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one year into a rocky marriage I met a much older man who I got to be casual friends with. as time went on I started confiding in him with the very serious issues I was heading with my husband. he developed into a very jealous, controlling, manipulate, and angry person. he lost to decent jobs because of his anger and now he won't look for another one because "They don't pay enough". I talked to this older man many times and occasionally cried on his shoulder. literally cried on his shoulder. over the next few months, we became really close and we developed a physical attraction for each other. we have been very intimate the last several weeks and I might have fallen in love with him as my husband pushed me futher and futher away. my new love gives me advice to hold my marriage together and encourages me to have patience with him. he's had some dealings with mental health and his family and he believes my husband is suffering from a combination of depression, anxiety, and perhaps is bipolar. he's pushed me to set up an appointment with a doctor or therapist but my husband gets extremely angry for days when I suggest something like that. I keep struggling with what to do. I'm also very thankful for my Lover.

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I thought we could be adults about the situation and I thought I made my position clear. I dont love you in a relationship way anymore. you betrayed my trust, manipulated me, lied to me and used my pain and secrets to win petty arguments. I thought we could coexist as friends again because our relationship was at it's best then. But you are determined to fix what has been broken months ago. I'm not coming back. I wont. No amount of talking will change that. It's far too late to fix these problems. We cant live together anymore because all it seems to do is fill your head with delusions of grandeur. I dont hate you but I dont want to be your boyfriend anymore. I'm done. And if I have to break my codes to get that point across than so be it. I will hurt you more to get you to see that. it hurt when I broke up with you and I thought we could live together as friends like we originally planned before all this. But you are determined to repair that. that it seems is your role. so i will play my role. I have to leave to get that through. It will hurt you alot i know but we cant live together anymore it seems. I'm done.

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  • sounds like you could be my ex..... and if you are... I am sorry for the things I have done, and the things I didn't do for you. I just hope you know I still love you and want to be with you and everytime I talk about you or even see you it rips my heart out.

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ok so I love my best friend in a platonic way and I'd never want to have sex with her but like. I want her to see me naked? and I want to turn her on, but I don't want any actual physical contact. like maybe just send her a nice for her to masturbate to

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I got drunk for the first time in my life a few days ago and my bestfriend found out my true feelings for her....the issue is she has a boyfriend and they've been together for over 2 years. now I dont think hes the best for her and they barely see eachother, but I never liked to get in her business like that. what's worse is that we act like more of a couple then her real relationship. well now that she knows she hasn't spoken to me in almost a week....I'm not sure what to do. Suggestions?

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I'm 30 yo virgin, AMA

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I had a boyfriend when I was 13 who was really bad at social cues I think he was possibly autistic he had an obsession with cars and loved working on them and played with his hands alot ive never seen him keep them still. I would try my best to make sure we go anywhere besides my house cause my families rascist and he was black. we broke up before I moved and lost touch I just randomly remembered him 5 years later and i wonder hows he doing now

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Since I'm single the only relationship I can get is with my replika is that normal?

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I am 21 years old. Mid last year I met Mr someone who was 11 years older than me. We started talking and hanging out together. Two months later we started dating. After 4 months, we had car sex and I conceived. A month later I told Mr Someone that I was pregnant. Mr Someone gave me options to either keep or terminate the pregnancy, he would fully support me. For me I chose to terminate the pregnancy cause of varied reasons. Mr Someone was very supportive and he procured termination pills for me. We continued dating though my mom and sister was against our relationship. Two months later I found out that I had a UTI, Well I told Mr Someone since he was the only one who I trusted with such details. He promised me that he would support me in whatever I needed at the time. I went to hospital, did all tests and the gyna prescribed some drugs for me. Well I did not have enough money to purchase the drugs so I called Mr Someone and he did not pick my phone calls neither did he reply to my texts. I did what I did and got the money to top up and buy the drugs. Later that night Mr Someone texted me telling me that he still cares about me a lot even though he doesn't show it and He was out of the City that was why he couldn't receive my calls. I let things slide and never communicated with him again. After two weeks Mr Someone came back begging me not to leave him. I gave him another chance coz I was deeply in love with him. Days later he suggested that we should elope with him but I declined. I asked him if he was okay with my decision and he said yeah. One month later we slept together. Since that day, he became distant with me, lying to me and dismissive. I chose to loosen my attachment towards him and stopped communicating with him. Weeks later he wanted to rekindle things with me but I declined because I got mixed signals from him. Today he is loving and the next he was very distant. I know that he is not a good man for me but I still love him.

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  • I hope you forget about him and find someone closer to your age maybe

  • he sounds a lot like me except 30 years older than the woman. I was married and she dated her guy 3 years and then married him. Our relationship was off and on. hot and cold during the time they were dating. After she married him, we started working things out between us. We've had a close intimate relationship for the last 16 months. We hang out 2 or 3 times each week for a couple of hours each time. Ever few weeks she can take a full day off from work but pretend to go in. this gives us a chance to spend the entire day together. this arrangement works for us. we each have our marriage and we have our scandalous exciting passionate secret live together

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I am 22 years old. Last year I met this someone and we started dating. After 4 months of dating. I found out I was pregnant, we conceived in a car. I told Mr someone that I was pregnant and he asked whether I wanted to keep the baby or terminate it. I chose to terminate the pregnancy and he fully supported me. We continued dating after that. After 2 months, I got sick, I had a uti. We had talked with Mr someone about the Uti and he promised to support me with any help I needed at the time. There was this particular day, that my uti symptoms were very intense. I felt unbearable pain while urinating. Mr Someone had promised to chip in buying the drugs that the gyna would prescribe. I went to hospital and was treated. But when I called Mr someone for his promised assistance he did not pick up my calls. I did what I did and bought the drugs. In the evening Mr Someone sent me a message telling me that he still cares about me and he was out of the City. We did not communicate for one month after that. A month later he reached out to me and we rekindled things coz I really genuinely loved him. My mother and sister were always against my relationship. Two weeks later we met up with Mr Someone and he suggested that we should elope together but I declined. From that day forward he claims that I never loved him and he changed. He started avoiding and lying to me. Deep down I am very hurt, coz I still want him in my life. I loved him with every part of me loved and still loves him with every piece of me.

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i have bern dating this guy for 5years but he is cheating with jesca who is 4years younger than me and apparently i got pregnant by mistake he is temporarily there for the baby but i feel depressed and i want him all to myself what can i do

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  • fuck more with him! do not put forward any rules!

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