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Still missing him even tho he has a girlfriend. He left me hanging.

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  • I just hope your doing good...It's hard to move on especially if you and that person you misses have alot of memories together....But you will forget him one day

  • Sorry to hear that. It sucks. Focus on you, though. Call your friends or family, go for a walk, go shopping, work out, restart a hobby or find a new one. Or focus on work/school. You'll get through it.

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I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, before being with him I was with someone who cheated on me which has made me insanely insecure and horribly impacted my self-worth. So yesterday I asked him if he thought this person called Liv was pretty whom he was friends with in 2017, and he said "Liv was pretty sure, but I never thought she was pretty since being in a relationship with you, like I have said so many times I can't look at someone that way anymore, whether they're pretty or ugly is irrelevant" but just thinking about the fact that he used to think people before me were pretty makes my insides burn, and I know I shouldn't feel this way because it's irrational but I can't help it and it's starting to negatively affect our relationship. I also don't tell him but I secretly cry for hours and feel like absolute shit when he (rarely ever) meets up with female friends. So for my own sake and that of my relationship, how can I stop being so insecure.. ?

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  • If you can afford it, therapy may help you. Maybe even couple's therapy so you two can work out your problems together. Unfortunately aside from that, I don't know what to tell you other than you have to trust him. Relationships are built on trust. And I know it's hard once somebody breaks that, it's so hard to let anyone else back in. But you can't be jealous of every woman he meets. And you especially can't be jealous of women he used to know. The big thing to remember is, there's nothing wrong with you. Your ex cheated on you because HE was a piece of shit, not because you were. It was 100% his choice, his fault. You are not to blame. Nothing you could or couldn't do is a reason for someone to cheat on you. You have nothing to feel insecure about. People don't cheat because their partners aren't good enough; they cheat because they're greedy and want more, or because they think it's fun.

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I used to watch porn around three or four times a day but now I'm just bored with it. I still watch it to masturbate around two or three times a week since I can only cum while watching it. It's a problem I've got. The other problem is that I'm nearly forty years old and can't talk to women, I'm too shy and lack self esteem. I'm afraid of women and the emotional and sexual frustration is killing me. The thing is that I'm just not good with people and relationships. My ex friends are a good example, I treated them like shit constantly when I had ptsd from doing chemo. I've repressed all the revolt because I had the disease and eventually snapped. I'm ranting. Sorry for the long confession.

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  • Talk to girls online. If you screw up, they never even met you. Easy way to build confidence.

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I've been unreasonably horny a lot lately, like really frequently, and it's pissing me off because I can't satisfy myself. I need a partner's help and I don't have one. Physical needs aside, I'm also craving the emotional connection... Damn I hate being single.

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  • Go out, have some fun, you'll find someone. Just start meeting people.

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I like my best friend's sister,i still don't know if i love her or if she likes me or not but hate myself for getting too close with her. I have always tried to keep my distance by not flirting not sharing and not being too involved with her. But last year i don't know what happened we became friends. I still don't flirt or act on how i feel,and probably i never will . But everyday it is getting harder for me to act normal around her. I Instinctively prioritise her over everyone else like saving her a seat, making sure that she gets the last bite and so on. It's breaks my heart thinking about how nothing will happen between us,and even if by chance anything happens she deserves someone better, someone with a better job, better personality , someone who is better than me.

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  • Why can't anything happen between you? Why do people seem to think it's just not okay to date someone because you're friends with one of their siblings? Unless she's just way younger or older than you, I don't see the problem.

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had to act like a complete jackass to get my ex to leave me alone. long story short she blocked me and I'm happy and content now. not proud of how I had to act but what's done is done.

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  • I tried that before. If the girl has issues, she likes you MORE if you are a dick. It's super creepy. Like they don't value themselves and think if you look down on them, you MUST be right and they you must be superior.

  • I've been there. Gotta do what you gotta do.

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I just want to sleep next to someone on this twilight cold weather.. i never realized how much that kind of feeling meant to me a lot. I spent my whole life alone and occupied with my work and research. Most of my life I live to study reality yet I cant live in reality. Im stuck in the lab then i go home alone. Heck i dont have close friends to talk to. Just colleagues about work. Sometimes they invite me for a drinking night but its still makes me feel empty though. Its so weird im already 24 years old. i never expect much but a real friend i never have. And now someone to be with which is harder to come by. I never dated men since 8 years ago when i was completely different person

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  • If you can, I suggest using apps to find friends :) There are a lot of free ones.

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My ex sent me a YouTube link to a song called "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do" and he followed it with a text saying "overdub yourself". The song is a dude singing about wanting to try again and begging his partner not to leave him. I think my ex thinks that's how I feel about him. So in response, I sent him a YouTube link to Taylor Swift's "White Horse", which is her saying she waited so long to be appreciated by her partner, but now that he finally sees what he's lost, it's too late for him and his white horse to come around, because the damage has already been done. Maybe my ex will finally catch my drift.

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  • You 2 are too immature to be in relationships.

  • Maybe instead of sending songs just say what you want to say??

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Why do guys like to go to strip clubs? My boyfriend as been talking about going to one and I'm feeling self conscious. I've already expressed how I would feel about it.

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  • What another nakid women, man, I got one every night at home, show me one girl who can 👻 boohoos👾 with me.

  • I also want to go to one some day. Just to see what it's like. It's such an overglorified concept that you keep seeing in what feels like literally every movie or TV show, so I am really hyped about doing that myself once. I am a straight woman. What I want to say with this is, there is a possibility that he has innocent reasons for going, and you shouldn't worry until you asked him why he wants to go.

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It's very easy to get one-itis as a teenager. It's easy to say, "I'd die for you." When you have nothing to live for yet. I stumbled on the Facebook of my high school crush. She's pretty lame now. She has massive student debt from a useless photography degree. She spams anti-vaxx stuff all over her facebook, and she named her kid after a really lame discount romance novel author. 10 years is a very long time in life.

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  • sounds like the kid with the dumb name will have all kinds of itis. Unfortunately there is no shot against insanity.

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