Has anybody else ever been exhausted by an ex? Our relationship ended 3 years ago and he’s still stuck on me. He was talking to me and some other girl at the same time for about a year before we were official. I asked him multiple times if he had any feelings for the other girl or if he liked her and he was adamant they were just friends. I’m not a jealous person and never had a problem with him talking to her especially since we were friendly to each other. We never hung out together but we were Facebook friends and followed each other on IG. All was good at the beginning between me and my now ex until he started behaving shadily. He would tell me he’s doing one thing but his friends or social media show different. He was acting very vague with short 1-3 word replies, on the phone he didn’t say much, in person he was really secretive and seemed like he was in his own world. The final straw was when we made plans to hang out and he canceled to “study”. Turns out he was hanging out with the other girl and it wasn’t the first time, he did it our whole relationship. He told me the entire time they don’t hang out anymore, they barely talk, they only text here and there to check up on each other. Basically when he wasn’t with me he was with her. Neither one of them would confirm if they ever hooked up or not but neither denied it so I’m pretty confident they did. He spilled all the beans on a lot of things so I broke up with him immediately and ever since then he will not move on. He keeps trying to talk to me saying I’m the love of his life, he wants to marry me, we’re meant to have children together and all this shit. Our relationship lasted less than a year so its funny how he was juggling the 2 of us the entire time and all of a sudden we’re supposed to be married and have kids? WHAT! We weren’t anywhere near that stage when the relationship was good. But he just womt give up. He messages me all the time and shows up at my work “to get lunch” at least twice a week. It’s literally exhausting having this man bothering me all the time. I’ve told him I’m not interested but he wont let it go. Every time I block him he finds a way .
I go home from school tired, have research deadlines. I just want to watch a TV and rest. But here comes my mom, watches TV with me and all I hear is her rant about the skin tone, nose size, and stupidity of the characters in the tv then makes a generalized and opiniated statements about society from her observation from the TV. Most of them are bigoted, and discriminating abd says its the truth when she knows little about it.... Im just even more drained. Then my brother goes home would talk about his stress from work. Metaphorically speaking, their shit is like a person wearing dirty shoes from outdoors and will bring it inside a carpeted house and will make a clean carpet messy and harder to clean... and if I talk about my own problem, they find loopholes why im wrong... like if I do that situation to them, theyd be mad at me.. earlier, I was just watching tv and my mom, said to the character in the tv, "she has a tomato like nose but she's so nice.. if she could just be my daughter." Like im not doing anything, im just quiet wtf did I do?!?!?! Im confused with them..like i dont know anymore which is a joke and which is serious. I feel like living with crazy people and im getting drowned by them... if you tell them to stop joking theyd be all serious with an inner grudge. If you tell them to stop being too serious, theyd be joking and telling harsh things about me... im just extremely intoxicated with thede people.. theyre mental. I love them but im getting more depressed and anxious and i cant study well because people at home are crazy mental!!! Man i want help to escape this home and actually move out already.... i love my education but i really really really wanna be outta here!!!
I had a dream that I was at some sort of sleepover with my ex and her family, and her new boyfriend. He slept right next to her as she took my hand. Then held my dick, and started stroking. I was worried she would wake any one of them, but she didn't seem to be. She put it in her mouth and started sucking, and I came quickly. That's when I woke up with a pair of boxers soaking in cum... Hottest dream I've ever had. I really want it to come true.
My girlfriend has just told me she's pregnant. I honestly don't know what to think. I have the nagging doubt in My head that there's a chance it's not mines. iv been with her just over a year, and have never had any real findings that she's ever cheated on me but something just tells me she has. stupid things like I know when a guy has messaged her because I get a glimpse of the name or whatever and when I ask who it is she plays it off as one of her girlfriends. iv also seen sexts to another guy from a point where we were early on in our relationship but still getting pretty serious. I asked her if she was seeing or in contact with more than one person at the start and she said absolutely not. I know otherwise though. I don't know what to think, I love her, but don't know if I trust her fully
I feel like my boyfriend treats me like a customer, instead of a girlfriend.
Question for women: Would it bother you to date or marry a man who has a SIGNIFICANTLY lower body count than you? Like if you were in double digits and he only had 1 or 2 partners, or was maybe even a virgin? How would that make you feel?
he's so kind and humble to everyone but sometimes i feel like he has this special treatment to me, but i'm afraid it just my feeling and hurt me in the end by knowing the truth that he actually just act usual and didn't have the same feeling as me.
I knew my crush supposedly had a secret girlfriend- but since I heard this from someone else, not him, I've been skeptical about the validity of the statement. But I had an idea of who it was and why it would be best to keep it on the down low. And today, I saw them together outside of work, and she was riding in his car. She lives pretty far away from our side of town, so she had no reason to be riding with him... unless she was going home with him. I mean it's possible that she had car trouble and he was giving her a ride despite the distance because he's just a very kind person, and he's given rides to several people who lived way out of his way. But they've been friends for a while now, and they have really good chemistry despite her being a wild rebel and him being a reserved goody two shoes. Don't get me wrong, I think she's great and I even consider her my friend. One of the few people at work that I'd hang out with outside of work. But seeing them together made me feel sick to my stomach. Knowing that the whole time I thought he might be flirting with me, he was probably actually waiting for her to get promoted so that she didn't work in his area anymore. Knowing that the whole time I was trying to get him to realize how important he is to me, he was probably trying to get her to realize how important she is to him. I'm happy for them, I really am. I just... feel so shattered. So stupid. I can't believe I thought someone like him would actually like someone like me, especially when my competition is a smart, funny girl who is also literally a model. Even I think she's hot. I just wanted to vent my feelings here because even though I wish them the best, I can't help but hurt inside, and I don't know who to talk to about this.
I finally told my boyfriend that I love him and I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders, plus the sex after was freaking amazing, My body is still tingling. The way his dick curves to the right, i can feel him pounding my inner wall with every thrust. When his cum is slowly running down my throat i feel a sense of pride and accomplishment. I feel like his dick was specifically designed for me because he hits all the right spots. I’ve never been huge into sex, it’s always been a take or leave it type activity but with him my body craves his attention and satisfaction. There aren’t many things more satisfying than going to bed with the feeling of his warm cum still in my vagina as it slowly drips out throughout the night. His dick is a work of art, pablo picasso would be proud.
Date/Pseudo-Incel Guy here. This is gonna be long and rambling, but I have to tell you a story: When I asked my girlfriend out, I was drunk, really stoned and terribly depressed - my drug-abuse of course only made it worse, but I didn't see that. I felt like I stood with my back to a wall, so I thought about it: I could either have given in to selfhatred fueled delusions and become an incel, or asked my crush out, because I had the lingering hope that she had a crush on me, too. I luckily did the latter and, after half a year, now I am writing this, laying in bedsheets that smell of her... A few minutes ago, I decided to visit r/braincel to look what these guys are up to, and I realized what a bullet I dodged: In a metaphorical way, I am my own Neo right now.