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do anyone of you have someone in yalls lives who you know theyre always right about everything, and u look at them for like guidance? like not ask them but just look at what theyre doing, or when youre in doubt u think 'what would they do' to try to figure out how to do things? i am like this with a person

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  • I used to, but the older I get, the more I realize role models don't exist. Everyone has a flaw or some kind of dark side to them. You can take inspiration from the good people do, but it's not healthy to try to be somebody else. Latching yourself on to someone like that only leads to disappointment later on down the road.

  • I was recently told I am that person for someone and I am so extremely horrified to be considered some kind of role model. I have no idea what the shit I'm doing but I apparently give the appearance of having a handle on things. I was told I radiate a 'calm and zen' presence which is hilarious because I have an anxiety disorder. We're all just ducks, furiously paddling our feet under the water where no one can see.

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I got hired on at this retail job as "seasonal". Part of me really likes it and hopes they let me stay on permanently. ...but another part of me hopes they let me go and we part ways gracefully, because despite liking this job, the instability and isolation isn't good for my mental health. But idk where else I'd work. I wish I could just... be a stay at home parent. But alas I'm not married and don't have kids to stay home with.

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when that one person i like makes a prayer live stream she always mentions the lonely and that God should comfort them and stuff, i feel like shes talking about me and that i should go away, is that just my anxiety? i feel like it isnt,cuz i felt like she never seen almost anything i wrote so id just write repetitively a lot like spam the same thing, but what if its the opposite, and she read a lot of it, and now she thinks im retarded, desperate mentally ill or a psychopath. also yea i am really really lonely , when u think about health and stuff, people talk about fitness and food but we try not to talk about how being lonely and not ever getting hugged or affection will make u sick too. despite everything i do im still sick and unhealthy because i dont know love i guess, i dont know what i should do, i will be alone at home for new years. im a person who is honest a lot irl, and i was thinking to just be really honest and just tell someone that i dont want to be alone at home , that im afraid of ghosts, that i dont have anyone to be with me, but i dont have anyone to say this to

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I would be so relieved if we went into lockdown and "couldn't" have Xmas. I might even isolate just to make a point... Not that those maskless idiots out there give a rat's ass of course.

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  • that really weirded me out about seeing all the people traveling for thanksgiving. like it's the perfect excuse to avoid all those terrible relatives you usually have to deal with every year! if I wasn't so honest about just not wanting to deal with those people I'd use covid as a get-out-of-holiday-obligations card for as long as possible.

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I feel like breaking up with my boyfriend. I told him I consider looking at porn cheating and I found out he lied about not looking it up. He looked up certain women by name and he knows that I have terrible views on my body and he went out of his way to find a girl that looks nothing like me. I feel like he lies about being attracted to me and I'm miserable. I don't know what to do. I confronted him about it and he pretended to not know even though I have evidence of him looking up pornstars. I feel empty inside.

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  • break up. you don't agree on a fundamental issue and that's not going to change. it sucks but that's how it is. people arent likely to give up things that give them endorphins.

  • hell, my girlfriend and I watched porn together. definitely spiced up our sex life.

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I feel so broken. So distant. This time of year if always hard, but after 9 months of quarantine... It hits harder. I'm detached from reality, I have no energy, no time. My sex drive is non-existent, even though I keep having dreams about being sexually frustrated. My partner is starting to feel unwanted, and he's doubting himself. And I feel terrible about it.

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  • Pastor Steven Anderson (youtube) helped me with that I should warn you that preaches from the bible, not political correctness (example: if the world supported slavery, he would still be against it)

  • I hate how society has convinced us if our holidays don't look a certain way (big picturesque family gatherings, perfectly decorated homes, etc) we're failures. I cut contact with a large chunk of my family years ago when they sided with my abuser and yet... every Christmas I feel like I'm the bad guy because life isnt Leave It To Beaver perfect. Its okay to be stressed. This is an incredibly stressful time normally and especially this year. Its traumatic for a lot of people. You honestly sound like you might be disassociating a bit. It can happen with depressive episodes. As the other comment said, find something you enjoy. Make a list of possibilities and try things until you find something. Just keep swimming.

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my dream is to find someone who will be my best friend and my gf, and were helping each other everyday more than we help anyone else, and we make time to help each other, id like if we both had same career tbh i think that would be cool, i wish she would understand me and also want to be a ninja, and we dedicate our lives to make ourselve and eachother better ninja as possible and push it to the absolute limit , fuck it lets see how much of a ninja u can really be , i wish someone understood me, other than that person who is out of the question

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  • hey, from personal experience. same career is cool, but at the same place is usually pretty difficult for couples. it is really hard to separate personal and professional lives.

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Yesterday when it was the last round of practice, i was still not tired or anything and wanted to roll more, and the only other person on the mats was this girl i train with sometimes, then i asked her to roll and i started off really chill, but she used all her mean-ness right away and got my back, and then she choked me in front of everyone :/ cuz it was about to change classes, so not only was everyone who was at jiu jitsu was watching but also everyone that had just arrived for kickboxing class :/ i did not like it, cuz now everyone gonna think im not good, also the girl who did it to me, i kinda of like her and i wanted to do good for her to think well of me, not to be choked by her so easy :/ today theres practice again and im gonna be MEAN >:( and not get choked

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  • she smelled your restraint and exploited your weakness. don't be "chill." next time. No mercy.

  • You should roll with her more often, it sounds as though you could learn some awesome new moves from her. Don't be embarrassed. Hell she could be the reason you belt test and pass sooner.

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im a 25 yr old guy and i havent had sex in like 2 and a half years and last time i did it it was bad. i had done it before and it was much better, i realize its because i need to feel safe i guess and im kind of insecure. i dont think i can really frick someone in the first date like my friends do unless we really, really really really like, click i guess. i dunno im just weird. i feel like a hole in my chest sometimes really bad, and despair. i dont want to be alone so much it just, it just sucks, it sucks really bad, i want to get like a hug and be kissed and feel comfortable enough to even have sex and not feel like im being judged or wrong for the way that i am

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  • Well you had some , so year ahead of me and you are younger, my highlight of contact was a hug in the last 3 years. But during the last to weeks I realized how much I miss someone in my life (not because of covid, but I had like the best news of my life and a nightmare become true in that time) and both those moments would be so much better if someone would have been there to share those good news with and be exited for a new part of your life , and in the other Moment someone that holds you in their embrace and just eases the moment...

  • hey man, your time will come. just be patient. I didn't have sex till I was 24, and even then I felt I should have waited a little longer.

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