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I’m going through something... and I feel so alone. My friends... they’re leaving me behind. I can’t catch up to them anymore. If I’m ever mentioned, it’s to pick on my mistakes. I hate how things have become now. I hate how tense everything is. I don’t trust any of my friends now, since they seem to be anything but trustworthy. I can only depend on my family but they wouldn’t understand this... I’m tired. So, so tired.

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  • Sounds like they're not really your friends. Cut those people out of your life and find some new friends who actually like you and care about you and support you. You don't need their negativity bringing you down. You deserve better.

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I kind of had a mental breakdown at my boyfriend's house yesterday. It was the middle of the night and we were in his bed when he asked me about the scratch marks on my hips. He’d asked me about them before several months ago, when he first saw them, and I was too scared to talk about it then. So I told him to ask me another day, and I guess that day was last night. But I froze when he brought it up, the same way I did when he asked me about it for the very first time. He said he needed to know. When I didn’t say anything, he said “Did your mother’s friend do this to you? She did, didn’t she?” and I instantly started hardcore dissociating, like my sense of reality was beginning to slip. He knew. I don’t know how. I never told him. But he knew it was her who was responsible for the scratches on me. He only met my mom’s friend once, but he must’ve seen her nails. She always, since the day I met her up until the last time I saw her, had these horrible, sharp, artificial nails. And yeah, she used to hurt me with them. The memory of what happened next is kind of a blur. I just remember panicking so much that I went numb. I remember getting off his lap, leaving the room, staggering down the stairs, and ending up in the woods behind my boyfriend's house, somehow. I remember him coming out after me, asking me where I was going, telling me to come back. I didn't know what I was doing or how I'd gotten out there. I kind of just wanted to run away as fast as I could because I was so terrified of the conversation that was about to happen, but I didn’t run. So he walked me back to the benches on his back porch, sat me down, and asked me what was wrong. All I was able to tell him was: they used to be worse. The scratches on my hips—they didn't always look like the thin white lines they are today. They used to look like they'd been put there by an animal. They used to feel like it, too. Back then, I was the only boy in my P.E class who changed clothes in the bathroom stalls instead of out in the locker room with everyone else, and I was the only boy in my neighborhood who wore a t-shirt whenever my parents made me to go to the pool. And it was because of this. I couldn’t look at the scratches on my hips without thinking back to how I got them, when she was pinning me down, sinking her horrible, horrible nails into my sides and… well, I’m not gonna say what she did next, but it was awful. I couldn’t look at my own body without wincing. I told him all of this. I told him everything. All my secrets, all the details, all the things I’d been terrified to tell him, it all just spilled out of me. I didn’t even realize I was crying until he wiped my eyes and nose for me. I told him I’m sorry he has to see me like this, and that I hate that I have to burden him with my trauma. Then he pulled me closer to him and quite literally held me until I stopped crying, and he said he never ever wants me to be afraid of talking about these things with him, because nothing I could possibly tell him will make him stop loving me, and that even if he can’t always understand my pain he’s always going to listen to me. He also said "I'm sorry. It wasn't your fault, okay? It's not your that fault this happened to you, and it's not your fault that you couldn't stop her." And that was the first time anyone in real life ever said that to me. I had no idea how badly I needed to hear that. It was two in the morning when we finally went back to bed, and I couldn’t stop looking at his sleeping face and wondering why I was ever so afraid to tell him what happened to me. He’s such a wonderful guy. I had no reason at all to be so worried. But still, it feels strange, knowing that he knows everything now. It feels strange knowing that there’s no more secrets I need to keep from him. I’m not gonna pretend like I’m not embarrassed after I told him all of that, but I’m glad he knows and at least that's all out of the way now.

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Some women get so upset just becasue you're not jumping through hoops for her. They put their own pussy on a pedestal. Getting mad for not being able to control your life with her pussy. To me it's kind of hilarious actually and I enjoy letting these women know I'm not that much desperate for it.

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I always wonder if the reason I have not had much luck in the dating department is because I'm not exactly the most feminine woman around. I mean, I enjoy being a "girly-girl" from time to time, but very rarely. Mostly, I'm very tomboyish and it makes me think that it might unsettle some people sometimes (not just men, but people in general). Who knows. Maybe I'm just over-thinking it.

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  • I used to know a straight woman who dressed like a cartoon Lesbian with stereotypical lesbian hair. Had no idea why she never got asked out. It was pretty ironic.

