i played a concert some while ago. a girl that was there invited me for shots afterwards and took my hand to lead me to the dancefloor. we danced a while. she was really cute and later that evening she asked me to go out for drinks someday. i agreed and so meet a couple of days later. we both had been a bit tipsy that evening and basically we just danced that evening and didnt talk. seeing her the other day, she was more shy. she talked about herself most of the time, but still it was a nice talk. after our second beer she started to talk about how unfair it is, that women have a really hard time to orgasm, especially when the guy doesnt last that long. she told me a lot about taking drugs since age 13 and about taking the day after pill. also she told me that sex is ways better when beeing high. i didnt date a lot before so i didnt immediately realized, how much i was intimidated by beeing so open about such topics. finally wrote her today how i really felt about the date.
my only friend got rejected again. and because i am an overthinking dumbass, i noticed some little details that i think are weird. so first, all the girls he hung out with or showed strong interest in him got into a relationship shortly after they called him off. All this time they were seeing each other, posted pictures of themselves on social media, they had something going on with someone else in the background. You see, people can do whatever the fuck floats their goat, but to me thats kinda confusing and a bit disappointing. Seems to me like all people just want someone, not THE one. second: I dont like the way he deals with it. he acts like they owe him something. The friendzone isnt real. And even if, its not real friendship if you had expectations about hookin up. He says it doesnt bother him, but i think it kinda does.
I think that I like boyish women with short hair because they look like, well, boys. I'm not sure that I'm straight, bisexual seems more like it. I'm a dude.
I will not use an online dating site, ever again.
I'm sick of porn, I want and need a real woman.
I'm so desperate for sex that women over 50 are an option to me. I'm in my late 30s. They pay me no mind at all.
I don't tell me you love me, and then pretend I don't exist.
Do you ever wonder like... what if the person you're meant to be with is someone youre 100% unable to be with? Like someone from other country. Someone famous. Someone completely outside of the circle you run in. Like movie shit aside, people who run in totally different circles or groups of people rarely interact. And if you dont believe in "soulmates" or "meant to be," then think like... The person you fit with the absolute most. cause I think of that kind of stuff.... A lot. And I find it really weird.
I wish I could just fall in love with somebody who loves me back, is good for me, and maybe actually lives in the continental US. That'd be great.
so my husband has been fucking my "best friend" for about two months and she doesn't know that I know. we're poly and she knows this but she still went to him behind my back. he of course told me right away but I've waited to see if she'd tell me and she hasn't yet. I'm just upset that she feels the need to hide something from me JUST to hide it and that she's clearly not the friend I thought she was. she's due with her first baby in a couple weeks and if she hasn't told me by time she has him I'm cutting her off (which means he will too). to make it worse we've even had several conversations where I've expressed that I would be ok with it and that he doesn't do anything sexually without me knowing. she's constantly telling me to leave him too because "he doesn't love you like he says he does"...yeah he's not the one who's lying to me. (the only bright side is I getting excited about sharing him so at least I'm still getting something out of it.)