After coming to the realization that I can't have him... I don't really want anyone at all. I know this just sounds edgy and dramatic, but what I mean is, I really have no desire to even have a partner at this point. Not because I'm butthurt about not having him. I just... don't have the urge to be in a relationship. I'm kind of content on my own. Like of course I'm sad I didn't get a chance with him, but now I'm realizing that I don't really need a partner. I'd like sex (and more importantly, kisses and cuddles), but I don't want to deal with the emotional energy that relationships take. At least... not right now.

I need sex real bad. Not fucking though. I need a sexual dominant but sweet woman.

scared i'm losing my bf... we've been together for over 3 years. it's been amazing. we've been planning to get married and we just bought property. but the last couple weeks he started smoking up a lot where before he didn't. maybe once every couple months at a party or something. now it's every day and he' buying more paraphernalia. it started with him saying it helped him sleep a few times, but he didn't need it, he only did it "a few times" then when I noticed it was almost everyday I mentioned that he said he wasn't going to do it so much. I grew up with an addict I wasn't gonna be dealing with it. he assured me it isn't an issue. but then tonight he comes home and had been smoking while he was driving and he had already smoked up this morning and didn't even go to sleep. but nooo still not a problem to him, he's defending it. then there's the fact that he's irritable. everytime I say or do anything somehow it starts a fight. i'll ask a question or say how my day was and he gets annoyed with me or angry and it starts a fight... then today. i only had a 5 hour shift at work and he was off. we could of spent time together. instead he hungout with one of his "friends" this girl who tried to break us up when we started dating. they haven't talked in a couple years and now all of a sudden he's talking to her on facebook almost daily and now he's spending all day with her.... I just him. I do. but I don't trust her. and really with the way he's been acting i'm not even sure if I know who this is anymore.

So some younger unmarried male associates of mine are asking, "Where do you meet a good woman?" This app has a lot of young women on it, so I thought I'd ask you. What do I tell them? Disclaimer: Good means: At least a 90+ IQ. At least a 5/10 in looks. Not some bottom of the discotech used up alcoholic. Actual wife material. What would you recommend?

I went to confess my thoughts, but then I realized that I didn't know what words to use. I live with my boyfriend and his 1 year old son, because his ex walked out on his sons life. Now He makes me feel like I'm in the wrong about everything, he says that I complain about everything, that "it's never enough". I just am tired of being put down... I'm the one staying home and cooking, cleaning, taking care of his son, and I don't even have any friends or family to talk to anymore. advice?

I don't like him anymore

broke up with your miserable selfish ass via text. I deserve better, go prince on some other bitch with less options

Have you ever heard the saying "Crab Bucket mentality"? I first heard it from Filipinos, but a Black friend from St. Louis usually it to describe American Blacks too. The reason you can leave crabs in a bucket is because as soon as one tries to get up and climb out some jealous crab grabs their leg with a claw and pulls him right back down. I have seen this repeatedly. My sister-in-laws are the worst. They try to sabotage jobs, they try to break up marriages, and they spend like idiots to LOOK rich while investing nothing in a ridiculous competition that no one cares about. It's best to cut all contact with people like this. Save your children. Leave the bucket.

i am addicted to sex. the feeling i get from having my pussy pounded by a hard cock is so amazing all i think about is fucking

I heard that if I don't want to have sex with a guy, I can't ask for him to cuddle with me. I deny something from him, so I have to deny my own correspoding wants as well. Is this true?