After having been in a few abusive relationships I've finally after some years found someone whos good to me. I can't believe the absolute sweetheart he is. Now one of my best friends has told me he hates it because of I won't love and marry him in 3 years he will kill himself. How can you put something like that on someone.
Do you need help or loans to pay your debt...
Some people like to fool themselves. I was married for 7 years, between 22 and 29 years old. It was a bad situation and I'm not going there again. So, move forwards a few years, I met this woman just 3 years younger than I am. We're dating and everything is going okay. But from the start I told her "I won't marry you. I have my place, you have yours; you can spend some days at my place, I can spend some days at yours, but eventually I will want a few days for myself at my own place, and marriage is out of question". She said "oh that's okay, it's a good compromise, plus I make more money than you so I don't need a new place to stay". Now, we've been in this relationship for almost 2 years. But then she starts saying things like "we could join our stuff in one apartment and rent the other" and I'm like "you remember I said NO MARRIAGE AT ALL?" But she says "it's not marriage, it's for practical reasons". She know FULL WELL that "living together" counts as marriage for legal purposes in our country. So I told her "no, we're not doing that". Now she's fucking MAD at me. I'll end this relationship, as it is not good for anyone anymore, and I'm sure she'll paint me as an asshole to her friends and family. But fuck that. I TOLD HER two years ago, when we started dating. NO. MARRIAGE. AT. ALL. Why won't people listen?
so I been sleepi with my old mans friend and I dont feel bad about it. in fact I think I might be in love w this guy..... fuck my life.
Im so close to my mom I told her when I lost my virginity and I don't really know why.
I think I'm incapable of loving someone in a a romantic way and have a full relationship. I'm sorry ladies but your interest doesn't make wanna know you. I'm a misanthrope so...
(Really explicit) I knew I hadn't really lived before when I held her on a leash, writhing naked in my bed, calling me master...
I want to be able to treat this girl I'm talking to girl right but I'm dumb and still in love with my son's mom.
Why does everyone think that if you care for someone, you HAVE to be dating? Does nobody know what platonic care is anymore? This is why I can't care about others because people attempt to shove me into a relationship when they sense even the slightest ounce of remote appreciation for someone from me.
Being a hopeless romantic longing for a relationship vs. knowing I'm not ready for one is really kind of annoying. I wish I would stop craving romance so much.