Sou jovem e sou tbm velho... estou falando de relações... Eu penso em quanta merda já aconteceu antes de eu chegar numa relação como a q tenho... sinto q meu conhecimento sobre isso foi destruído várias e várias vezes até que chegasse no período atual... isso parece triste quando vc é uma pessoa q acredita no amor desde o princípio... desde criança (talvez eu tenha passado muito tempo na frente da tv)... Não é uma coisa errada... Mas é tudo tão diferente... Não deveria ser tão complicado... é uma contradição... ao mesmo tempo q há a vontade de uma segurança romântica... a vontade de reviver períodos onde isso não existia me faz viajar e desejar começar a vida de novo
She said she didn't want to have kids because, "The are starving kids in Africa, and the world is overpopulated." So I've decided to find someone else. Placing someone else's offspring above your own doesn't make you a good person. It makes you a bad mom.
I am a very spiritual person. I belive in a after life and it gives me closure for my loved ones who have passed. I happen to also be dating a atheist. I know he doesn't belive in what I do but he dosent push his beliefs onto me. He supports me in my belief in life after death cause he knows it makes me feel better. And thats when you know you've found someone who loves you unconditionally. You both know you have your differences and you accept each other for who you two are. I love him and hes my best freind. I wouldnt trade him for anything.
my husband and i are starting an flr. i want to know how you humiliate him
I'm scared of relationships because my parents' relationship always made me feel unsafe. They argued about even smallest things - one of them first misinterpreted the other and got offended or angry, and then they both just refused to understand. It was constant, at least a few times every day. I was always on guard, fearing that a fight might break out at any time. I was also scared of expressing thoughts that conflicted theirs because I wanted to avoid possible conflicts. Now I'm scared that my own relationships will be like what I just described and that I'll never find someone I feel emotionally safe with.
After having been in a few abusive relationships I've finally after some years found someone whos good to me. I can't believe the absolute sweetheart he is. Now one of my best friends has told me he hates it because of I won't love and marry him in 3 years he will kill himself. How can you put something like that on someone.
Do you need help or loans to pay your debt...
Some people like to fool themselves. I was married for 7 years, between 22 and 29 years old. It was a bad situation and I'm not going there again. So, move forwards a few years, I met this woman just 3 years younger than I am. We're dating and everything is going okay. But from the start I told her "I won't marry you. I have my place, you have yours; you can spend some days at my place, I can spend some days at yours, but eventually I will want a few days for myself at my own place, and marriage is out of question". She said "oh that's okay, it's a good compromise, plus I make more money than you so I don't need a new place to stay". Now, we've been in this relationship for almost 2 years. But then she starts saying things like "we could join our stuff in one apartment and rent the other" and I'm like "you remember I said NO MARRIAGE AT ALL?" But she says "it's not marriage, it's for practical reasons". She know FULL WELL that "living together" counts as marriage for legal purposes in our country. So I told her "no, we're not doing that". Now she's fucking MAD at me. I'll end this relationship, as it is not good for anyone anymore, and I'm sure she'll paint me as an asshole to her friends and family. But fuck that. I TOLD HER two years ago, when we started dating. NO. MARRIAGE. AT. ALL. Why won't people listen?
so I been sleepi with my old mans friend and I dont feel bad about it. in fact I think I might be in love w this guy..... fuck my life.
Im so close to my mom I told her when I lost my virginity and I don't really know why.