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I feel bad for my boyfreind because Im not a verry sexual person. I don't really suck him off and I don't like having sex alot. I dont really like having stuff done to me also. I feel like something is wrong cause all my other female freinds love sex and doing those things. I will admit that I was sexually abused when I was little so that could be apart of it and since I am a female it was drilled into my head that boys will do anything to get into my pants. The difference is that we have been together for 6 years so I should be comfortable with him doing these things with him. I just dont know whats wrong with me. One the pluse side hes the only one I have ever been with..

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  • I really suggest getting therapy to help work through your trauma :( It's normal for you to feel this way. Even if your trauma didn't make you feel this way and you might just be asexual, it's okay. But I wish you the best and I hope you guys get through this.

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My boyfriend recently moved in with me. A few years ago, we were freshly together, he had a heart attack which doctors believed came from the stress (he used to switch between work, partying and helping everyone with everything and didn't have a second of rest for days at that time, he also has underlying health issues from his childhood, hence the attack). He lived a less stressful life since then, all fine. Now that he doesn't live at "Hotel Mama" anymore, things are starting to get stressful for him. We have to drive to stores almost daily, trying to get pieces of furniture and grocery shopping. Things like getting insurances and paying bills. Doing housework, cooking, cleaning. Currently, I do almost all of this because I'm so afraid that if I ask him to help me, it will bring out another attack. Of course as a result, I'm now stressed as hell myself (I have college and a job, too). I am also having health issues from the stress. But I know that I'll probably not be having a heart attack, so I just don't know what's right. Sacrificing my well being for him, which is bad but still better than risking him literally dying. Or asking him for help because the way it is now, it's just unfair. (By the way, I know he would help if I asked. He currently thinks I love doing everything on my own.)

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  • Listen... I understand your fear. But helping with chores will not stress him out that bad. He can help. Having a heart attack doesn't make him an invalid. That said, try to plan your life to be less stressful. For example, instead of going to the store every day, write a list of things you need and only make one trip once or twice a week. Devote Sundays to doing laundry, set aside one day out of the week to be just for cleaning the bathroom. Create a routine. It'll help both of you.

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you called him threatening to break up because he disappointed you by cancelling yet another date at the last minute. you concluded he didn't want you. he dared you to break up with him. as you start getting angry he calls, for hours u go back and forth, each trying to be the one who ends it, and he does. he never answers his phone again. hours later after you've told your entire family (that he JUST met) that it's over and most of your friends, he shoots you a text to say " i've loved you a long time. don't want you to leave" this is hours after you accepted it, and asked him to drop your things off while you're at work. Now you feel guilty because the same night in desperation and out of lowered self esteem you went out looking for attention, happening to kiss the guys he HATES at a party. the next morning your now ex texts, I didn't want it to go this way, I don't want to fight. but early before you wake, as he boards a flight on a solo vacation that he previously invited you on, but changed his mind... at the last minute. he says he's going alone for his birthday. you got him some cologne. he will return on your birthday. you fear that he isn't going to acknowledge or it much worse, ruin it, like he did last weekend when you won an award in your professional life and because you looked "too excited" at/for another male recipient he made you chase him around the afterparty begging his forgiveness instead of relishing your accomplishment. None of your family think you should go back, none of your friends, none of your mentors. the worst part is you still want him, but something "fell off the shelf inside" of you. he's just not on the pedestal you had him on and you can never adore, trust and believe in him the way you once did.

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  • "kiss guy he hates at party immediately after breakup." who thought this was a good idea?

  • He sounds like a total douche. I'm glad you got away from him. It's normal to still want him a bit- feelings like that don't just go away, no matter what other feelings you have- but in time, they'll fade. You're making the right decision. Trust me.

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Some asshole old geezers were trying to hit on my wife at her job at the convenience store. It's kinda funny the way the pattern develops. First they try and be nice. That gets them nowhere, so then they try being insulting and negging her. If you bever read POA books, negging is when you insult a girl to lower her self esteem before making another attempt at asking her out. It's really starting to piss me off. They see she has a ring, they don't care. Now that she's pregnant they are ALL pissed and grumpy. You won't respect a marriage, and you have the gall to be pissy when she is pregnant by her own husband? What utter scum.

