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Every time I try to masturbate to sexy pictures of my partner, I can't do it. Even if I'm in a relationship with them and I know they masturbate to my pictures, I feel guilty or creepy doing it somehow. I can't get off to porn either. I just imagine scenarios in my head. And the weird thing about this is I can masturbate thinking about my partners, just not when I'm looking at a picture.

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  • I have the same kind of weird feeling. Personally, porn is fine with me because since the actors are doing what they can to entertain viewers, but fantasizing about people I know in real life or celebrities feels creepy to me. The one thing I absolutely CANNOT do is place myself in fantasies whatsoever. I need to visualize everything from a third person point of view or I imagine my own made up characters or stories to go along with it. So no worries, everybody has their own way to get off.

  • I also find it weird to masturbate to pictures of my partner. I'm turned on by pictures of other people, I'm turned on by thoughts of my partner and my partner himself, but pictures... I have no idea why. I can relate to you saying it feels creepy somehow. You're not weird.

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life is beautiful without expectation...

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I'm a 32f and last summer I had sex in a park during the day time. we got caught by 2 teenagers who ended up watching us for about 5mins because my fiance didn't want to stop. I felt a bit uncomfortable especially after my fiance took my shirt off and made me completely naked if front of them but at the same time I felt it was kinda fun to have sex in front of someone. I know it was weird but does that make me a bad person?

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  • Not a bad person, but maybe don't do it in front of minors. Voyeruism and exhibitionism are kinks for a reason. Maybe record yourself having sex and upload it to porn sites if you want people to watch you.

  • No, it doesn't make you a bad person

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i think I'm Polyamorous, but that scares me. I want the attention and love of more then one person, and I want to give that love too, but it's scary too. Only one person I know is into that, but we aren't interested in eachother, as well as I'm still a minor in a strict, religious household. There's no room to explore anything. My mom already thinks the polyamorous prospect is disgusting.... how would she react to her daughter being one?

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  • Hey, I'm polyamorous, ignore that guy who commented first. I'm currently dating someone who has a boyfriend and we all know/are cool with it. It's not a big deal. And we all love each other, even though I'm not really dating her bf. And it's not 'all about the sex' because we're not even having sex. I know how scary it is to have parents that won't accept you. I'm also bisexual, and I'm out to almost everyone except my family because I don't want them to bother me about it. Ultimately, this is YOUR life, not theirs. Live the way you want to. If you love several people, love several people. Your family doesn't have to know, and if they do, fuck em. Their opinions don't matter.

  • I ran into so many self-proclaimed polys when I toured with bands. It's just the title men who want to fuck everyone give themselves. There is no "love" in it. No loyalty. In the end they are left with no lovers at all. Alone with no attention from anyone because all you offer at that point is sex and as you get older you get less takers. The problem with religious people is they are great at setting up rules, but horrible at explaining WHY the rules work. What is the fence gaurding against? If they want you to go ask Alice, I'll be your Alice. I've seen it all first hand.

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How much bad shit am I allowed to say about my mother? The lunatic is going around throwing herself a pity party and bad-mouthing my wife because I don't visit her. My mother has spent years trying to destroy my life. She has sabotaged every relationship, every friendship, even jobs and real-estate deals. When I had kids I realized she was too dangerous to be around them. Now I and my wife get dirty looks around town as if I abandoned a puppy in the snow. Can I just tell them that she is a hateful dangerous psycho or does that just look bad on me? I have to defend my REAL family by which I mean my wife and kids, but I also can't bring shame on them because this person's shame is connected to them. I just wish the bitch would go back to Germany and leave us all alone. There is nothing here for her in America.

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It stinks that my ex got to know my mom but didn't seem that upset when she died. I get that she wasn't his mom and he only knew her for two and a half years. Maybe him having Aspergers could explain it. But I don't remember him crying at all. When I was really sad and had mild depression after she died, he said he'd call my grandma to send me to the mental hospital. I didn't need that. I was just sad! I wasn't suicidal, I didn't think of hurting myself or others. I didn't want or need a mental hospital. I just wanted his support and understanding while I grieved. He never even went to the mausoleum with me, even though it was only 20 minutes from my house. The lack of emotional support really opened my eyes to the other bullshit I went through for him. Losing my mom and having to support myself at 19 made me grow up. It made me realize he wasn't growing up with me. He was two years older than me but he hadn't matured at all since we were together. Life is too short and unfair to waste your time with an asshole manchild. I wish I could've realized that while my mom was here. It's not fair that my ex got to meet my mom and didn't appreciate her, but my fiance now never got to meet her. He wishes he could've met her and I know my mom would've liked him more than my ex. He hugs me and comforts me when I'm having a sad day and miss her. No questions asked, if I need a hug I can tell him and he'll stop whatever he's doing. He made sure to leave a spot for my mom's picture in our living room so we can always see her. It was his idea to get the picture and a flower to set up a little spot for her on Mothers Day. Cemeteries freak him out but I'm pretty sure he'd go with me when we finally get to visit my hometown. It's not fair that he didn't get to meet my mom.

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  • Sounds like you got yourself a good man now. That's hard to find.

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Turns out, my gf is into hentai. While I'm not into it, it explains the look on her face as she cums...Guys, I think I won the Internet. Shitposting-cute-big titted-weeb-bdsm-girlfriend = best girlfriend.

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  • r/thathappened

  • You didn't win anything dumbass

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Question for White girls: Would you be open to dating a half-Asian boy? I frequently see unconfident Hapa guys who say that they just aren't the type for most White girls who make up the majority of their school. Just be honest. Don't worry about being called racist. It's anonymous and this is just subjective taste. The reason I'm asking is my son. I'm kinda worried about when he gets older. He 50% Northern European and 50% Filipino. Think of the actor who played the Werewolf in Twilight. That's about how he looks.

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  • I dont think its about that, what home life does he have, like cultural wise.

  • damn I wish any boy at my school looked like Taylor Lautner with even half his personality

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How many times a day is a normal amount of fighting in a relationship?

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  • Depends on what you think fighting is. Throwing dishes and yelling at each other or disagreeing what the best movie ever made is? Two very different things

  • You should never fight with a partner. It's okay to disagree on things, but you should be able to talk it out like adults without resorting to a fight...

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I spent the night at my bf's house last night and this morning he shook me awake before the sun rose and said that the deer from the woods had come up to the back porch and that he wanted to feed them apple slices with me. So we went outside and there were four deer right there in front the back porch, and even though it was still dark out, we could see even more of them out in the woods beyond the treeline. It was so cool. We brought out a basket of apples cut in pieces and my bf held out the slices to the deer and they at them right out of his hand. He told me to try it but I was afraid of getting bit so I just placed the slices on the ground and let the deer eat them from there. There was one little baby deer with white spots all over and it was so cute I wanted to hug it. Then my bf's parents came out for a second and told us they were leaving for work, so we said goodbye to them and went back to feeding the deer. When he and I went back inside the house, it was barely seven a.m and the sun still hadn’t come out so we slept a little longer on the living room couch with the TV on, but now I’m awake and he's still sleeping. I’ve already made breakfast for when he gets up. And it’s raining now. I wonder what deer do when it rains. I went back outside and tried to look for them, but I couldn’t find them anymore. Oh, and I also made tea and coffee and now I’m just watching cartoons on the couch next to him while I wait for him to wake up.

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  • That's so awesome! I love that for you

  • That's beautiful. My animal encounter of the day is watching three ducks having a gang bang in my boyfriend's pool.

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