  • It definitely doesn't help in the general dating department to not be the generic type of person, but it has nothing to do with finding true love and friendship. If you want to sleep with as many people as possible, then you'll probably have to change yourself. But if you just look for genuine companionship, then please stop worrying about whether you're good enough or not. There's always someone for everyone. There's always the guy in the bar who doesn't understand why his friends drool over miss big tits and can't wait for the tomboy girl to look back at him. Two of his friends probably only pretend to like miss big tits to look cooler in front of their cool friend, while one of them only has eyes for the shy brunette in the back of the bar and the other one is gay. So much to that, stay who you are and love yourself

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I know I shouldn't worry about what people think of me, but... Are there still men who like "traditionally" feminine women? Because I'm pretty much girly-girl. I worry that I come off as dumb or impractical because I like cute things and like to wear frilly clothes now and then. And I'm embarrassingly emotional.

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  • There's someone for everyone :) Just be you. You'll find someone who loves you for that. Do what makes you happy.

  • Most men LOVE girly girls. Seriously, if I wanted a manly date, I'd go date a man. MOST men like trad women. At least with me and all my friends. You are gonna get MUCH more suitors this way.

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why do all the girls break up with me because we have no future even though im "perfect" and "amazing" and "anyone would be lucky to have me"

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  • You answered your own question. Because you have no future with them. Maybe you want kids and they don't, or vice versa. Or you don't like a certain type of animal they'd like to have as a pet. Or you both just want different things out of life. You treat them well, you're fun to be around, you're attractive, but you guys don't share the same goals or values, and you can't build a life with someone you don't have those things in common with.

  • probs because youre too modest 😑

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My boyfriend and I love each other and are a really good match with similar interests and opinions and so on. But there's one thing where we are completely different; and that's vacations. My boyfriend loves summer vacations in tropical countries, lying on the beach all day in a nice hotel. I despise this kind of holiday so much. I am actually allergic to the sun - I get painful rashes after five minutes in direct tropical sunlight, my body always goes crazy from the heat (diarrhea, constant dizziness), I attract mosquitoes in an abnormal manner, and after coming back from such a trip I always feel like I should've rather gone to work than doing this shit. What I like are winter or autumn vacations in the mountains. I love this so much that I sometimes literally cry when I see people posting pictures of their mountain vacations. But my boyfriend hates them. He's afraid of heights, so every minute on top of a mountain is torture for him. He hates the cold. He simply refuses to go on a vacation like that with me. And I would call him an asshole for that, if I didn't know how bad I feel about HIS vacations. I just don't know if we can spend a life together if the only choice is between "one person always absolutely hates the time there so the other one can't really enjoy it either" or "we go on no vacation at all and slowly start to hate each other for that" and "we compromise and in the end no one enjoyed the trip really". (And no, going alone or with other people isn't an option.)

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  • Well first of all, going alone IS an option. My dad refused to go climb a mountain with my mom even though she wanted to do it to honor my grandmother. So she did it alone. Secondly though, being afraid of heights has nothing to do with mountains unless you're actually climbing. You're not high off the ground just because you're on a mountain, it's like walking uphill. Being afraid of altitude is stupid. You're literally allergic to sun and it makes you ill, but he just doesn't like being chilly? idk man. Taking turns on choosing vacations may be a solution- you both eventually get vacations you enjoy. Or you could try to find a place where it's warm but you can go hiking or camping still, or someplace like Ireland where there aren't many bugs and the weather is fair. (Sorry this is getting kinda long.) Honestly though if taking vacations is SO important to you guys and you just absolutely cannot reach an agreement, maybe you're not meant for each other. I mean, think of it this way: if you can't even agree on where to vacation, how are you going to handle more serious/complicated disputes in the future?

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Some people are just too old to play games. Why?

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I've met a boy almost 6 months ago... He's been my crush since then, I've went out with him couple of times & I think he likes me too. I've had plenty of dreams of us together and they were -woah- Couple of days ago he introduced me to his friend and three of us went out together. His friend is so cute, I can't even- Idk what to do, bc I find them both cute now and they are both so nice, but you know what they say: 'If the first person was perfect for you, you woudn't even think of anyone else'. But that doesn't make this situation any easier. We are going out at least once a week and my feelings are just getting bigger. HeLp My LoSt SoUl

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My estranged mother is contacting me again because she got dumped and was to me to hook her up with someone. I can't tell her the reason why I won't is she's an absolute train wreck. Aside from the fact she disowned me years ago. There is no reason any decent professional man would put up with her. The woman is in her late 50s. Her trailer smells putrid, she can't cook, can't clean, she's objectively evil, she insulting, demeaning, and completely lazy and unaccomplished. She's literally never worked a full day in her life. Why would any sane man WANT to date her? Of course she is so terrified of being alone she will take ANYTHING other than being alone with her thoughts. God forbid she realize her problems are her own fault. What do you even tell such a woman?

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  • I mean if she already disowned you, it's not like she can do anything to you if you tell her the truth... Just be frank with her. Tell her she needs to improve herself and her attitude if she wants someone to love her

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