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Life advice: Don't take it personal when you get dumped. You didn't "lose" she just realized you weren't a good fit before you did. Some time ago I was dumped. I kept trying to make it work, but she wanted out. She was right. We would have made each other miserable. I don't drink, she goes to the club and gets Drunk all the time. She comes from money, I'm a self-made man. I'm religious, she's not. She is now the mistress of a politician's son. We would have been miserable together. She just saw it first. I'm glad she did, because I would have kept trying and it would have sucked. I'm married to the right woman and I am happy now.

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I said some fucked up shit last night and I don’t know how to recover. I was having a bad day from the jump and hella tired. My girl was over and I asked her a basic ass question if she locked the door or not and she got an attitude for no reason and we got in an argument. I was already pissed off and she pissed me off even more and I told her “If somebody breaks in I hope they come shoot you first” as soon as I said it I knew i fucked up. She startee crying instantly and left. I feel stupid as hell now and don’t know what to do

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  • I don't know how much you really belong together if you really said that to her... I could never bring myself to speak those words to someone I love, no matter how mad I am.

  • Oh shit that sounds terrible...are you sure it was just because of that bad day and being tired? Or is there some other conflict inside of you that you're holding back? I don't know if it's just your way to react in an argument but compared to the people I know that's a hard reaction. The outside world can make us loose our connection to ourselves sometimes, also to the ones we love, but mainly to ourselves. Whatever/Whoever annoyed you: what did they make you feel like? Were they speaking to your image of yourself or to their Image of yourself? And why do you give them the power to ruin your day? Try to really find out more about your inner self, personalities, feelings, the soul and things like that. Maybe it helps to find the right words to say to your girlfriend, maybe she was having a bad day, too. Some time has passed already and i can imagine that you wrote her during the time. How's the situation now?

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Can't you see that I treat you differently than I treat everyone else? Can't you see how wonderstruck I am when you look into my eyes? Can't you tell that I melt whenever we touch? You make me feel so vulnerable and yet so safe, like I'm a child again with a schoolgirl crush. But I don't think you see it.

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  • If u let ur dog starve they'll come and beg 4 food !!!!!! jst drop it dude!!

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I hope my best friend's boyfriend knows how lucky he is to have her. I'd give anything to have a girl like her. I'm glad he treats her right, it's what she deserves.

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I had a nightmare but it was funny cuz my crush's gf had lots of accidents and I kept laughing at her!! and wake up on the best mood ever !! whut do u thinkk?

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  • lol I'm not preteen I'm actually 21y.o soo..

  • That's... really mean. Wishing bad things on someone who makes the person you care about happy is terrible

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need help. i don't know if I still love my boyfriend, but after i saw something he did that turned me, i never felt the same again, i mean i don't feel attracted to him anymore at all. i start to feel weird telling him i love you. what's wrong with me? don't want to hurt him

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  • Be honest with him. Talk to him about what he did that changed how you feel. See if you can work it out and fall back in love. If not, time to let him go. It's going to hurt, but it's better than wasting both of your time on a relationship that's not working out.

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I just wish I had a hand to hold at the funeral today. It seemed like everybody there had someone with them but me. I so desperately want the comfort of a partner, not just at this difficult time, but all the time. I just feel so lonely. I feel like I have no support.

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  • Something I've heard quite often and that definitely proved to be true for myself, therefore can't be such a wrong advice: you can't be happy in a relationship if you can't be happy alone. Learning to support yourself is more important than finding someone to support you.

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I need opinions if I'm mentally ill or not. I've been through alot in life and was with my ex(first boyfriend) for about 4 going on 5 years. he hurt me and did alot of horrible things to me but because I never actually acknowledged them...they have started to affect me lately. we have been broken up for 3 years now. he died in 2015...and raped me before he died...i blurred out the memory and pretended it didn't happen...after he died he kind of ruined my reputation to everyone. he made me.out to be a horrible person and a whore and I've never been with anyone but.him. I would literally give him the clothes off my back. not saying I'm perfect but I definitely treated him better than I treated myself and most likely everyone else. I prayed about it and thought I had moved on but it still bothers me. he also had his side chick stalking me at the time way b4 he died(at the time I didn't know she was his side chick). her and one of the other girl he was seeing during the time we were together started taunting me and spreading horrible rumors and lies about me.i. ignored them. his friends who tried to hit on me and I ignored then turned on me also. I held alot of resentment towards all of them for a while. for his side chick bothering me, and his friends spreading lies, saw him cheating, laughing in my face,letting him use their car to cheat,etc I always felt the need to destroy all of them and get my revenge but I know karma will take care of that. sometimes I feel a little psycho because whenever a female gets too close to my current bf or does something I feel inappropriate,I feel rate inside and I don't want to feel that way.its not that I'm insecure but I just don't want to lose someone precious...i have no one else :/

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  • I'm sorry this happened to you. I suggest therapy if you can get it, just to help you work through all of this

  • No, you can't get opinions on whether you're mentally ill. You need a psychologist. Getting the story off your heart here is fine, but if you want help, then you need a professional.

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I want to come out to my family as bisexual. But I want to have a reason to, meaning I want a girlfriend. I don't want to just, out of the blue, tell them. I want to say "She is my girlfriend. I'm bisexual." I want them to see that I can actually love someone of the same sex, and that my attraction to girls is not just some kind of twisted desperation for attention. I'm just so tired of hiding who I am.

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  • You're overthinking this. I'm bi, but I never dated guys. Married a woman. Never told anyone who didn't ask, because who the hell cares? It's not like it makes us a better or more interesting person.

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My boyfriend and I talked about engagement rings lately, and when I said that I'd rather want a $5 ring from some fashion store (because it doesn't make a difference to me), he said that this is absolutely not okay for him and that he'd not buy one for under $100. We aren't rich. We both earn minimum wage. I don't know how to convince him that it would make me more sad than happy if he buys me an expensive ring, he just won't listen. We have so different opinions on this, for him it's like a cheap ring would be a sign that he doesn't love me, for me an expensive one is like burning a 100 Dollar bill.

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  • Listen. I totally get your point because I too come from a poor background. But an engagement ring is something that's worth that money. You're going to have it all your life. Think of it like... shoes. If you pay $5 for shoes, they'll be worn out in a month tops. If you pay $100 for shoes, they should last well over a year, maybe more if you take care of them. Rings are the same. You get what you pay for, and something that emotionally important is worth investing in. It's not a waste.

  • how about you both ditch the idea of the price and go for something that looks good? you should definitely set a max price, maybe 100 as mentioned. It doesnt have to be gold and diamonds, there are some beautiful bronce and silver rings too.

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