Try and do a "good deed of the day" everyday. You'll be surprised how it makes you feel, whether it's holding the door open for a stranger, helping someone who's car broke down, or buying food for the homeless. If your trying to fill a void, but nothing seems to work, try starting with your heart first. Appreciation & gratitude goes along way, & you might just make someone's day! :)
I had sex with the girl i had a crush on and now im worried i fucked everything up. I’ve been feeling her for awhile but things have been progressing slowly because conflicting schedules. We hung out last weekend after I had a bad couple of days and was feeling down. We talked for hours and watch some netflix. Before we knew it it was after 3am. At first I offered to follow her home but eventually told her she could stay in the spare room if she didn’t feel like driving. Mind you i had 0 intentions of hooking up. I genuinely just needed someone to talk to. She went to bed and I stayed up in my room watching Netflix. Hour later she came in and said she couldn’t sleep. I told her it was okay to use the tv in the living room unless she wanted to watch whatever the show was I had on. She went out there but came back a couple minutes later. We watched for a good 30-45 minutes before the blood flow started taking over. I went to the bathroom hoping it would go down. I walked out with a semi and she made a comment about it and i couldn’t help myself so i made a flirtatious joke and it was all up (or down) hill from there depending on how you look at it. I didn’t want to hook up with her because i was hoping to eventually pursue a relationship and I didn’t want to start it off that way. It was a good night but now how i wanted things to go. I don’t want her as a fuck buddy or a friend or anything like that I wanted to be with her. I’ve waited for so long to find something serious after years and years of hook ups and this is what fucking happens when i try to get serious. I couldn’t keep my dick in my pants and now I probably fucked up a chance at the only relationship ive wanted in 4 years. I’ve talked to so many different women before her and none of them made me feel as good as she does. I don’t want her thinking I only want her like that plus i would be devastated if she didn’t see me as a serious relationship. I was ready and finally willing to take that leap of faith and might have screwed myself. Now I need to figure out where to go from here. I can’t believe i let this happen. I’ve never felt this much regret after sex in my life. I legitimately feel guilty about it. I just wanted a chance to show her i could be serious and im not a player lookin for ass. I’ve worked so hard over the last few years trying to be a better man. I just want a chance at something. I don’t know if i can handle the outcome if it’s bad. I hope she gives me a chance still. There’s so much more to me than good dick ans netflix.
I broke up with my ex a few moths ago.. He was the love of my life, we still love each other, but we can't be together because he makes me sad all the time. He hurts me and makes me feel lonely. But he always comes back to me somehow. He was aggressive, jealous and always did the wrong things. He always had trouble with the police and drank a lot. Nevertheless he loved me in a way no one else did. But there's this guy I just met. He's in love with me and I kinda like him a lot. I don't love him (yet). There might be a chance that I never will, but he makes me happy for the moment. He does everything for me and he's completely different than my ex. He's the better man.. shall I choose him and start a new chapter in my life or shall I risk it all and choose my soul mate (hoping that he'll change), the man I used to love for many years? I'm so confused either follow my mind or my heart..
One thing that really bugs me is when someone complains about their relationship (and not about the whole thing, but just an aspect of it) online and most comments are "break up". Not just on here, also on other forums. I'm not sure if it's just an internet phenomenon to think that if a person complains about something, they must find the whole thing bad, not just the one aspect they complain about; or if it just shows how nowadays people's mindset is to immediately break up a relationship instead of fixing it. Sure, there really are situations that should lead to a break up, like e.g. abuse. But in most cases, those comments just don't help. You don't know that person's relationship. Just because her boyfriend doesn't do the dishes or because his girlfriend won't give him a bj, it doesn't mean they aren't wonderful people apart from that one bad habit, that they aren't in love or aren't functioning as a wonderful team.
I want someone to randomly go on a vacation with me, anywhere, anytime, any day. let's get outta here fr
Just found out my ex got engaged today and I can’t lie, im disappointed. We broke up awhile ago but it’s hard seeing someone else live the life you thought you were going to have. I thought I would marry this girl and start a family but she cheated on me more than once. I tried to make it work but ultimately the trust was completely depleted and it started fucking with me mentally. Every time she went out or was around other guys it drove me in-fucking-sane. I’ll always have love for her because she was the first and so far the only girl i can legitimately say I was in love with. I was having a good weekend until i heard the news. I wish i dictionary feel like this but I can’t help it. Even though it sounds stupid, there are days where I wondered if being together and being cheated on is better than being apart. It’s a shitty way to look at things but that’s how deep my feelings were.
My boyfriend is a hot head and thinks fighting is like the only solution to things. I don’t even tell him when things upset me anymore because he always wants to go out and fight someone. I want a boyfriend, not a bulldog.
Ok so I am noticing this annoying trend on Facebook... I say that if you have kids and are on friendly terms with an ex to co-parent that's great you know, like whatever...but what I find annoying is if a person posts weekly updates saying "He's my ex and my best friend! So glad we could get together today!" It just seems like you are totally not ok with him being with someone else..
Christians know you were born this way thats why the bible requires we're born again spiritually and God is the father of that
If you like me, please tell me. You have to understand that I'm not in a position to tell you first, but I'm trying to make it as subtly apparent as I can. I get the feeling you might actually feel the same way I do, but we'll never know if you don't bring it up. If I say something first, I could ruin everything. But you won't. It has to be you. I'm begging you, make the first move if you really feel the way I think you do.