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My finance wants kids, but I don't. I now have to decide whether I one day will agree to have kids, or the marriage is not gonna happen. I have no idea what to do. I don't want to lose the love of my life - that's the very selfish reason for why I would actually agree to have a child. But from a moral point of few, I think this is a very wrong reason for bringing a life into this world. On the other hand, everyone I've talked to about it (who, I fairly have to say, all are much too keen to become grandparents or uncles to be unbiased) says that it won't matter, because once I'm holding the baby in my arms, I won't care whether I initially wanted it or not. I'm lost. Also, what if I say no and in a few years suddenly want it, and then I regret breaking up?

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  • You probably should have known this before getting engaged. Most people have an idea if they are a 1 or none kind of person when it comes to kids....

  • The thing is, you might change your mind, you might not. I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago because I knew we could physically never have children (I'm a girl) and that she didn't even really want kids, so adoption was out of the question. There were other factors that led to us breaking up, but kids was a big one. Now she kinda wants kids, but we've both moved on. It hurts. But ultimately, life goes on, and it's probably for the better that we broke up.

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Are there normal women who WANT to have babies anymore? My friends and I were discussing odd women who call themselves "Dog Moms." They claim they are happy but the dog is clearly a substitute for a child. Stroller and all. Lady, if you weren't mounted by Scooby Doo, and pushed this thing out, that isn't your "Furbaby." Then it came up on the news that a Swedish minister was calling Hungarians Nazis Because of a policy to make it cheaper & more accessible to have children. Saying "Women fought to free themselves of this." Taken alone I would assume it's just crazy cat-lady talk. Sour grapes. I recall in Middle School girls would call me up and say, "I want to have your baby." Sex was secondary, a baby was priority #1. Did I miss a memo? Don't try to tell me your career is so "fulfilling." I'm typing this at work because corporate drudgery is meaningless and unfulfilling.

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  • I'm echoing what another commenter said somewhat but since I am in a sense one of those people so I figured I'd add my input. I'm not saying I never want kids but I literally only want a child with someone I love and I don't foresee that happening anytime soon as men I've been the most into aren't easily accessible then I will wait. I am sad but not about the child part. I just want to be with a man I feel a deep connection with. My dogs are not a replacement tho by any means but they do help. I never had much of a family so they are my family. I'd much rather be with them than a lot of people bc people suck. A child is generally innocent but considering I still have some developing to do I would feel more like a child taking care of a child while my "fur babies" are one way of showing I'm not merely a grown up child

  • I agree to people asking if you're on drugs. That sounds like a bad trip. Yes, asshole, a lot of women want kids. Fuck sakes.

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I missed the feeling of having a boyfriend. It's been 7 years since the last time I'm in a relationship. Wow. Even me shocked.

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He loved me at the point where I was not confident with myself. I love him now, at the point where he's tired of waiting on me.

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Like any usual girl, I do masturbate. and everytime I masturbate I calling my favorite celebrity. Well, hurt no one tho, but I do wonder if I could actually do it from the start. Like I still need help by watching porn and when I'm about to climax I put my phone down and call out his name. It's like I'm not actually dare to try to imagine fucking with him but I'll kill to try. p.s. : I do get wet when I'm think about making out with him, but I stopped right there. thanks for reading and good night

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  • idk why but I can't get off to porn. I'm a girl too. Watching it just... doesn't do anything for me, it just makes me wish I was with someone else instead of alone in my room.

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I missed my chance to say my goodbyes to my ungle as he was in his death dead. Dont do what I did. Tell your loved ones how important they are too you. Tell them you love them because you may think they will always be there..but eventually, they wont be.

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I don't know why I watch porn, i like women sexually but I'm also a misanthrope

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  • Its just an itch you have to scratch i guess. Even if you hate humans in a social way, you cant help being forced by your brain to find them sexually attractive.

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The kine is faint, but I think we're finally pregnant. Is Ethan a good name for a boy?

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  • That's wonderful! Definitely get tested by a doctor to be sure :)

  • Congratulations! I think Ethan is a wonderful name😃

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Well i like a man who's married. Im very irritated that I cant let go. Well I distance myself from him to avoid jeopardizing his relationship to his wife. I adviced him to not pursue a relationship with me at all even though he knows it was hard between us .... I told him to just be friends with me and move on. So yeah im was single on valentines day... but im imagining somehow how he was treating his wife right now... oddly im thinking of their nice date...

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  • You made the right choice, just know that.

  • In time, you'll move on. Just remember that if he would cheat FOR you, he would cheat ON you.

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I'm so sick and tired of porn. I can't cum with a satisfying orgasm anymore. And somehow lost interest in women too. OK so the last bit is not set in stone but i've been alone all my life and can't miss a women's company because I never had it.

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  • Maybe instead of watching porn you should go look for a woman,

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