night stands and wear mini skirts (in reality, that's exactly what slut shaming is). How about cheater shaming instead? And not just shaming the girl - because only girls are called sluts, so this post kind of sounds like only girls should be shamed.

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Guy: I will talk with Anybody about any Confession with open mind /instagram @hey_it.s_ali

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  • If only there were an app for that

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My boyfriend sometimes makes some comments that make me... a little worried. Sometimes we play-fight a little, you know, when we're cuddling and one starts to tickle the other and we end up sort of wrestling. Or when I mock or annoy him on purpose and he pretends to be really angry for it and pretends to hit me or shoves me into the wall, but then kisses me instead - it's really all normal and what couples usually do, he's never hurting me or does something inappropriate and normally, those things are so minor that they're not worth being mentioned. The thing is, he has very often, mostly after pretend-hitting me with his fist, said something like "Oh I'd love to do this for real once". One time, he said that he has a lot of anger inside of him that he doesn't know how to let out, and that it would be freeing to punch someone as hard as he can once. And then, another time, it was all jokingly said so I didn't worry, he said that if he picked a fight, he would pick me, because I'd stand no chance against him. But slowly I start to be a little worried about all of this. I'd like to clarify one thing before you all advice me to run: we're in a happy relationship and he's so normal. Really, pick any person you know and love who has never hurt you and who you know would never want to hurt you - because he's that to me - and now imagine that person suddenly starts saying those things in a joking manner. You'd be confused, I bet, but wouldn't immediately cut contact. I don't know if I should take all this as just a joke and a small anger issue of him that will never truly be a problem, or if I should be worried that one day, he might get too angry at me. I don't know if I should push him to do a anger issue therapy or something.

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  • I think if youre almost certain its not going to be a real issue but are kinda worried, maybe pushing for therapy wouldnt be the best option, but definitely try find something else for him to do that would release energy and anger, like boxing or some other exercise

  • If i was dating a girl and she said some shit like that i would break up immediately wtf.

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