I'm almost 100% sure my man goes through my phone when he wants validation to do something or is on the verge of doing something he shouldn't. how to stop it? btw ... he is king of delete button. ...
I don’t know much about alcohol, but my husband drinks 4-6 beers a day and gets upset when I ask him to cut back. What should I do?
I am in a relationship ..sorta. he almost left me because I have a problem talking to guys online. i know its wrong. i don't plan on doing it again. ....just sometimes i see the kind of females/exs he follows online & work up my anger & insecurities then I thin out the line between love & hate. i understand there will always be beautiful women but i also seen him tell a girl we weren't ' technically' together... after that. I'm almost afraid to cut everyone off. literally everytime i clear my plate, i get played. i never sleep with anyone. just converse.... does that make me a bad person?
Straight clubbing guys need to chill the heck out. All your straight women are getting scared off and migrating to gay bars. Then some get pissy when I flirt with them. Like woman, you're in a gay bar. Us gay women aren't getting the impression you're hetero by being here. "I come here because I can dance in peace!" What kind of messed up crap is going on in straight clubs that make women literally hideout in gay bars?
Ever miss someone you shouldn't. Or want someone you shouldn't. That's where I'm at right now. I'm a married woman and I have fallen in love with a coworker. It is driving me crazy how much I want to see him. Or even just talk with him, but now he's shutting me out and it hurts so much. I just don't know what to do.
Date-Incel-Guy here. Had my Date today, worked out just fine. We're certainly gonna meet again...
It's been 6 years, feels like more but its probably less. that's how long I've been single. It's starting to feel like it's been to long for me. I feel like I dont know how I used to get a females attention like I did when I was bouncing from one woman to the next, leaving very little time between. I dont know what has happened. the whole point of moving into this apartment by myself many years ago was to spend time with myself and see who I really was but I think I much prefer not knowing all I've learned. I'm so confused.
Honestly, I'm sooo fed off of my dad criticizing everything I do. I do everything for him to make him proud why is it always that he put me down??? I get good grades, he said it's not enough. I study hard and earn honors, it's not enough. I won, the surf competition, it's not enough. I wanted to become an IT person, I should've stayed in pre-med. I wanted to learn to cook and learn a new language, my food sucks, my work sucks everything sucks! I graudated high school, I got an honors, two medals, and a recognition, it's not enough. When the fuck is enough? Can having me as a daughter be already enough? He always say daughters are a pain in the ass? When was I ever a pain? When did I ever disppoint him in life? It's always my brother!!! The man not woman...He's amazed at my brother. He had one goal in life, to study and become a lawyer. He graduated with a valedictorian with.. I know many awards than me. He got full ride scholarship in damn Yale and apperently saved more with spare college money. Me? Yeah what about me? I pay only half and the other scholarship. Yeah wht is MIT anyway to him? It's not ivy league BUT I love it here! When did he even say he love me!?!?!?! Or proud of what I do? MY mom says he shares his love through giving. Yeah he gives me material things to make me shut up as a kid once. Even as a kid I never even felt loved by him. He doesn't care if I grew up with a no discipline or have an attitude. And I could've wished my father showed me more love through affection and told me things how to be a kid and a happy one. He's only scared if I vanish because my mom will get extremely worried. And my dad only care about my mom. Sometimes it makes me think my dad never wanted us, he never wanted a daughter more, he just wanted my mom. And they've been married for soooo long, I can feel my dad endured all the sacrifces for my mom. Because my mom always wanted a kid especially a daughter. I can tell he's a very good husband but he's a terrible father. If he ever love me he could've showed it long time ago. But I'm already 22...
Well, it turned out the girl I have a crush on, has a minor crush on me, too. Now I have a date. I went from "selfdoubting incel" (in the actual "I think I am to shitty to be loved"-way, not the ideological "death to all women, I can't get laid" way) to "I guess I'm not that terrible" in less than a day. While I am pessimistic and say this won't work out, I still hope that it does, for from what I've gathered, she is as pseudo-intelectual and awkward as I am, so she's a keeper. Also it feels good to post a confession that does not have the "depressed" tag
Every morning I wake up alone. Nobody to hold, hug, kiss or talk too. I get ready and go to work. I’m in my office all day away from everyone else except during my break. After the day is over I come home to the same thing, nothing. My family and friends I grew up with are over ab hour away, they’re all busy with work, school, or other friends. I feel like I’m on an island alone and I’m tired of it. I’m been single [by choice] for almost 5 years now and I’m starting to to realize I’m over the player phase. It’s no longer fulfilling what I need. I need someone to lean on, someone I can go to. I want to give my all to someone and want there all in return. I want to wake up everyday knowing that no matter what happens good or bad I will always have someone in my corner. Now that I’m done with school I don’t have time for flings. I want something solid and consistent. I can’t continue down this path of uncertainty and meaningless sex.