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My brother likes pranking my cat. But this time it's a totally different level. He cut off her whiskers. Cat whiskers never grows back and I'm sooo pissed off at him that I wanna sue him for doing that. It was just stupid I think. Now my cat is always tired and anxious at her surroundings...

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  • Your cat will be okay after some time. Their whiskers can shed and grow back; this happens when their weight changes, because their whiskers are as long as their body is wide. So when the width of their body changes, their whiskers change. That said, she will be disoriented and nervous and probably irritable for a while until they grow back. Explain to your brother that he can't 'prank' animals, they don't understand jokes and he's just bullying (emotionally abusing) them. Maybe talk to your parents about it.

  • Cat whiskers do grow back, don't worry. Your cat will be fine

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I think "casual relationships" are pointless. I just see them as a waste of time. People just using each other for sex instead of putting that effort into actually finding a partner seems really stupid and shallow. Nobody I know agrees with me. Everyone is just fine with the idea of casually making yourself that vulnerable to somebody, everyone's just totally fine with being that close and intimate with someone they have no feelings for. But maybe I'm just too emotional. Maybe I just don't need sex like normal people seem to. I just hate feeling alone on this.

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  • I'm with you 100%. My own mother ridiculed me when I told her this same thing. Well now I've been married for 10 years and she is desperately seeking a 60 year old man to "date" after her on again off again bf of 20 years left her again.

  • Well you have to understand that everyone is different. You're neither right nor wrong with your opinion. This is something you feel and decide for yourself, and just because you feel like this doesn't mean everyone who doesn't is doing it wrong. I can't find a really good metaphor for this, but maybe you can compare it to a project at school and being or not being a perfectionist. If a perfectionist is assigned a project, they want to do it either perfectly or they feel like it's not worth doing at all. They're the ones who get either a grade 1 or 6 every time. Then there are the students who are totally casual, they still do their best but they won't let a school project interfere with their personal life. If they know they won't be able to do it right, they'll do it just as they can at the moment and are fine with getting a grade 3 or 4. See, the first student may get perfect results, But he also may end up with no result at all. The second one will have a lot of poor results, but this doesn't mean he can't be perfect on another project. I don't mean to say that you're doing poorly in your love life, just that you obviously don't want to get poor results just to get results at all. Which is fine. But it's not for everyone.

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My mom can be such an asshole sometimes. But I still love her and I dont know what I would do without her.

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  • Mom's are people, they sometimes are assholes, and sometimes we have to tell them (nicely) that we don't feel good when they do certain things.

  • Same

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-I'm just like any other girl!! I always wanted to say that to those people who think I'm a lesbian...I like boy's too, i also wanted to have a boyfriend not a girlfriend...I hate it when my boy--friends and classmate treat me like I'm one of them they act like I'm a lesbian-a guy. It's not my fault if I'm socially awkward or my voice is deep or how i dress..Or how i act and speak...

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  • Well, it literally is your fault how you dress!? And the whole point of having a big variety of clothes to choose from is to show other people something about yourself, and then you get treated accordingly. If you dress like a boy then people will assume you want to be seen as one. If you want to be seen as a girly girl, then dress girly. The deep voice is something that you won't be able to change, but people will be able to look past it if it's not too extreme (which I don't think it is). And I don't get how being socially awkward makes you manly, awkwardness has no gender.

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I wanna be with people but I find people annoying.

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  • Keep them on a healthy distance. in my case, i like hearing their stupid ideals and irrelevant problems. you dont have to be friends with them or create meaningful relationships. just sit down, and listen to their stories. theres nothing to lose.

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I wanted to make a big photo book with all the pictures I basically ever took because to be honest, when they're just on your computer, you never look at them. I found a website where you can create quite expensive, but pretty albums and started doing it, being really excited and all... until I noticed that looking at all of these pictures makes me really sad. The ones that date a few years back remind me of wonderful times with friends who I don't talk to anymore. The more recent ones make it very apparent how dull and lonely my life has become, and my boyfriend is in all of those pictures, which is great, but I can't help to think about how I wouldn't be able to ever look into the photo book again if he broke up with me. Now I'm sad and I wonder if I should just delete all of them.

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  • Don't delete them. Yes, looking at old photos can be sad, but you're missing the point. They're supposed to remind you of the good times, not make you sad that things changed. Life always changes, that's just how it is. Embrace it and look back fondly on the good times you had as you set out to make new memories.

  • Don't delete them. You might have use later. It's just data. It takes up no physical space and cost to keep them.

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Why is it people always look for the good looking one . I'm not pretty and i don't have good looking body. I've never been in relationship and people never try to approach me. Why can't people just try and just talk not because of the looks. I don't know what to do to make me look interesting. I know I'm shy but i did try talk to people but people don't find me interesting to talk too. What should i do? I know i don't have the look but i try to dress well. Some people even look at me like they're disgusted.

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  • You've gotta reach out to others. You'll never meet anyone if you just sit and wait for them to come to you.

  • Biological imperative? People pick a mate to mate with. It's unavoidable. All you can do is be the best you can be.

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The past couple weeks every time I wake up, I feel sad that I did. I hoped i didn't

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  • Find something worth waking up for.

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I don't really have any friends except my husband because people keep screwing me over. Anyone know of a safe online space to meet friends?

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  • I like using the Bumble app to meet friends that I can hang out with in person once I get to know them. Not every match ends in a friendship, but I've made two good friends with it and possibly one more.

  • I made a lot of friends through fandom Twitter accounts. Met lots of people on my Swiftie stan account, and lots of people on my furry account, and I talk to all of them on Telegram in group chats. No place is 100% safe, every place will likely have a bad apple or two. But some places are better than others and I wish you luck.

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Its hard to love a person who hasnt not done yet loving someone else.

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  • What's your idea of love ?

  • Your grammar is giving me an headache

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