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After coming to the realization that I can't have him... I don't really want anyone at all. I know this just sounds edgy and dramatic, but what I mean is, I really have no desire to even have a partner at this point. Not because I'm butthurt about not having him. I just... don't have the urge to be in a relationship. I'm kind of content on my own. Like of course I'm sad I didn't get a chance with him, but now I'm realizing that I don't really need a partner. I'd like sex (and more importantly, kisses and cuddles), but I don't want to deal with the emotional energy that relationships take. At least... not right now.

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  • Hey! That's completely normal, I also had that after each of my break-ups / rejections. Take some time to yourself. That feeling will come back at some time, don't rush it and don't worry! Enjoy the time where you don't have the urge to be in a relationship.

  • That's totally fine, I have never wanted a partner all my life until I found the right person. And I think that's how it should be. Too many people have meaningless relationships because they're too eager to have a partner, not be with the person.

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I need sex real bad. Not fucking though. I need a sexual dominant but sweet woman.

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scared i'm losing my bf... we've been together for over 3 years. it's been amazing. we've been planning to get married and we just bought property. but the last couple weeks he started smoking up a lot where before he didn't. maybe once every couple months at a party or something. now it's every day and he' buying more paraphernalia. it started with him saying it helped him sleep a few times, but he didn't need it, he only did it "a few times" then when I noticed it was almost everyday I mentioned that he said he wasn't going to do it so much. I grew up with an addict I wasn't gonna be dealing with it. he assured me it isn't an issue. but then tonight he comes home and had been smoking while he was driving and he had already smoked up this morning and didn't even go to sleep. but nooo still not a problem to him, he's defending it. then there's the fact that he's irritable. everytime I say or do anything somehow it starts a fight. i'll ask a question or say how my day was and he gets annoyed with me or angry and it starts a fight... then today. i only had a 5 hour shift at work and he was off. we could of spent time together. instead he hungout with one of his "friends" this girl who tried to break us up when we started dating. they haven't talked in a couple years and now all of a sudden he's talking to her on facebook almost daily and now he's spending all day with her.... I just him. I do. but I don't trust her. and really with the way he's been acting i'm not even sure if I know who this is anymore.

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  • Honestly... I'd kick him out if he doesn't get his shit together. The irritability is a side effect of smoking up. They start to get cranky when they're not high. I grew up with an addict too- and he was addicted to more than just weed- but it always starts with 'oh I only do it sometimes because it helps with x.' But it almost always leads to them doing it all the time. And if he won't cut back or respect your wishes... you might have to accept that he loves the weed more than you and move on with your life before it's too late. Especially if he's been spending time with a woman he knows tried to break you all up.

  • We are in similar situations. Let's hope it turns out well for both of us <3

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So some younger unmarried male associates of mine are asking, "Where do you meet a good woman?" This app has a lot of young women on it, so I thought I'd ask you. What do I tell them? Disclaimer: Good means: At least a 90+ IQ. At least a 5/10 in looks. Not some bottom of the discotech used up alcoholic. Actual wife material. What would you recommend?

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  • I recommend a therapist because anyone who is apparently not social enough to know how to meet people and seems to be under the impression that there's some kind of secret market where you can pick your ideal woman like a car based on some cool features it has probably could need a good therapist.

  • IMO common interests and good nature are more important in a woman than looks or intelligence.

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I went to confess my thoughts, but then I realized that I didn't know what words to use. I live with my boyfriend and his 1 year old son, because his ex walked out on his sons life. Now He makes me feel like I'm in the wrong about everything, he says that I complain about everything, that "it's never enough". I just am tired of being put down... I'm the one staying home and cooking, cleaning, taking care of his son, and I don't even have any friends or family to talk to anymore. advice?

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  • Perhaps we now know why Mommy took off. He sounds like a real peach.

  • Well, before you walk out, you can tell him that negging you is not helping. If he wants more positive results he should praise the good things you do. People won't remember what you say but they will damn sure remember how you make then feel. He's being a Debbie Downer and it's rubbing off. Doing positive stuff together like exercise or goals and fun might help.

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I don't like him anymore

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broke up with your miserable selfish ass via text. I deserve better, go prince on some other bitch with less options

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Have you ever heard the saying "Crab Bucket mentality"? I first heard it from Filipinos, but a Black friend from St. Louis usually it to describe American Blacks too. The reason you can leave crabs in a bucket is because as soon as one tries to get up and climb out some jealous crab grabs their leg with a claw and pulls him right back down. I have seen this repeatedly. My sister-in-laws are the worst. They try to sabotage jobs, they try to break up marriages, and they spend like idiots to LOOK rich while investing nothing in a ridiculous competition that no one cares about. It's best to cut all contact with people like this. Save your children. Leave the bucket.

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  • Uh... I haven't. Interesting bit of information. But this post feels just... the tiniest bit racist

  • I thought that was lobsters?

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i am addicted to sex. the feeling i get from having my pussy pounded by a hard cock is so amazing all i think about is fucking

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  • Does it interfere with your daily life? If so you might have a problem.

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I heard that if I don't want to have sex with a guy, I can't ask for him to cuddle with me. I deny something from him, so I have to deny my own correspoding wants as well. Is this true?

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  • Its wrong, Im a guy

  • Lol, Imagine a world where this is actually how it works. "Listen lady, I put 4 cuddle tokens in, so you need to vend at least 1 blowjay. That's how this transaction works."

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