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I was driving back home when the tire popped. I couldn't keep the car under control. My wife died. I can't forgive myself. I will never love again. It's been 19 years now.

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  • It's not your fault. Things happen, and it's very easy to blame ourselves, but there was nothing you could have done. Please... if you can, try therapy. It might help you work through this pain and guilt.

  • This is so bad but in no way your fault

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I m/21 Confess that i´m in a relationship for a short time now and i don´t know if i love her or just the feeling of not being alone anymore. I really really love spending time with her, but i don´t know if i really love her. And i don´t want to hurt her by being in a relationship with her without real feelings , because she´s a really cute and good woman.

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  • Give it time. These feelings don't just pop up overnight. It's not like in the movies where you instantly fall in love. Don't quit on the relationship before you have a chance to fall in love with her.

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I'm going to write my thoughts down here just for the sake of getting them out of my system and getting more insight in my own feelings: 8 years ago I was 17 and I met a guy I immediatly felt a connection with. I never fell in love easily but with him the butterflies hit my stomach right from the first glanse. He rapidly showed interest in me and for the short time we had to spend together (read: 9 days), we had a lot of fun. I knew that somehow I would never be the same person as before. I learned a lot from him about life. On our last day, we kissed and somehow I both felt scared and at peace. We didn't stay in contact with each other and both went on with our lives. I reconnected with my ex and he had a new girlfriend very soon after meeting each other. Now I am in a relationship with someone who I really love and cherish and want to start trying to have a child. This guy also seems to be in a happy relationship to with a nice girl now. However: even though we don't do anything to contact each other and live kinda far away, two curious things are happening: 1) I still think a lot about him and wonder what he is doing, what he would say about certain things, etc... and 2) somehow we meet eachother once (sometimes twice) a year without knewing the other person would be in that place. At those times we smile at each other as if we know each other very well and the connection is still there. One time at a bar, my only friend who knows about him was with me and she said he could not stop looking at me (so i'm not imagining things). I did nothing with that information, but I keep thinking about it. I do wonder how long things will be going on like this... Don't get me wrong: I do NOT intent on cheating on my current partner or leaving him for whatever reason. I already feel guilty for just thinking about someone else sometimes. I searched for explanations on both psychological sites and spiritual ones. But I'm nog a big believer of spiritual stuff (like soul mates and all) and psychology did not give any answers neither. For now, my own explanation is: we meet more than one person in our life who we really connect with. It is OK to aknowledge it when you meet such person while being in a relationship, but you do not have to act on it. As for me, I think he kinda figured this out too and just knows it could have worked out with me too, but life and maybe fate has decided otherwise, and that is OK. (This turned out longer than I expected... whoops!)

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  • You absolutely can connect with more than one person. Otherwise people who lost love could never find it again. And it's okay to connect with more than one person at the same time, as long as you're not hurting anyone in doing so.

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I fell in love with perfect guy, he is handsome, has my kind of humor, likes everything I like and had everything my dream boyfriend should have. However, there is one problem, his friends. I feel the need to get to know them, but the first thing one of them said when the perfect guy introduced him to me was "i wont say hello, fck her, I dont care" and then was really toxic to me. I tried to look strong, but it shattered my heart. I wanted to be friends with his friends. A few days later perfrct guy wanted to spend time with me and his friend, but I couldnt get there in time. I was like 3 minutes late and his friend decided that he doesnt want to spend time with me and convinced him to stop waiting for me. I really want to be friends with his friends or at least to just accept each other, but after this I just cant. It hurts so fcking much.

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  • Ask why his friends hate you so much. They're being unreasonable. But, also... if he was that easily convinced to stop waiting for you after THREE fucking minutes- a perfectly reasonable window of time in which to be running a little late- ask yourself if Mr. Perfect is really as perfect as he seems. People aren't friends with people they have nothing in common with.

  • Talk to Perfect about it. Share your worries and ask why his friend was such a dick to not even want to say hello to you.

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My boyfriend and I had broke up. We didn't talk to each other, for ten days. We talked, and made amends. He wants us to be together on Christmas day. I told him, I would let him know, today. To be honest, I just want to sleep in, on Christmas day. I don't celebrate, the holiday. He doesn't celebrate, Christmas either, but doesn't want to be alone on the 25th. We live over an hour away, from each other. He doesn't have a car, so I mostly drove to visit. We've been been together for over two months. I never asked for money for gas, and he didn't give any at the time. I mentioned, that it cost about ten dollars drive (124+ miles round-trip). He said he would give me gas money. I can't be too upset, because I never asked before. I still don't want to drive. I just want to sleep, eat whatever I want to cook, and roam around my apartment all day. This is the only time of year, that I can have three days off work, and still get my pay. I'd rather do nothing, on Tuesday.

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  • So ask him to visit you by train or bus. Also, not trying to be rude, but the way you punctuated this paragraph gave me a headache.

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Anyone here farts a lot? One of the many reasons why I don't date is because I fart quite a lot... Who would want a woman like that? LOL

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  • Maybe if you learn to play some tunes on the butt trumpet it would be more enjoyable. Just don't push too hard. Nothing worse than unexpected thunder dumplings.

  • I fart a lot and my man's just accepted it as part of me. He doesn't like the smell, but he loves me enough to overlook it and keep a can of air freshener on his nightstand. Trickiest part is holding it in during sex when he's on top.

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omg I just want to meet a guy who is ok with me being trans 😢😤😒

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  • I hate your kind

  • You'll find one someday, love. Don't give up. There are good people out there.

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You ever just think about old relationships and get sad? Like you don't necessarily want those people back, but you just miss the way you felt with them. And every one was just a little bit different, every person made you feel a certain way, and maybe one of them made you feel happier than anyone else had and you think of them just a little more often. Maybe you regret letting them go, even though you know it's for the best. And then you're just left feeling lonely and craving a hug or a hand to hold so desperately that it makes your chest hurt. I try not to dwell on the past, but I can't get these thoughts out of my head. I miss the friendships I had with my exes, I miss talking to them all the time... I miss giving someone all the love I have because it's what they deserve. I miss being loved.

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  • that song by arianda Grande springs to mind

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I have a 7 month old and I'm pregnant agian. I deffently feel the judgment when I tell people but theres nothing I can do about it. I just got to keep my head up and be positive.

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  • Those people can screw off. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Congrats

  • Who cares what people think? My mom spaced her kids out and she regrets it cause we never got along very well growing up. I'm the oldest, my sister is 5 years younger than me, and my brother is 3 years younger than her. Me and my brother especially never had much in common because I'm so much older than him. Your kids being closer in age means they'll probably have a better relationship. And lots of people pop babies out one after the other. The people who judge are usually the ones who don't understand. Don't listen to them.

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I always think if I could, I'd change my past to never meet my ex boyfriend or break up with him much sooner than I did. But then I realize, if it wasn't him it would've been someone else. If I didn't date my ex, I probably would've dated my friend. But seeing as he got his girlfriend pregnant in high school after I graduated, married her, and then got divorced and quickly rebounded, my future with him could've been worse. I'm so glad I only have ex boyfriends, no baby daddies or ex husbands. Everything happens for a reason.

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