Is it consider cheating if your bf/gf/husband/wife have virtual sex with strangers? I mean like sexting, video call, and all. Is it cheating?
Is it consider cheating if your bf/gf/husband/wife sexting and video call strangers?
I don't know how people can be with the same person for so many years. Maybe it's because I've never had a stable, long-term relationship . . but the thought of being with one person forever seems daunting and boring.
I realized I only hated the idea of being "kinky" because I was sure I could never live out my own kinky thoughts. How do I put it, I'm actually really glad that it turned out that my gf likes the same freaky stuff that I like...when I pointed that out, because she seems like the least "perverted" person there could be, she just said "still waters run deep". Oh, how right she is...
I'm on my first long term relationship, we've been together for about a year and a half. The thing is that he is not doing some little things that he used to do like he used to call me every night to talk about our days and say good night. I don't know if this is the normal course of relationships or if I'm not that interesting anymore or if it's cause he's too tired but I miss those things. And every time I want to bring it up I feel over dramatic. Idk what to do.
I've seen so many failed relationships that I'm gradually turning into someone who doesn't believe in marriage. I used to dreamt of having an extravagant wedding, but now I can't see the spark or magic on it.
I dated this guy back in highschool which I considered myself lucky cause he was super popular with the girls and I wasnt the "super pretty cheerleader" type. I was a chubby emo girl for sure but anyways, We broke up and I found out we broke up cause he found a girl he talked too on the internet and that really messed with my self-esteem. But now Im dating his best freind and we have been together for 6 years and we have two kids, still going strong so the moral of the story is that things are going to be shitty at first but happiness will come along as you least expect it too.
I wish my boyfriend would understand that I don't want to tell him explicitly what I want for my birthday or that I want him to bring me flowers or my favourite cookies every now and then, because I don't want him to buy me things to get things for free- I want him to give me those things to show me that he thinks of me on his way home, that he sees something and thinks "She would like that" and then can't wait to see the smile on my face. I want him to know me and listen to me when I talk about something I want. But how can I make him know this without actually saying this - as saying it would totally defeat the purpose, because then I couldn't enjoy any flower he brings home because I'd just think he did it for the wrong reasons?
I think "casual relationships" are pointless. I just see them as a waste of time. People just using each other for sex instead of putting that effort into actually finding a partner seems really stupid and shallow. Nobody I know agrees with me. Everyone is just fine with the idea of casually making yourself that vulnerable to somebody, everyone's just totally fine with being that close and intimate with someone they have no feelings for. But maybe I'm just too emotional. Maybe I just don't need sex like normal people seem to. I just hate feeling alone on this.
I made a deal with a female friend that if I took a photo of myself naked in the street, then I could see her nude in return. She agreed. I did my end of the deal and sent her the photo with full frontal. She just laughed and said "Oh my God" followed by "you're tiny". I reminded her about it occasionally for the next few months, and she kept saying that she was unhappy about her weight and brushing it off. Eventually, she sent me a photo of herself in her underwear. I told her that the deal was full nudity. Then she just went on a rant about slippery slopes and how I shouldn't be asking for nudes. Now I feel humiliated because she has a photo of me naked in public that she can access at any time and laugh at or even share... but the thought of that turns me on. I still hope that one day I can find a nude picture of her online, so I can make fun of her the way she did me. Apparently a video does exist, but I haven't been able to find it.