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I can't wink at people because when I open the eye I closed, it'll point to a different direction from the other.

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  • This is normal lol. When you close your eyes, they move. Don't be self conscious about it :) But hey, if it makes you feel better, most people can't actually wink anyways. I see so many people just close both of their eyes but with emphasis when they 'wink'. At least you can do it!

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I'm scared that A) most guys are insensitive and aggressive like my dad, and B) most guys are sadists in bed because I've watched too much porn despite knowing from the start that it would fuck with my mind because I'm so goddamn sensitive. I know how little these apprehensions make sense but I haven't gotten over them. I do talk about them in therapy but I guess it'll take time. But what I still wanted to confess this because I'm really ashamed of these fears and they bother me a lot.

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  • This might sound harsh, but I don't mean it that way: What's the point of having a therapist if you can't talk to them? They can't help you about problems you won't talk to them about. Your fears aren't completely irrational, but you're imagining problems that don't exist. Creating barriers for yourself based on emotional trauma. Uou need to work through your trauma to fix these fears. Also, about the sadist thing: anyone who is actually into BDSM and isn't just abusive is 100% all about consent. No actual sadist would hurt you without your permission.

  • With my generation, most of my male friends aren't sadists. Many of them like dominant women. It's a more common fetish, oddly enough.

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I have almost nothing in my life to show for. If it wasn't for my mother I'd be living in the street. I have depression an anxiety and it's so bad that I can't get a job, friends or gf. I'm two and half yrs of becoming a 40 yrs old virgin. I'm fat, diabetic, had cancer 6 yrs ago. Because of the last one I've became very angry and temperamental that I pissed off all of my now ex friends.

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  • If there one thing I can give advice about - make friends before you to to get a girlfriend. Social skills are a bare necessity of a romantic relationship.

  • Have you tried to do anything about it since last time you posted?

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I lost my whole family today in a car acident :/ mom, dad and my lil brother :/ now i have to be the “mom” from my 4 months baby sister ans im only 21 years old. I dont know what to do.. im just in the hospital like hours.. i cant not go back home with my sister.. i just wanna die too :((((( i have no one left :/// my sister is too young to understand and i just fucking cry.. ://///// im not prepared to real world anymore.. and also. Ot prepared for be alone :/// im afraid

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  • It will not be easy, so cry when you feel sad, rest when you feel tired, yet you will learn that your naby sister can give you love too even she is only four months old, day by day you'll make it.

  • you have a right to feel the way you do. God is with you

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you know what is the worst thing when you're sick? you got nobody to takes care of you, while when ur friends got sick, you treat them well. It sucks. The only thing u can do is just crying. Thank God, hope i will find somebody who will treat me well.

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I've had a crush on my boss for half a year now. The good news is, he's getting transferred to another area, so he won't be my boss anymore and it wouldn't be weird for us to date. Bad news is, I'm pretty sure he has a girlfriend now. Funny how the universe likes to rub things in your face, huh? It's like when you lose one of your shoes, and when you finally find it, you've lost the other one.

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I am a single mom of two wonderful children. I am dating a guy. I love him and my children like him a lot too. I am hurting by one matter. He has a female friend. They are friends since last few years. He told me that she loves him, she is in love with him and the loves her. On Valentine's day he argued with me and got angry. After he left my house he went to the movie with her and spent the remaining of the day. I don't know what to do. It hurts me that he is so close with her. I feel like I am just an addition, like 5th wheel in the car.

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  • I don't think he's into you. When I was in college I had a female best friend who had a crush on me. When I dated my now wife, I stopped hanging out with her. He's with her because he wants her. I don't think you want to be one of two. I bet she doesn't either. You gotta make the call, but I wouldn't put up with it.

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I'm just nobody, even around my friends. They come when they feel they need to, but they are away when I need them, even forget who I am. Sigh, I hate being nice to people.

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He said he's gonna be away for 6 weeks but the way he said it, I got this instant feeling that he decided 6 weeks was "safe" like I wouldn't flip out over 6 weeks, but really it's gonna be more and at the last minute he will have some excuse for staying longer. I wish he'd just be honest dammit.

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Im so fucking hurt right now. I respected this woman’s boundaries for 2 fucking years and I just found out tonight she’s having a baby by another dude it barely been 5 months since we broke up. We started dating 2016 and she ended things in December 2018 and im so dead inside right now. I gave every ounce of love I had to this woman. She told me she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex and despite my concerns and hesitation I accepted it and was faithful to her in a sexless relationship just for her to fuck some other dude and have a baby by him not even 5 months later. I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life. This was supposed to be my future wife, we were supposed to have a family together. I put my all into this woman. I’m just in absolute shock right now I can hardly breathe.

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  • Wow, you have dodged a bullet. Please be thankful for that. I know it hurts at the same time! Believe me, I can really feel you right now. But please see that you have indeed dodged a bullet!

  • i know that feeling of not being able ro breathe all too well. just like you i couldnt any other way to describe that pain inside. believe me time heals all wounds and it will get better I promise. i know right now that seems stupid unrealistic and probably annoying but its true. i felt like that when my friends and family would tell me after a heartbreaking end with a man i was inlove with. in fact i wanted to punch anybody in the face that uttered those words. as long as you have no personality or mood disorders or depression or any kind of mental health issues ( if you do please see a counselor. you will need help getting thru this) you will be just fine in time. this could be a blessing in disguise. maybe you will actually meet the love of your life cus it wasnt her. just be grateful u didmt marry her amd have kids with her just 2 find out she is fucking some other dude that would be 100× worse and painful 4 you. u will be ok.

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