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why everyone leave? why do i have to be alone once again?? god, just take me.. i can't deal with it all over again

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People bore me and annoy me and yet I miss having friends. Never had a gf either btw. I'm just that bad when it comes to social interaction. When I get bored of people telling me shit that I don't care or to put me down I bottle up. It doesn't take much time to lash out at people because I'm so angry of being alone and dispised.

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  • Humans are social creatures, we need interaction. And to get better at interacting, you have to just do it. Also maybe learn a bit of compassion? Just because you don't care about what someone is talking about doesn't mean they don't care. I once listened to a guy lecture me on astrophysics- even though I really don't care much about it- just because it made him so happy to talk about, his eyes lit up and he had this huge smile on his face. I listen to little kids tell me about their favorite characters on TV or the toy that they really want for Christmas. They see these things as important enough to tell me, so I see it as important enough to listen. If you want to be heard, you have to listen. Interaction is give and take. It can't be about you you you all the time. Treat people with kindess and respect and they will do the same.

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Music is a small comfort these days

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I'm so tired of my stomach hurting and irritable bowel it stops me from doing so many things in life

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  • So glad to not be the only one

  • Same man. Every time I go to the bathroom, I shit out a lube like substance

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I don't remember if I already posted about this, but I had a one-time climbing class two weeks ago and have been too socially anxious to go back to practice. You see, climbing with rope takes two people because one person needs to secure the other end of the rope while their partner climbs. (I did try to ask someone from the class, but the conversation kind of died because there was an awkward moment and then I was scared to speak. I have no friends either.) I didn't know this social aspect when I signed up for it, so I feel like I spent 75 euros for nothing. I'm such a noob, I should have looked into it more beforehand... Of course I could go to the place and see if some total stranger happens to need a partner, but I've been too afraid to do so.

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  • Hi! I honestly used to feel the same way about doing rugby, it looked like so much fun but I was afraid of the team part of it. The only tip I can give to you is to keep trying, maybe build a persona who is adventurous and outgoing to help you start the process. You can take advantage of the fact that no one there knows you. Maybe that situation happened because the other person was also feeling awkward. After the first couple of sessions it will become easier and less tiring, just keep doing it. You might find something you really like and a new family. PS. Another thing that always helps me is talking about it to my friends or family, this way, I feel like I need to go because it becomes real and they might ask me about it later.

  • Climbing is scary at first! And it's super social, but most climbers (real climbers, not the people who go to gyms for bday parties) are very kind and social people! They're always willing to help if you need advice or even a partner to climb with. If you want to climb solo, there are places with auto belays (though I don't personally trust them much), and there's also bouldering. Bouldering, unlike toproping, doesn't involve ropes. You just free climb (on shorter walls). That way you can do it alone or with a friend. Something else you could try is one of those friend finding apps or a group meet app, they're designed to help you find people to do activities with, and you might just get some friends out of it! But don't be discouraged if you don't click with everyone you talk to, I've talked to maybe 20 people and only kept 2. But they're 2 of the coolest people I know :) Good luck friend, don't give up on things you enjoy just because it's hard to start!

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I'd appreciate big help here... I'm 18, I'm Male, and its been a year since I have a crush on this chubby, kind and happy-go-lucky guy, who is my best friend's brother's friend... But I think he isn't gay. I think of him everyday, and I just dream to even hug him, but I can't cause I'm scared... Anyone has ideas on how I could get to just sleep with him? (Not any nudity anything just even feel him close)

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  • Sleeping next to someone with the intent of getting some kind of romantic joy out of it when they don't know you're doing it is honestly kind of creepy. This would have been way less awkward to read if you had just asked for advice on asking him out.

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It's one of those nights where it really hits me how badly I want to be loved. But I don't even know how to love someone - it has to go both ways. So it feels like a selfish wish.

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I'm really frustrated with my older sister. She has a child, but tends to ignore/neglect him. I feel like he's my responsibility since I'm living in the household with them, but at times I also believe she really should care for her own child instead of having someone else do it for her.

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I still miss my ex friends but they were very arrogant and mean to me. I'm no peach either but they all dispise me now mainly because I have difficulty in getting a job or doing all the things that a responsible adult does. You see, my mother has sheltered me too much from the problems life brings and now I am a disfuncional adult that's still a child mentally.

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  • I'm the same way, a physical adult but mental child that is the product of being over protected. But we can get through this.

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I'm tired of getting my heart broken. I'm starting to think there really just isn't anyone out there for me, and I'm just going to have to go through life alone.

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