I had unintentionally been ignoring my friends because of the hurt they unknowingly caused me. I know it’s my fault that I fall asleep in class and make a fool of my self and they are just trying to help me by advising me but the way they put it hurts me a lot. I don’t care about others but I care about their view on me bc we’re friends. I’m now struggling to reply to them and honestly, I think I just made a rift because of all the internal hurt that has been compiling in me. I didn’t want this to happen but I caused it. I’m a shitty friend for doing this. This sucks too much and I’m coward because of I’ve been phobic of closer relationships since my falling out with my one of best friends. I don’t want a repeat of that. I’m shitty and I own up to that. This may seem minor but these internal battle I have been facing for so long has made me do rash decisions. I’m sorry guys for being a coward. I’m sorry for not being enough. I’m sorry and I hope one day we’ll forgive each other because I can’t trust you guys yet, not wholly.
I think im going to break up with my boyfriend because he lies, hides stuff, and constantly watches porn. I even caught him on live one time, but no matter how or when I catch him he denies watching it all together. This is his new take, along with telling me hes not doing it when he is. He even chooses to do it when im home, in the next room. Porn itself, i dont find a problem with, but the lying and hiding stuff that i am fully okay with behind my back is an issue. Especially since ive caught him lying basically everytime he tells me anything lately, including hanging out with his little brother, going to work, etc. This is an even bigger issue since i caught him messaging girls about a year ago...
I'm honestly impressed with this younger generation of Zoomer men. Never have I seen so many young guys talk about their desire to have a wife and kids. To be a husband and father. My generation of Millennials mostly just wanted to maximize their High score of pussy as if that was an accomplishment. I was the odd-man out for wanting a family. These kids are like anti-Boomers. It's great.
What do you think about a man who has anger issues but has a good heart? Is anger something that can be worked on or just don't bother with this type of man.
You can't force make someone feel that you are feel.
I am a single mom of two wonderful children. I am dating a guy. I love him and my children like him a lot too. I am hurting by one matter. He has a female friend. They are friends since last few years. He told me that she loves him, she is in love with him and the loves her. On Valentine's day he argued with me and got angry. After he left my house he went to the movie with her and spent the remaining of the day. I don't know what to do. It hurts me that he is so close with her. I feel like I am just an addition, like 5th wheel in the car.
Getting a little sick of people looking down on my wife when she tells people she is a stay at home mom. She was at the doctor and they asked her job and she got a sarcastic. "Good for you." My own mother is the worst. That woman collects a government check for a living and I was raised by the TV. My wife has a Bachelor's degree and is a top tier wife and mom. She has a side-hustle and helps me with my job. From now on, when people ask, I told her to tell them her occupation is "Trophy wife."
He said he's gonna be away for 6 weeks but the way he said it, I got this instant feeling that he decided 6 weeks was "safe" like I wouldn't flip out over 6 weeks, but really it's gonna be more and at the last minute he will have some excuse for staying longer. I wish he'd just be honest dammit.
Im so fucking hurt right now. I respected this woman’s boundaries for 2 fucking years and I just found out tonight she’s having a baby by another dude it barely been 5 months since we broke up. We started dating 2016 and she ended things in December 2018 and im so dead inside right now. I gave every ounce of love I had to this woman. She told me she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex and despite my concerns and hesitation I accepted it and was faithful to her in a sexless relationship just for her to fuck some other dude and have a baby by him not even 5 months later. I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life. This was supposed to be my future wife, we were supposed to have a family together. I put my all into this woman. I’m just in absolute shock right now I can hardly breathe.
I feel like, I've been inside my house for too long (almost a full month without seeing anyone). I want to go out, but I don't want to. So... yeah. That's my live now