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I think I understand people who stay in abusive relationships. Mine isn't abusive, but if I imagined that my boyfriend suddenly started doing this to me, I'd probably also stay. I can't really know, but I guess I would.

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  • Abused people stay because they're too afraid to leave or because they think their partner 'does it out of love' because of how much manipulation they go through.

  • I know that thought

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I somehow ended up in the folder of my phone gallery with all of the pictures of my ex girlfriend. I'm not going to delete them, because erasing part of my past would be stupid- she's also still my friend, and why would I delete pictures of my friend? But looking at them just made all of the memories and the feelings come flooding back. I miss her so much. She's with someone better now, and it's not that I want her back... I just wish I could go back in time to the days when we were together. I don't want to date her again, I just miss her. I miss her voice, her touch, her scent. I miss the way she made me feel. I just hope I can find something even close to that again. I worry that I won't. A love like that seems like it would be once in a lifetime.

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  • I'd say transfer the photos to your computer or a flash drive. Its fine to keep them but it isn't helpful to have evidence of only the good times hanging around. They make you forget all the crap you split up over.

  • You're definitely not over her, holding to pictures and memorabilia is a big red flag.

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Need advice from male's! I don't know what to do about this.. So, I guess you could call it a rumor but I've heard from my boyfriend's friends and family that his own mother sexually abused him. I don't know how to bring it up or talk to him about it.. the other day I went threw his phone and found moms teach sex porn, some involving like mother and son stuff, really weird to watch something like that, it made me really uncomfortable given what I've heard about my boyfriend's relationship with his mom. I heard she abused him growing up.. it wasn't consensual. But he's obviously messed up in the head about it, due to the stuff I saw on his phone. idk basically what I'm asking is, is that kind of porn normal for guys? Or is there something definitely wrong here..?

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  • thanks, your guy's advice helped alot.

  • Don't bring it up. I have a few psychological issues, and it has happened a few times that people brought it up. They meant well and only wanted to help, but it did the exact opposite. I felt awful, it was embarrassing, I swore to never open up about anything ever again (I still never do it because whenever I think it might help me to tell someone, I remember how awful it felt when they forced me to talk about it). I think what you should do is make sure he knows that he could tell you, that you show and tell him that nothing he could say would make you think less of him. Maybe even carefully talk about those subjects one day, making sure to show that you don't judge people who went through it. But also make sure to not dig too deep so you don't trigger him too much, and also be careful enough so he doesn't suspect you know anything. Because then he might feel forces to ask if you know it, and in this case the whole thing is doomed to fail. I am not saying you should lie to him, but sometimes it's important to shield someone from the truth.

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Need advice from male's! So, there's a rumor persay, that my boyfriend's mom sexually abused him. I've heard this story from some of his family members and friends.. I didn't want to believe it but I believe my assumptions are right.. I was going through his phone the other day and found weird porn. "Mom's teach sex" and there's porn whereas it's son and mother fucking etc. is that an obvious indication? Or is that sort of porn normal? The other day him and I got into an argument about his mother and I yelled "she's a child molester! and I'll never like her!" and he said nothing. Nor confirm nor deny, idk what to do about it.. I deleted all the porn so he'll know that I have seen it. But basically, is that sort of porn normal? should I be concerned? ahhhh help.

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  • If it's true, he'll tell you when he ready

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I'm so horny, but I can't ever get off. Masturbating just doesn't turn me on. I need that emotional and physical intimacy with someone, I need to do something for them or let them do something for me. Too bad I can't get a boyfriend or girlfriend. Everyone else makes it look so easy. I'm just fucking lonely is the problem.

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All my female freind have more of a sexual drive then I do. It makes me feel like some things wrong with me because I don't really have a want to have sex. I mean, its nice, but I just don't want too.

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  • Different people have different libidos, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. But if you're really worried about it, talk to your doctor and see if you might have a hormonal imbalance

  • Nothing is wrong with you.

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We've only been broken up for three months and she's already with somebody else. There are few things more insulting than that.

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  • Totally understand. Its like how can you move on so quick.? Like they didnt really love you.

  • Maybe she just got low standards

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Think real hard, about the person you plan to have unprotected sex with. If you are not prepared for what may come after, cancel it. NOW!

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  • Or just always have protected sex unless you're 100% trying to have a baby. And maybe don't have sex with anyone you're not willing to be around for the next 18 years, because if you have a kid with them, you'll have to deal with each other at least occasionally for the sake of the kid.

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(Explicit) The girl I have a crush on is a little overweight, and she's constantly putting herself down because of it. One of the things she feels most insecure about is her thighs, which I totally understand, cause I used to be super insecure about my legs too (and I still am a little bit). But to tell the truth... I'd love nothing more than to go down on her and make her feel so good that she won't be able to help but squeeze her legs together and just crush me 😍💕 I mean it wouldn't hurt or anything, it'd be like a really tight hug... for my face. Too bad I can't tell her that.

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  • Why can’t you tell her that? It sounds sexy.

  • thicc thighs save lives

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Today my boyfriends mum walked in on us having sex, and it wasnt just her getting a quick glimpse, she properly walked into the room, saw us and said "what are you doing?" Then walked out. I dont know if im overreacting but i think that may seriously affect our relationship, or at least us being intimate. He's going to uni in a week so we're already not going to be seeing as much of each other, which im worried will affect everything and make us more emotionally distant, but i dont think ill ever be able to have sex with him again after this... Sex is already kinda an iffy topic for me, and i can suddenly get extremely uncomfortable with physical contact and intimacy, but now i think im just going to remember seeing his mum and that extreme embarrassment and uncomfortable feeling. I want to talk to him about this but i dont want it to immediately lead to us breaking up, especially since he just bought me an amazing gift for my birthday and is coming to watch me in a play next week and i dont want it to seem like im taking the piss

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  • um hello everyone, why are they fucking in his moms house? what the heck did she do wrong but roam in the space she pays for

  • Sounds like you need to talk to the mum about privacy. If he’s old enough for uni and to have company he’s old enough to have privacy in his own room.

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