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Long story short we'd been friends for a years, not best friends but friends none the less. I moved away, she didn't make the effort to really keep in touch so I stopped, we basically haven't spoken in over half a year. A few weeks ago whilst going through my FB I noticed that she'd removed me as a sister, don't even know when she did that. I should have asked her about it then but I decided to leave it. This morning I was going to message her on Whataspp, saw that it looks like she's blocked me, no profile pic or last seen showing anymore. I'm actually depressed over this because we had a laugh when we did see each other and had never fallen out. I don't know why they would do this. Can anyone relate? Sorry for the lame blogpost but this has actually depressed me, I basically have no friends anymore.

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  • Long distance friendship isn't for everyone. And she removed you as a sister because she grew out of the Facebook stuff and found it childish. She also got a new number and either completely forgot that she has to tell people or she figured since you haven't talked in ages, it would be weird and that since you never reach out to her anymore, you wouldn't want to know. -no, of course I can't look into her head and know that this is what went through it, but I myself have been exactly that friend countless times and almost never stopped talking to someone or deleted them because I didn't like them anymore. And if one of those friends contacted me again because they miss me, I'd be very happy and glad to arrange a date to find out whether we could reconnect. So consider trying that with her. If she doesn't want to, then that's sad for you, but without trying it's also sad so why not give it a shot?

  • If you guys weren't best friends to begin with, idk why you were even listed as sisters on fb, so I wouldn't be too hurt by that; I recently cleaned up my own fb a bit and removed a lot of former friends from my 'family' tags. They're not family. As for being blocked, she may have just deleted her account, not actually blocked you. But if she didn't care enough to talk to you anyway, don't waste your time crying over her. Friends come and go, and that sucks, but it's a fact of life; most friends aren't going to stick around forever. People drift apart. Sometimes you just need to let it happen. Let her go. You can make new friends, it is possible, even for people like me with depression and social anxiety.

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I've always liked food and considered that I have a pretty good relationship with it. However, lately it has turned into an anxiety source. I've been trying to lose weight, exercising five days a week, cutting calories and I've only dropped 1 kg in 3 weeks. I've always been pretty big, I'm 1.75 mts and I've never been under 95 kg (right now I'm 105 kg). I'm really frustrated and scared that my food anxiety will eventually turn into something worse.

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  • keep trying. I mean it's still a short periods of time for exercising. 1kg for 3 weeks id a fast one by the way. keep going!!

  • Okay 4 things: 1. Three weeks is a hell short time to expect big results. 2. Stepping on the scale is a horrible way to measure those results since building muscle makes you gain weight, so even if you lose fat, if you gain muscle your weight can either stay the same, decrease slowly or even go up in the beginning. 3. Counting calories alone isn't the best way to lose weight. Eating healthy is a tricky topic, but it's worth educating yourself about. If you can't afford a professional (which I recommend since it spares you a lot of time), really try to read into it. Sugar, processed food, ... 4. Any kind of exercise is better than no exercise, but some are better for losing weight than others, so make sure you're on the right track here

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I love to write, like really want to spent my life about it. My idea usually around horror/thriller genre and R/Adult rated. My mind is madness and I want to share those madness to the world! But half of me saying that most people won't like that. And I'm really afraid to put it online, even though I have the portal for sharing, but I post none.

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  • Sounds awesome. Why not do it?

  • Don't be afraid of the people who won't like your work, be brave for the ones who will love it.

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your love feels so fake, my demands aren't high to make

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I'm so proud of my mom, she was an angel. I really love her. I want to make she happy, she's work for me and my dad. My dad have a stroke. But, she says i'm not a good child for her when i didn't following the rules that she made.

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I wish my brain would quit whispering lies to my heart, telling me I'm not good enough and never will be. Trying to convince me that everyone would be better off without me. Making me worry that things won't ever actually get better and all this work will be for nothing. I know it's not true, I KNOW it's not, but a small part of me can't help but doubt, can't stop myself from wondering 'What if I'm right? What if I really should just die and save myself and everyone the trouble?' and I hate it. I don't want to think these things. I don't want to die, I don't want to give up, I don't want to hate myself. Why can't I shake these thoughts?

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  • They're definitely hard to get away from. I think I've got them squashed and there they come again. I don't know if its even possible to get rid of them entirely. You just learn techniques to negate their effect on you. Personally my voice ''sounds'' like my abuser so I mostly don't listen out of spite.

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I have attachment issues and because I know that, I now distance myself to others to avoid manifesting my problem and it's impulses....

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  • There are healthier ways to work through this without sequestering yourself away.

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I feel like my best friend is now closer to my sister than she is to me. Now I have no one. I mean, yeah, I have other friends, but I'm not as close with them, and I probably never will be. That's not the kind of thing you can just... make happen. You can't force someone to have a deeper connection with you. It's so hard to make friends. Why can't I have just one person? Just one friend who doesn't leave me. One friend to spend time with, to talk to about things we have in common, to support in their times of need but also to lean on when I need help. Is that too much to ask? Is it too much to ask for just one friend?

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am I gonna make it? am I will not disappoint my parents? I'm such a useless girl

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  • i feel the same too, but don't worry when u'll be 50 yo u won't think anymore of this anymore, i think.

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Semua yang aku lakuin selalu ga bisa bagus. Seuseless ini aku?

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  • Biarkan apa orang kata asalkan apa yang kamu buat itu betul. Percaya pada diri.

  • berproses ga harus selalu sempurna. paling gak kamu udah berusaha yg terbaik. ga ada manusia yg useless, pasti ada kelebihan kekurangan masing-masing. coba aja lakuin banyak hal dg sungguh". pasti ada satu dua yg nyantol. good luck

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