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i always get used, like i go out with girls and im so nice to them and everything is perfect. they tell me how much they like me and how much fun the had. after a few days they block me. this has happened way too many times and im sick of it. i try not to get attached but i cant help it. like ill do anything for the people i like but they just wont do the same for me. idk whats wrong with me or what im doing wrong. i can feel myself becoming sad and depressed again. :(

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  • Do you spam them with messages? Can you tell whether they are being honest when they say they had fun with you (do they tell you in person? Do they say it because you ask them? Do they form full sentences or just throw you a quick 'thanks for the date it was fun'?)

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I suspect that my mom might have told my coworker that I have a crush on him. He for some reason brought up to her out of the blue that he has a girlfriend but he wants to keep it a secret (which she passed on to me). And he's been kind of distant with me ever since she told me that. I'm feeling paranoid and thinking maybe she told him I like him and then he told her to tell me he's not single so he wouldn't have to reject me. I mean if she shared his secret, why wouldn't she share mine? I'm mad if she did because I was totally fine with just being his friend and him never knowing about my love for him, but if he knows I like him and feels awkward around me now, I have no chance at staying friends with him. But there's no way I can ask her without pissing her off, and I can't ask him because she might not have told him and then he'd definitely know. idk I know this sounds dumb and I feel like I'm 13 again going over this in my mind, but I'm really upset by this. He means a lot to me.

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I have no idea what people who are in long term relationships talk about. After a certain amount of time, you've already told every story, shared every detail about yourself, had every discussion about every opinion you have... if your job isn't something super special, you don't have that either, and unless you have a lot of friends, I don't see a single topic of conversation left. Of course there's always new stuff happening, but those barely are enough for a little "honey I'm home how was your day" chit chat. What do you talk about when going out? Do you stop sitting outside on warm summer nights while talking forever?

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  • Who would win in a fight: a gorilla with a machete or a giant two-story tall horse that's on fire? What would you do if I turned into a zombie right now? Etc.

  • My Husband and I been married for 3 years, dated for 2 years, friends for 1 year. And we still yap lol. Not as much ofcourse but we talk about our jobs, we get crazy individuals, talk about tv shows we're watching, current events, gossip, talk about our cats, food, what to do for the weekend, our financial problems..... there's always something

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Ladies, I’m looking for advice on birth control. My old birth control pills were ridiculous and made me not want to have sex with my boo which is really annoying. Now we just use condoms. What has worked for you guys besides condoms?

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  • From one woman to another: TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR. Different forms of bc won't affect everyone the same way. I know some people who got the arm implant and loved it- and I know others who never stopped menstruating and experienced severe depression because of the implant. No form of bc is 100% effective either. Talk to your doctor and figure which kind is right for you.

  • A friend uses something called "umbrella" which is inserted for 2 years I think and has less hormones. It's also cheap. It's not very common apparently, but try to check it out. I'm also going to switch to that.

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I'm not sure how to word this properly, but I really want to share my excitement somewhere... I think I'm in my first poly relationship. I'm kinda dating this girl who has a boyfriend and he knows me and likes me, he's okay with her dating me and even encourages her to. I say I'm kinda dating her because we do everything a couple would do- we've even agreed that if we officially "declared" a relationship nothing would really change- but we haven't taken that step and officially declared it either. But she says she considers me her girlfriend, so I consider her mine too. And it feels so nice. I love her so much. I know a lot of people frown on poly relationships or think that it's cheating somehow, but no one is sneaking around here. No secrets are being kept. No lies are being told. It really is possible to love more than one person. And I'm so happy to be part of that.

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  • Congrats! Definitely talk to her about declaring it officially, just so there's no room for misunderstanding.

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I saw her a few days ago, she greeted me much to my surprise. We haven't spoke in my many yrs. I used to love her but never had a chance, she made that clear. I was the wrong kind of man for her, I see that now. And I failed as a friend too. The reasons are not clear to me now but I remember being her friend in the hopes that she thought maybe different of me in a weak moment. She had plenty. Her family were her parents and three older brothers. Her father was the only one decent, her mother was a nut case. But the 3 brothers were the worse because they were drug addicts. One of them raped her. But she seems alright now and she's better off without me as a fake friend. I truly hope she finds peace and happiness.

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I'm failing my classes in college, I have no time for sleep, eat and do things that makes me feel human. I have no friends. Ever since I started college I haven't made any friends I can be close with. I was still at home manipulated by some conservative rules. My job don't pay enough for me to even afford living on my own. I don't even have a boyfriend. Now I'm gaining weight, growing lots of pimples, and is extremely depressed. My parents told me to live all those goals one by one. Finish college first and then the others. I always know happiness is pursue not given. So I want to pursue them but one thing I don't know, does pursuing them take a long time or not? Does pursuing happiness even mean pursuing success? What is success?

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  • success is different for everyone. what's your definition of it? who do you consider successful? someone with lots of money? high social status? lots of free time? someone with a lot of friends? someone happily married with children? only you can define what success is for you. and if college isn't going to bring you the things you want then maybe it isn't for you. i'm not ssying drop out. i do believe in education. but for some people that isnt the right course of action. college does not guarantee success. it opens some doors, but ultimately for some, it can be there downfall once the debt from student loans accumulate. happiness is not the same as success unless your definition of success is happiness. but I would say that happiness is not given or even pursued, it's created. you create your happiness. things can get in your way. difficult things still happen and i'm not saying you'll be happy every second of every day. but you decide what makes you happy and you choose to have a good attitude. go after whatever you think is best for your life but don't listen to people who aren't where you want to be, chase YOUR dreams, not someone elses. the people you consider successful can help you get where they are, but those who aren't there will do everything to bring you down, even if it's unintentional.

  • Don't listen to your parents. You can pursue several things at once. You can get an education and still have friends or be in love. Humans need social interaction.

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How come every time I fall in love with someone who might actually be good for me instead of settling for someone terrible, it always ends in me getting hurt? I'm so tired of getting heartbroken when I try to make good choices. Why can't I just be happy for once? Why can't I be loved? I keep trying so hard to convince myself I can't possibly be unlovable. But I'm 22 and still haven't managed to keep a single relationship for even a year. Maybe I am unlovable.

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  • you're 22, not 42. you're young. I know lots of people who haven't even dated at all that's that age. early 20s is the time to experiement and see what you like in relationships, date, meet new people. doesn't mean you're unlovable you just haven't found the right guy and that's ok. you don't have to rush things or put yourself down. if you really think there's something offputting you could improve on though, never hurts to build yourself. if you wanted some advice, i'd say focus on yourself, work on you, figure out what you want, make yourself what you want to be and the right guy will love you because you love yourself and know who you are. (that doesn't mean become egotistical or arrogant. swinging too much the other direction can cause issues too)

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I'm a female that sells nudes photos and wrong panties. my family doesn't know.

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  • wait how do you even sell panties? Do you have like a website or do you like message random old pervy guys if they want panties or something?

  • I only buy right panties....oh well...

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My crush and I have been flirting back and forth for a while. I started to think that maybe for once in my life, somebody actually liked me back. Well today I had to find out from someone else that he's secretly dating another girl. I don't know who she is... but I hope they're happy together.

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