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  • They'll get what's coming to them.

  • That kind people are the worst! My mom has had a few similar experiences... What the hell even goes through their minds, hitting on married women?

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i give up. cant keep fighting, i lost this battle long ago. time to face the cold reality of defeat and say goodbye.

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  • maybe if i put more effort into loving my wife and less trying to get in the tramp at works pants it wouldn't be like this. but yeah i should leave

  • Please don't give up. As long as you can breathe, you can continue. And if you continue, it will get better even if it takes a long time.

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I just lies my husband said im okay. But totally not!

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  • Women 101: When she says she is fine. She is not fine.

  • You're a dumbass then. Talk to him.

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🎶Words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm.....🎶

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  • Very good song!

  • I resqpectfully disagree. Conversation solves problems.

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What would u do if u breakup with someone that you will see everyday.. Is it okay to go to ur job wearing the best of ur clothes and smiling the whole time to make them feel regret or jealousy or you jst don't give it that importance?

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  • Don't waste your energy being petty. Spend your time making yourself happy and feeling good about yourself so you can find someone better. They're not worth the effort.

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This happened almost 3 years ago. PS: I'm not a good storyteller and my English sucks. Sorry in advance. Elli ( not he's real name) okay so I used to call him KUYA (big brother) he's not a friend mine because obviously I was way younger than him, I was like 15 at that time and he was like 26/25 year's old. We weren't closed but we kinda talked to each other sometimes. Btw he's my friend's older brother that's why we're kind of talking . So around May, there's a festival in town so everyones busy and excited about it coz local artists and bands are going to perform there. Meanwhile at that time I was looking for someone to go with coz my friend's didn't invite me at all...And thankfully I have someone I know who can go with me, but apparently he isn't alone he's with his friends. Male friends. I didn't know until i've seen them nearing Elli's house ( I was waiting for him at Elli's house btw) and Elli asked me if I'm going to the festival. I said yes. And he asked for my number just in case my so-called acquaintance for the night will ditched me after the festival ( because I need a ride home u know). And yes obviously he's gonna be there too with his batchmates in highschool. And yes they ditched me😭 thankfully my I Elli called me I told him what happened. So he looked for me because there's a lot of people, worst is that it's raining really hard and I'm wet and my phone died (WTF MOMENTS) thankfully he found me. All his friends are grown ups . They're looking at me like I was lost. Thankfully they resumed drinking and I was sitting beside Elli. I was cold. He noticed that. And then suddenly he hugged me. I was dumbfounded , I didn't know what to do. And (WTF moments happened again) he pulled me closer to sit on his lap. Can you imagine my face while he's doing it. I can't even. And then his friends asked me If I can drink beer ( I shamelessly noddey head.) I can feel my face heated while he's whispering in my ear. " Are u cold?' I just nodded. The rain didn't stop at all but I can almost hear my own heartbeat. I am no innocent, I've watch adult vedios before and my friends haved told me information about IT. I was drinking the beer when he cupped my breasts while his face is my neck. I can feel his breathing. I stared at him looking horrified of his actions. BUT I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO STOP HIM . Part of me is horrified but i'm more confused. I never thought of him like this. His mom is very much proud of him because of his work. But little did she know that her son is double faced. Before this all happened I remember him being casual to me, almost cold. Like a big brother. And now? WTF . Before I could react one of his friends asked him if he's gonna go home already since his other friends didn't bring his car. He nodded and let go of me. I felt relived. Just then he grabbed my hand and he told that we're going home. I just nodded. While in the car he keep glancing at me. It made me self conscious for a moment. We dropped off his friends. And BOOOMMM we're alone. I was very nervous at that time. While he's driving I asked him I if could borrow his power bank (My brain