I sometimes just wanna call my boyfriend on the phone and talk for hours. I sometimes wanna just chit chat by text. And sometimes I wanted to tell him how much I miss him. But I never do any of those because I don't want to be a clingy girlfriend. I want to respect his alone time and also put some dignity to my own alone time. But when I'm alone I mostly end up thinking about him. And I always am excited for the weekend because that's the only days we spend quality time together. It's not awful and I really love it. But I never get to tell him how much I miss him during the weekdays and Idk how he'll react when I tell him my feelings during those days. Is it okay to brough that up in a conversation? I told him that I don't like being clingy so.. We've been dating 4 months. But the weirrd part about me, I also don't like to be bothered too much at random times because I also don't like a clingy boyfriend. It's why I'm not trying to be clingy because I know what I "dont" want. But I wanna get what I want by not violating doing the same thing to my partner. I like to be fair.
I don't know if i love her or even want to have sex with her. She's married with kids. But she has shown a great interest in me over the last few years. Nothing ever happened because i'm quite insecure and never had a romantic relationship with anyone despite being almost forty. As you can guess i'm a virgin man. Anyway i don't know if i can love her or have sex with her without treating her poorly or using her for sex. I treat people poorly in general btw. And i know she's married but at the same time i wonder if she could be my biggest love of my life if i let it happen. God knows i need a woman in my life, i'm so lonely and sad all the time. The thing is that she has a nice body but i don't want to make cheat on her husband, yet she looks at me with such intensity... I don't know how to handle that. I'm a coward, i'm afraid of everything in life. So says my terapist. I often wonder i'm missing out on someting meaningful by not being able to even have a casual conversation with her.
I am 19 and I found a 16 year old attractive... Until I found out her age of course
I don't know if I can ever be in love again. I haven't had real feelings for someone for over two years now... Even though I dated really great guys, I just keep thinking that what I feel for them is not enough to build a relationship on... But I want to be in a relationship so badly, I really miss the feeling of being head over heels in love with someone. I wonder if I will ever be able to feel that way again.
Today marks my one month anniversary with my boyfriend. I am happy beyond words that I have him. But recently I became afraid of something that isn't even a problem... yet. I'm afraid it will be in the future. See, the thing is, I'm 23, and I've been in several relationships at this point in my life. But my boyfriend... he's also 23, and I'm the first girl he's dated. I was his first kiss. This sounds incredibly sweet, and it is, but my fear is that... What if someday he feels like he's missing out by not dating anyone else? What if he just thinks he's so in love with me because I'm his first love, and he doesn't love me like that anymore once he loses the rose colored lenses of the honeymoon phase? I'm suddenly terrified that he's going to want to leave me later on. And I'm going to talk to him about this, because we believe in honesty and open communication. But I'm so scared to approach him about it. And I'm so scared of the future now. I hate my stupid anxiety disorder for making me feel like this.
I'm in a great relationship with a girl that I love, but I just can't bring myself to settle down never cheated on her but it's getting to a point I almost "need" to do it. I'm afraid it's starting to chip on the relationship I know I must sound like a piece of shit, but I'm a pretty ok guy... it's one part of me I don't know how to fix
My dad died 3 months ago. My stepmom, who I'm not close to and was terrible to my dad at the end, still uses his phone with the same number. Everytime she calls or texts me my phone says it's Dad. I don't have it in me to change the contact name to her name. Dad deserves to stay in my contacts. She didn't give him his medicine like she should've, she cheated on him when he was dying of stage 4 cancer. I just wish she would change her number. I don't care if she keeps the phone since she used it the most before Dad got sick. But change the dang number. It hurts to see I got a text from "Dad" when it's not him. It hurts to see his name come up on the screen and ignore it because I don't want to talk to her.
I feel like I have to keep my feelings to myself. I hear those that I know say, "You can always talk to me". Once I start talking to them those same people decide they don't want to listen; or even worse, make you feel like something is wrong with you for having feelings, by giving harsh advice or opinions that you didn't ask for. Sometimes you just need someone to emphasize or plainly just listen.
I Haven't cried in years. years being since i was 12, i'm 25 now. Not really sure whats wrong with me.
I just confessed my feelings for a guy I like and he hasn't responded..... I guess you can tell that means he's not interested