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i played a concert some while ago. a girl that was there invited me for shots afterwards and took my hand to lead me to the dancefloor. we danced a while. she was really cute and later that evening she asked me to go out for drinks someday. i agreed and so meet a couple of days later. we both had been a bit tipsy that evening and basically we just danced that evening and didnt talk. seeing her the other day, she was more shy. she talked about herself most of the time, but still it was a nice talk. after our second beer she started to talk about how unfair it is, that women have a really hard time to orgasm, especially when the guy doesnt last that long. she told me a lot about taking drugs since age 13 and about taking the day after pill. also she told me that sex is ways better when beeing high. i didnt date a lot before so i didnt immediately realized, how much i was intimidated by beeing so open about such topics. finally wrote her today how i really felt about the date.

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my only friend got rejected again. and because i am an overthinking dumbass, i noticed some little details that i think are weird. so first, all the girls he hung out with or showed strong interest in him got into a relationship shortly after they called him off. All this time they were seeing each other, posted pictures of themselves on social media, they had something going on with someone else in the background. You see, people can do whatever the fuck floats their goat, but to me thats kinda confusing and a bit disappointing. Seems to me like all people just want someone, not THE one. second: I dont like the way he deals with it. he acts like they owe him something. The friendzone isnt real. And even if, its not real friendship if you had expectations about hookin up. He says it doesnt bother him, but i think it kinda does.

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  • Dude... lots of people do that ('talking to' several people and then narrowing it down). That's called dating. You test the waters to see who you like the most and then you pick one. Just because they didn't choose your friend doesn't mean they want just anyone- they clearly don't or they'd take him. Also, if he's the kind of person who thinks women owe him something or he whines about being 'friendzoned' all the time, I wouldn't even be friends with that guy, much less date him. He sounds like an ass.

  • I have a few things to say: 1. I don't see any problem with wanting to be with someone instead of wanting to be with THE one. A lot of relationships are breaking apart despite being between two people who are wonderful for each other only because they lack experience, haven't ever learned how relationships work (that you have to fight for it sometimes, that it's not like in love movies, that you don't own each other etc.). Also, having a best friend who's with you all the time and who helps you, who is there for you, is just nice, even if you know it's not for ever. And don't forget about sex. 2. First you say they were leading your friend on, then you said those were just friendships anyways, I'm just a little confused what is actually going on; are you saying the girls are bitches for talking to multiple guys at once or not? (Seriously, I just want to understand, I'm not trying to discredit you). 3. I love the phrase whatever floats your goat. Was probably a spelling mistake but it's awesome, thanks for the laugh

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I think that I like boyish women with short hair because they look like, well, boys. I'm not sure that I'm straight, bisexual seems more like it. I'm a dude.

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  • I know someone who is exactly like that. He even likes traps. and he swears in god he aint gay.

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I will not use an online dating site, ever again.

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  • You mean not until your single again

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I'm sick of porn, I want and need a real woman.

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I'm so desperate for sex that women over 50 are an option to me. I'm in my late 30s. They pay me no mind at all.

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  • oh nooo 50?! how oooold! jfk guy just masturbate if youre going to treat women like walking fleshlights.

  • Maybe they pay you no mind because they know what you want and they want something better. Most women don't want to be viewed as 'an option for sex I'd settle for'. Hell, most women don't want to just be viewed as fuckable/not fuckable in general. We're more than that.

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I don't tell me you love me, and then pretend I don't exist.

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Do you ever wonder like... what if the person you're meant to be with is someone youre 100% unable to be with? Like someone from other country. Someone famous. Someone completely outside of the circle you run in. Like movie shit aside, people who run in totally different circles or groups of people rarely interact. And if you dont believe in "soulmates" or "meant to be," then think like... The person you fit with the absolute most. cause I think of that kind of stuff.... A lot. And I find it really weird.

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  • then its not meant to be tf. destiny would find its way.

  • The person I fit the most - as in female-version of me - lives about one town away and we're a couple. The thing is: People aren't special; Personality is based on "stereotypes" or "traits"; even for a pseudointellectual weirdo like me it was possible to find someone fitting...

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I wish I could just fall in love with somebody who loves me back, is good for me, and maybe actually lives in the continental US. That'd be great.

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so my husband has been fucking my "best friend" for about two months and she doesn't know that I know. we're poly and she knows this but she still went to him behind my back. he of course told me right away but I've waited to see if she'd tell me and she hasn't yet. I'm just upset that she feels the need to hide something from me JUST to hide it and that she's clearly not the friend I thought she was. she's due with her first baby in a couple weeks and if she hasn't told me by time she has him I'm cutting her off (which means he will too). to make it worse we've even had several conversations where I've expressed that I would be ok with it and that he doesn't do anything sexually without me knowing. she's constantly telling me to leave him too because "he doesn't love you like he says he does"...yeah he's not the one who's lying to me. (the only bright side is I getting excited about sharing him so at least I'm still getting something out of it.)

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  • I like romance as in "18th-19th-Century-Prose". You and your lifestyle sicken me and I think you should overthink polyamory forthwith.

  • maybe she knew your husband told you, so you already know. some people won't tell you something if you already know about it. now with that being said. my bestfriend slept with someone I was madly in love with and lied to me for 9months about it until I found out from someone else. and even after I knew, I confronted her and she lied about it for another 2 weeks.... so I know how you feel. and it's near impossible to forgive in those situations. it takes time, it takes a lot of heart and some aspects of it you aren't totally over. our friendship will never be the same. we still talk, I didn't cut her out completely. but I have moments where I feel bitter, where it's uncomfortable to be around her and it's hard to trust her again. if I were you, instead of waiting for her to say something confront her. saves u a lot of time and gives her a chance to say something about it. the comment below, the part about losing friends and not knowing why, i've had that happen a lot too...and some I still don't know what it was. but if someone thinks I hurt them or theirs something they don't like, i'd prefer the chance to change it or understand what happened. There's a lot to factor in and every situation is unique. but thats my 5cents

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