finally working) since my phone died (to text my brother to come and pick me up, because I didn't feel safe around him at all.) He suddenly parked and stopped the engine and looked at me. And then he kissed me. And the stupid fucking me kissed him back. ( at that very moment I knew somethings gonna happen between us. That's for sure) He kissed me again and again and then he touched my boobs . I didn't know how to respond. Lots of thoughts are going to my mind. What if he'll kill me if I won't kissed him back, what ifs... And then he stopped. He fucking smiled. Without saying a word.He start the car engine and and start driving again. He stopped and park his car. He proceed to grab my hand. I was very nervous. And then finally asked him what are we doing outside a motel. He then told me we're staying there for tonight because he's too tired to drive and I'm totally wet from the rain. I told him that it's okay i'm fine and I just need to go home before my parents get worried of me. He then to told me that he'll explain everything to my parents when we gets home tomorrow morning. I nodded in defeat. We checked in, and he paid for paid for only one room. I was about pay for mine when he told that he there's two beds. I decided not to complain because im too cold to argue with him (the AC's on blast ). Just when I thought things are gonna get fine since there's a two bed , turns out it's only one. He lied ( Is he gonna rape me here. FML) I was very confused when he suddenly stripped in front of me. ( It's my first time seeing a naked man in real life AND I AM NOT READY ) he casually put his clothes to the bed and proceed to the shower. I was sitting in bed . when he comes out of the shower ( with a towel around his body this time THANK GOD)and he told me to take a shower too. without saying a word I proceeded to take a shower and I just realized then that I don't have any clothes ( they're all wet.) I just took the the other towel put it around me and wash my wet clothes and hanged it after. After that I comes out of the shower just to meet his gazed, his lying in bed with a towel around his waist. He suddenly gets up and then walked and then he's in front of me.He stared at me for a moment and I stared back awkwardly. He slowly started kissing me and I kissed back ( I planned to give him bj to satisfy the mad man ) He took of the the towel in his waist and them mine. I was embarrassed. I couldn't even look at him in the eye. He lays me in bed but still kissing me.I was nervous. I'm a virgin. What if I'll get pregnant ? I told him that and his response " Don't worry dili lagi ka ma buros." and then he started kissing me gain and he's starting to touch my everywhere he groped my boobs and I started to whimpered. He and then he touched me THERE! I stopped kissing him tried pushing him. But he pulled me easily that his "thing " is in front of me. It's my first time seeing something it in person o don't know what to feel . I decided to stick with my plan and start giving him a bj (YUCK ) it's didn't taste nice at all but I continued and then he fixed my hair and hold it . He told me to look at him while doing it. But I didn't. He demanded again and then started saying F words (I'm choking and he seems to enjoy it, MAD MAN) Something white comes out (EWWW) I almost vommit. I pulled it out of my mouth laid beside him thankful that it's done. ( Well everyone, he isn't done at all) he suddenly got up and started kissing me again his hands, everywhere and then I keep on telling him I can't do it yet.BUT he's stonger than I am. I just laid there while watching him doing something to me. I was too tired . I can't fight back. I'm no longer a virgin. After that he confessed to me that he likes me. (WTF MOMENTS AGAIN) In the morning he acted like nothing happened. Back to his big brother awra again. SORRY FOR THE GRAMMATICAL ERRORS AGAIN. THIS IS TRUE STORY. I HAVEN'T TOLD ANYONE ABOUT, NOT EVEN MY SISTER. I DECIDED TO SHARE IT. Feel free to ask me questions. I am more than willing to respond. THANK YOU

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  • I'm sorry that happened to you. And about the moments when you didn't fight back - it is completely understandable to freeze and not be able to do anything when something as scary as this happens to you. I can't even imagine how you must have felt. This might go without saying, but therapy might help you cope with this if it's possible for you to seek it. In any case, if you want to talk about this more I'll listen.

  • Is Kuya Tagalog or Visayan?

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how do guys catch feelings?

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  • it just happened, my ideal type isn't really the person you'll end with. Mine happens to be a funny guy, but too bad he's a f boy so now problem is get rid of him.

  • I was never vaccinated against feelings...I usually catch them once or twice a year.

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