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I'm having trouble in my relationship. We've been together about 5 years and I have the feeling we have developed in different directions. I'm not sure if we will able to find a way to communicate through our issues and it's really depressing me. He is my closest confidant, we have built a life together and I don't want to lose that. I want us to be happy, I want him to be happy, but I don't know how we're going to turn this around. I know everyone is going to say I should break up but I love him and don't want to lose our life..

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  • Chances are high he's noticed this shift too and if he's your closest confidant than you need to have some faith in his ability to really listen to your concerns. It's completely naturally to grow differently, but just because you're branching out in separate directions doesn't necessarily mean you have to leave the other behind. I can't tell you if you'll be able to keep your romantic relationship or if you'll begin a new chapter as platonic support system. That's up to you two and life. Best thing to do is sit down, multiple times, and discuss it. I say multiple because you'll both think of new angles to explore in the days following each conversation. Maybe even go to therapy if need be. Someone to help frame the conversation in a purely constructive way could be helpful.

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Does anyone know if its a good idea to make a fetish tinder, without showing my face? like i was thinking to just say im looking for someone who would be into this this and this etc and then maybe show a body picture i guess , what do yall think? im really lonely and im too insecure about my fetishes to actually date thats why i think of this instead ..

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anyone hooked up with their friend's sister/brother?

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  • Yeah three times first time she was drunk second time she wasn't but said she wouldn't do it again but Ended up having sex after a Argument

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in my mind... there's 2 types of "pedophiles" the ones attracted to kids.. and the ones attracted to those the same age as their kids... you dating someone 25 when your own daughter is 24. is hella cringy. sorry not sorry.

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  • having read the all the comments, Your logic is horribly flawed. A pedophile is clinically defined as someone who was a sexual attraction to, and this is the key word, a PREBUBESCENT child. Most court of laws legally determine persons 18 and up are consenting adults. Spin it however you want to fit your ideals all you want, a 40 year old dating a 20 year old is two consenting adults. Society, culture depending, may not agree with it but it does not classify under pedophillia. Now the quintessential cusp of your thinking is the whole "what makes a child" guff. Yes, different societies determine differently. But that form of thought can easily justify the argument of a 40 year old identifying himself or herself as a child because that's how they mentally feel which just enables pedophiles to act on their impulses to go for children. When my daughter turns 18, I legally have no more say on who she sees anymore. sure as shit she will always be my child, my baby girl, but if she wants to see a older man, that's her choice and all I can do is voice my opinions and objections. doesn't make him a pedophile. developmentally speaking, the brain doesn't finish maturing until 25. so by your logic, even a 25 year old dating a 23 year old would make him a pedophile just by maturity. Any other ascewed thoughts?

  • That second one is not pedophilia. It is very creepy and extremely uncomfortable for the person's daughter though. Speaking from experience.

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for the past few months, I've been fucking my mate's sister atleast 13 times

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  • You're the worst kind of person

  • 13 is such a random number to lose track at

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I'm not mad that you don't like me, I'm mad that sometimes you act like you do and then pretend like nothing just happened. I wish you were just a bit more honest with me. I'm getting tired of always watering a dead plant. Always the one reaching out and being there but never having any one. or maybe I'm just being dramatic and overthinking things again.

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  • You know it's dead. Stop wasting your water. Compost the husk and find a new piece of flora to give your attention to. This one is incapable of appreciating it.

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I'm a 40 yrs old virgin man and because of all my medication I've lost interest in sex so it seems. Anyway it was pointless, I just couldn't connect with a woman before and now too.

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Is liquor like vodka a good Christmas gift to a guy?

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  • i like vodka lmaoo

  • idk depends on the person. obv if they're an alcoholic that's a shit idea. if they like vodka than yes. if you've never seen them drink? no, I'd avoid it. not everyone enjoys drinking.

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I haven't talked to that person i like in over a week now , also i started journaling again and i followed a lot of accounts that have to do with like therapy and positive things, i learned from that person, to use things like quotes and stuff in your daily life its not corny or try hard its actually very helpful and can help u be better with ur mind.. also im trying to not watch porn, but today i did a bunch of times :/ its difficult . im embarassed already so pls if i could not be bullied for this it would be nice because im trying my best i dont want to be in love with someone like that. , and i like to write here how im struggling cuz it helps a little bit and i dont feel as bad and helps me stay strong and not write her or be thinking of her too much

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  • I hope you overcome your obsession someday and are able to lead a healthy relationship where you're loved for who you are

  • you are an amazing person if someone judges you then that's them but you are you and again an amazing person at that

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I still miss my ex so much everytime I see him with his new girl it hurts so much. I even have a new boyfriend to get over him and he knows how I feel. I just idk needed to get this out there

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  • all you have to do is love yourself as for your boyfriend break up with him if your still hung up on your ex dont break his heart like your ex did you

  • I stopped missing my ex when I bought a better quality scope and properly zeroed it in

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