Take it off your chest...
Read Rules


Confesster iPhone and iPad App is out now! Download it on App Store.


Confesster NEW Android APP is out! Download it on Google Play.


If you like me, please tell me. You have to understand that I'm not in a position to tell you first, but I'm trying to make it as subtly apparent as I can. I get the feeling you might actually feel the same way I do, but we'll never know if you don't bring it up. If I say something first, I could ruin everything. But you won't. It has to be you. I'm begging you, make the first move if you really feel the way I think you do.

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • The old ‘the other person had better be a mind reader’. I predict good things for this relationship!

  • If he is your boss, then confessing is a little too much on his part and he could get into serious trouble

Show all comments

I had a crush on a guy from my training class at work. I knew he's married. I'm in a serious relationship too and I never, ever would've asked him out. It was just a fantasy. But once I met his wife and found out her ex husband cheated on her, I immediately stopped thinking about her husband like that. I've been cheated on before. I know how bad it hurts and how much it can mess with your trust in people. I couldn't keep imagining scenarios where she would be hurt like that again. And my boyfriend, I'm embarrassed with myself that I thought about another man. He's been nothing but good to me, never cheated, never gave me a reason to not trust him. I'm never telling my boyfriend or anyone else about that crush. It was nothing, led to nothing. Hopefully the guy from training class never caught on that I liked him. He's happily married. Never in my craziest dreams could I be a homewrecker.

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • Good on you!

  • i hope your boyfriend leaves you soon

Show all comments

I am easily make-believe. Dress me up how you want me to be.

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • Aaaaand there's another fetish I didn't even know I had.

  • I’m a Barbie girl, in a Barbie world, life in plastic, it’s fantastic. You can brush my hair, undress me anywhere......

Show all comments

Just don't contact me. I didn't create the domino effect of your life that made you so hurtful. Others did this to you.

Your Comment...

Latest comments

Show all comments

just a heads up. you make your girl 75% more suspicious when you have to bring your phone with you everytime you leave the room. no secrets. no worries 💁

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • I'd hate to go to the bathroom without my crossword app

  • Who the hell DOESN'T keep their phone on them at all times? What if you get an important call, people have to be able to reach you!

Show all comments

Would it be weird to tell my boyfriend that some of his shirts severely remind me of my ex? Its not as if i think of my ex a lot, its just that my current boyfriend has these two shirts that are almost exactly the same colours as shirts my ex had and it is so weird whenever he wears them, especially because my ex's favourite colour was bright orange, and had a shirt that colour, which i guess makes sense if its your favourite colour, however my current boyfriend has a shirt that same colour and its so awful and weird whenever i see it, and i dont know whether i should mention it to him

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • lol if you want this relationship to eventually end sure. Why are you so hung up on your ex? why are you making your current boyfriend responsible for healing all the wounds or avoiding all the wounded areas of your psyche and life left by men in your past? you need to be single, girl. you're just gonna leave this man bitter and turned off to serious love after you. OR, GROW UP and do the WORK YOURSELF to get over the ex your OBVIOUSLY NOT OVER.

  • I honestly think that, if a COLOUR is such a big reminder for you, you shouldn't worry about whether to tell him or not, but about what your feelings really are. If it were the literal same shirts with a unique print and you found it weird, it would be different, but just the same colour? Seems off to me.

Show all comments

I always laughed and called bullshit out of ignorance whenever I heard people say “addiction is a disease” until I fell in love with someone struggling with cigarette addiction. Watching him having to go outside every few minutes just to smoke and feeling like he can’t fuction without it really hurts like hell. I really want to try to help him but I don’t know if I can...

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • its done slowly. if you try to suddenly stop of course its gonna be hell and basically impossible. if he smokes 20 cigs a day, he has to try to go down to 19, then 18 next week and so on. a friend of mine did this and also started replacing it with weed whenever he still wanted to smoke more. it took him 2 full years to get down to 5 cigs, and smoking/ vaping weed. in one more year he was off the cigs and just vaping weed.

  • I'm someone whos been sober since 4 years. It was hard and no de-addiction programs made me go out of this habit. Until I met this lady, who changed my life forever. I was depressed, sad, anything you can tell before I met her. I understood that I drink a lot because of my emotional conditions. I had a shit job, we moved to a new city, got a better job, got engaged in a lot of activities. My wife is a furious friend-maker and I'm the exact opposite. I hung out a lot with them, got even more engaged in a lot of activities, had a lot of fun and boom, 4 years passed, we got engaged and I found myself to be sober.

Show all comments

I'm frustrated with my boyfriend. My sister's going through a hard time. Her car got repossessed, she's working 60 hour weeks at a restaurant and not making ends meet. So I've been watching her 5 year old son from 10 in the morning until 2 in the morning on my days off for free. My boyfriend sits in his computer room playing games on Xbox all day instead of helping me. I get stressed out and exhausted, and need a break, but I don't want to have to ask him to take over so I can nap. I wish I could play computer games all day too, but I can't. I just wish he would sit on the couch with him, play Fortnight with him, and let me have some time to myself. My nephew really wants someone to play Fortnight with him, but I'm bad at it and get annoyed with it. My boyfriend's out of a job right now. He could watch my nephew any day. It just makes me worried he doesn't like my nephew or care about him like his own nephews.

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • you don't have any boundaries so you expect him not to have any either. you also never mentioned vocalizing your discomfort with him to him so you're probably passive aggressive as well. I hope he finds someone more mature. you're not ready for someone to care about your nehpews like their own because you're freaking oblivious to other peoples needs/space/boundaries/feelings.

  • tell him. ask him. guys are big kids. they dont know till you mention it

Show all comments

my sister is dating my friend and now i feel very uncomfortable around that friend yet we've been friends since early childhood, I don't know what to do

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • put yourself in their shoes.

  • Hash it out with your friend

Show all comments

I miss toxic people. sighs. I hate feeling lonely.

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • just want to encourage you to keep going where you're headed, the loneliness is temporary, the discomfort is only an indication that your inner self is just working through what it wants right now. don't settle for what you already decided doesn't work for you. that's like getting a better job in a new city, but turning that whole opportunity down because you haven't found a new apartment there yet and you already have a perfectly good unit in the projects... feels good in the moment,but leads to long term dissatisfaction. i'm proud of u for getting rid of the toxic people. at least you gained a friend in yourself.

  • Don't keep toxic people around just to not be lonely. Find good people. They're out there.

Show all comments

Page: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31