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Husband’s Mom comes round once a week on average. She basically randomly picks a day and then short notice asks to come over and my husband always says yes, even when he doesn’t feel like it. Like alone what I want, he never asks me. Just tells me that’s she’s coming now. We just had a really big fight because she’s came over 3 times in the last 10 days, I don’t actually have anything against the woman but I think that’s too much. She lives 10 mins away and every time she wants to see my husband, she comes here. My husband refuses to go the 10mins over to her place because he doesn’t like his Dad much and he might see him there and they might squabble over stupid shit. Meaning that our home shoulders 100% of her visits. it so frustrating. He point blank refuses to be fair and do what I’ve asked for a compromise which is 50% visits at our home and the other 50% at his Moms. I just don’t want to see her so often but with him just letting her come whenever she wants I don’t really have a choice, he obviously can see her as often as he chooses but I wish he’d balance it a bit by going to see her not always the other way round. I’m worried that if we have a baby she’ll try to come over 2,3 maybe more times a week. I’ve already said that I couldn’t cope with that, I’ll need some space and won’t be in the mood for short notice Mil visits. It’s even worse because my family live in another country so we rarely see them but I have to put up with my husband’s family all the time because they all live so close. I have no balance and don’t even know if I can fix this now, any serious advice/ similar experiences really appreciated. He’s hurt me with how uncaring he is to even see my side of the story and how he refuses to compromise with me at all, it’s making me resent him and I don’t want that.

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  • I've never been in this kind of situation... honestly if anything I've had the opposite. my boyfriend goes to his parents 3-4 times a week so he's never home. kind of wish he'd be home more. but it would bother me having no notice of his parent coming over that often either. so I get where you're coming from. he should at least be giving you a heads up, there's should be some compromise. I would say you need to have an honest to goodness conversation about it. tell him EXACTLY how your feeling and make sure he's listening. I learned from a marriage book recently (written by a neurologist), that if you need to have a discussion about emotions with a man to give him a heads up about the conversation a few hours before the real conversation happens because women function emotionally, whereas men's brain physically don't have the same connection to emotion so it takes longer to process. which is why sometimes we get upset that they don't wanna talk about it or the conversation isn't done or they don't understand what we're saying. it's cuz their brains physically take longer to process. so my only advice would be try that. have a real conversation where everything gets laid out. but let him process it before escalading it into some argument. and try to work out a compromise. if that doesn't work. I would try talking to your MIL. tell her how it makes you feel. sometimes they'll be on your side and make their sons go see them or will cut down on the visits. you never know unless u bring it up.

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Whenever I have problems, my boyfriend goes MIA or unresponsive to me. I don't know if I should break up. Feels like he is only the drying good or happy times

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  • He should definitely be there for the good AND the bad. He should be there to support you no matter what and make sure that you're doing okay. Make sure you have a talk with him about it.

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Whenever I have problems, my boyfriend goes MIA or unresponsive to me. I don't know if I should break up. Feels like he is only the drying good or happy times

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  • He's manipulating you and emotionally abusing you. My ex was like that. If he's worth keeping, have a talk with him about how this bothers you and it's not okay. Or just dump him. How can you spend forever with someone who can't work through hard times with you? Stop wasting your time with someone you can't last with

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it's 1 am and I want to go to sleep... I have to get up and go to work in 4 hours. my girlfriend and her daughter are being loud as fuck drinking and yelling and laughing and crying and just being inconsiderate. I'm so over being told I don't ever think of other people's feelings and I don't respect anything that isn't mine. for fuck sake I'm the only person in this house with a fucking job, is it too much to ask that people shut the fuck up long enough for me to get some sleep?

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  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MdzLfiLCkrc Watch this The reason for personally is because of the Bible but if you are not Christian watch this video instead

  • never date a single mother

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the amount of grown adults on my Facebook who post things about "bullying is wrong" "be the example for your children" "be kind to others" "we're in this together" etc. but then post degrading things about politicians they don't agree with, tell people who don't agree with them (family and friends even) that they're losers, snowflakes, monsters, cry babies, etc. they leave death threats in comment sections. they say so and so deserves to die because of a political or religious belief. they harass people on personal pages. a political debate turns into personal attacks on weight or parenting. so I guess bullying is only wrong when it's done to you or your child not to others around you? it's ok to be the bully as long as no one is bullying you? it's ok to be rude, cruel and unkind because you don't agree with them for a certain topic. just as long as people are kind to you? it's starting to make me sick when I see the "positive" posts because it's so fake and two-faced I can't wrap my head around it.

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  • your first mistake was going on facebook

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does anyone else feel alone even when their spouse is right next to them?

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i had many relation but still dont know much about it since it was only one night stands :/

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My husbands 'kids' (20,22 - they should be fucking grown!!) r trying everything to make it seem like id cheat/ steal. Do stuff like putting money from his wallet into mine, ripping apart their fam photos and place them on my desk, spray my clothes with mens parfume, or leaving unknown socks and underwear ... I was able to avoid their traps for now but if my husband won't put first for once those brats will get their divorce

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  • Have a hearth to hearth talk with him

  • Why does he put up with that???

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Im not able to have a relationship for more than 2 or 3 years , after a little while has passed no man still has interest. im either too boring or too stupid idknow.. How can you keep a man happy? Should i give him permission to have sex with other woman so he stays with me ?

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  • No, honey. Don't ever let a man have sex with other women if you're together... It's not healthy for you or the relationship. A relationship should be filled with trust and love, and if they lose interest, fuck em. They clearly don't see the unique person you are.

  • No. If someone just loses interest in you, that's their problem, not yours. You need to find a partner who will communicate with you and talk about problems, especially if that problem is something you could fix.

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