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HELP. so my boyfriend constantly claims he has a small penis because "every" girl hes ever dated has said so in the past and tells me I'm going to eventually leave him for someone bigger. usually insinuating a black guy. Then today I found out he watches BBC porn... is this all because hes insecure and wishes that's what he had? I'm so confused.

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  • Dick size is a very huge unsolved problem for men. I have a small dick and i don't like to watch porn where guys have small dicks. Whenever i see a guy with a nice dick i genuinely feel happy for him. There's all the group talks you have where guys often talk about their great penis or where girls talk about how they love a nice penis and i just have to sit there listening and smiling. It sucks and my confidence reaches low levels.

  • My ex constantly jokes about his 'small dick' even though his penis is of very average size. He's not huge but really he isn't small and idk what he expects of dicks? But sounds like your bf watches BBC porn because he either A. gets off on the insecurity/inferiority, or B. just fantasizes that he had that big of a dick. Maybe have a talk with him and tell him that big dicks are actually kind of the worst (because this is true, although to each their own I guess) and you love him for him, every part of him, and that you'd love him even if he had no dick at all. Also maybe point out that he's going to drive you away with the constant self deprecation and negativity before his dick size ever will.

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My son got into Pokemon and I know I have some rare gen 1 cards and figures at my mom's house. I know he really wants them but I have a hard time going back there. That woman is evil and that place screws with my head. To much trauma. I want to do it for him though. Don't know when I will get around to it. Don't want to take him to see her either. She doesn't love either of us.

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  • You can do it. You can do this. You are strong enough. She doesn't have power over you anymore.

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I had unintentionally been ignoring my friends because of the hurt they unknowingly caused me. I know it’s my fault that I fall asleep in class and make a fool of my self and they are just trying to help me by advising me but the way they put it hurts me a lot. I don’t care about others but I care about their view on me bc we’re friends. I’m now struggling to reply to them and honestly, I think I just made a rift because of all the internal hurt that has been compiling in me. I didn’t want this to happen but I caused it. I’m a shitty friend for doing this. This sucks too much and I’m coward because of I’ve been phobic of closer relationships since my falling out with my one of best friends. I don’t want a repeat of that. I’m shitty and I own up to that. This may seem minor but these internal battle I have been facing for so long has made me do rash decisions. I’m sorry guys for being a coward. I’m sorry for not being enough. I’m sorry and I hope one day we’ll forgive each other because I can’t trust you guys yet, not wholly.

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  • Just tell them how you feel. Tell them what they said was hurtful, and you avoided them for a bit because you didn't know what to say to them. Apologize for reacting harshly and acknowledge that you appreciate them trying to help.

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I think im going to break up with my boyfriend because he lies, hides stuff, and constantly watches porn. I even caught him on live one time, but no matter how or when I catch him he denies watching it all together. This is his new take, along with telling me hes not doing it when he is. He even chooses to do it when im home, in the next room. Porn itself, i dont find a problem with, but the lying and hiding stuff that i am fully okay with behind my back is an issue. Especially since ive caught him lying basically everytime he tells me anything lately, including hanging out with his little brother, going to work, etc. This is an even bigger issue since i caught him messaging girls about a year ago...

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  • Good choice. You deserve someone who cares about you.

  • He will be lying... You deserve a better man!

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I'm honestly impressed with this younger generation of Zoomer men. Never have I seen so many young guys talk about their desire to have a wife and kids. To be a husband and father. My generation of Millennials mostly just wanted to maximize their High score of pussy as if that was an accomplishment. I was the odd-man out for wanting a family. These kids are like anti-Boomers. It's great.

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What do you think about a man who has anger issues but has a good heart? Is anger something that can be worked on or just don't bother with this type of man.

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  • Only if they're getting help with their anger issue.

  • Anger can be dealt with, but it can also be dangerous. What is the specifics?

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You can't force make someone feel that you are feel.

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  • Brain wasn't able to spell it out right I guess

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I am a single mom of two wonderful children. I am dating a guy. I love him and my children like him a lot too. I am hurting by one matter. He has a female friend. They are friends since last few years. He told me that she loves him, she is in love with him and the loves her. On Valentine's day he argued with me and got angry. After he left my house he went to the movie with her and spent the remaining of the day. I don't know what to do. It hurts me that he is so close with her. I feel like I am just an addition, like 5th wheel in the car.

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  • I don't think he's into you. When I was in college I had a female best friend who had a crush on me. When I dated my now wife, I stopped hanging out with her. He's with her because he wants her. I don't think you want to be one of two. I bet she doesn't either. You gotta make the call, but I wouldn't put up with it.

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Getting a little sick of people looking down on my wife when she tells people she is a stay at home mom. She was at the doctor and they asked her job and she got a sarcastic. "Good for you." My own mother is the worst. That woman collects a government check for a living and I was raised by the TV. My wife has a Bachelor's degree and is a top tier wife and mom. She has a side-hustle and helps me with my job. From now on, when people ask, I told her to tell them her occupation is "Trophy wife."

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  • Wait, but isn't that a bit counterproductive? Not that I think this myself, but I'm under the impression a "trophy wife" is considered to be worse than a housewife. I mean, as long as the woman is happy with her choice to be a stay at home mom is fine, it's only a problem if it's in an abusive situation where she is not allowed to leave the home and stuck doing domestic stuff.

  • Better yet call yourself her Trophy Husband. She rules, you're there for your looks.

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He said he's gonna be away for 6 weeks but the way he said it, I got this instant feeling that he decided 6 weeks was "safe" like I wouldn't flip out over 6 weeks, but really it's gonna be more and at the last minute he will have some excuse for staying longer. I wish he'd just be honest dammit.

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