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I got fired two days ago. I thought I'd be able to immediately apply for a different project in my company since it wasn't for attendance or misconduct issues. My manager told me when the next class for the other project started and didn't mention I'd have to wait. Turns out I have to wait three months to start at another project. I can reapply in about 2 months but the new hire class would have to start at least three months from now. I'm really stressing now. I was hoping if I didn't get a job somewhere else, at least I'd have this to fall back on. I'm nervous. It's been 2 years since I've had to worry about job applications and interviews. I'm still looking on the bright side, maybe I'll find somewhere even better than my last job.

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I thought today was going to be a good day. Finally showered after too long for me to admit. My hair looked nice. Put lotion and perfume on. Ate breakfast. Anxiety before work was minimal. Except for working out or doing yoga, I did all the things that make me happy and relaxed. Get to work, take one long annoying phone call, then go to a meeting where I'm fired. My sales metrics were way below goal for too long. I didn't even realize it was that bad until now. But it's a call center with different projects and they suggested coming to HR in a few days to apply for another project. There's one for FedEx that's not sales heavy at all. I've heard you just help people with their orders, the only metric is handle time. Their next class starts in about two weeks. I'm hoping I can get into that one. If not, hopefully another call center will take me. I'm 25 and that's the first time I've ever been fired. I've had 5 jobs, including that one, and I've always given notice before quitting. I'm hoping I can get something that's strictly customer service, no sales. I just need something fast, bills are coming up. If you're a praying kind of person, pray for me please.

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  • You can do this. Everything happens for a reason; if one door closes, it's usually so that you'll notice the next one opening. Good luck getting that job, I'm sure you'll do fine!

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Have you ever felt like empty eventhough you've gotten what you want? Sometimes, I cry when I'm alone (and I dont know what the reason). I dont even know why this happens.

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  • Could just be stress or depression

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I have done things with my daughter and hope it continues

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  • If you mean sexual things, I hope you crash your car into a fucking tree :)

  • what sort of things are you talking about?

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Yesterday the stress got to me. I yelled at my family and threw my jacket at the floor. Threatened to give up and leave. Work, car, school, extended family. It's all been to much. Strangest thing happened. As my wife and I were yelling my son calmly picked up my jacket and put it in the right place. Same with my shoes. He sat calmly until I was done and talked in a calm constructive manner. He was doing everything he could to deescalate the situation and he's only 6. He was talking about his classmate's parents getting a divorce earlier. He doesn't want that. This boy has some real emotional strength. This is a rare skill set. Calmness under pressure. Discretion. He's going to be a good man.

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  • Don't subject your kid to solving your problems for you. Speaking from experience, it is beyond stressful to deal with your parent's problems. If you can't control yourself, at the very least don't do it in front of the kid or where you know he could just pop up at without warning. He might seem calm but this kind of shit does irreversible trauma, especially for his young age.

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Tomorrow I have 2 tests. Wish me luck

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  • How did you do?

  • you can do your test good luck.

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Soo where to start.. I'm 18 years old and I will graduate soon. However there is one person from school that I can't get out of my head. It's a teacher I have. Sounds like a lame story, a girl that is in love with a teacher bla bla.. But I would not say that I'm hopelessly in love with this man, it's different. I'm very attracted to him, and now onto the interesting part, I do think, that he sort of has feelings for me too. It's very strange, because I don't want to interpret to much into it, I wanna see it from a neutral perspective, and maybe I'm all wrong. I don't know. So, I got this teacher for around 2 years now in class. I always was a pretty shy girl, someone that does not have much to do with the other students but still has her 3 good friends so I didn't participate that much in classes, wich also led to him not really knowing me that much at the beginning. He, by the way is a attractive, not too attractive (attractive for me, he's a pretty unique guy) , 28 year old man. He himself seems to be a more quiet person too, in a way that he has enough self-esteem to be a good teacher, but hes always quite quiet and does not scream to kids or anything like that. However, once when he spoke to me when we were alone, asking, why I don't like to talk so much in class, while my written texts are always so good. I tried to explain it to him, and he showed his understanding, and we then talked a bit about this, he asked about how he could help and stuff. It was a pretty intimate conversation, but still just in the sense from a teacher to a student. As time passed by, we have talked a bit some times, and during the lessons, I slowly started to feel nervous around him. As he stood in front of the class, he very often looked into my eyes for a long time, as I did too, and then we both looked away fastly, just too look in our eyes again a few seconds later. I found him even more attractive and charming day by day. It was strange to me, that he always looked at me, while I wasn't even raising my hand or showed participation in his lesson. He even favored me, in some ways, that even other students see that, and tell that to me, they also say that he looks at me quite often. (and I feel a bit uncomfortable then, because I don't want to be the person that gets favored by a teacher). However, I'm sure that he doesn't intents to do so. The connection between us grew stronger and stronger by day. And now it's like, we have strange eye connections, whenever we see us, he, in lessons very often comes to me and asks if he could take a look on what I'm doing, and asks if he could help me with anything. He also says, whenever I need help in his subject, he's always there to help. Wich is a bit strange for two reasons, 1. I'm pretty good in his subject, I have no problems with it, I just don't raise my hand that much, and he knows that, he knows that I'm good at it, and he also knows that im not too shy to ask if I have questions. I'm not that shy, I just hate the consepts of lessons where I always have to take part and stuff, idk. And 2. because he just sais that to me. There are other students, but he never goes to them, sits besides or in front of them for a long time and takes a look at what they're doing. He also never said to anybody else, that he/she can always come to him and ask questions. And again, he knows that I'm not that shy. And whenever he talks to me, his voice changes. It gets very soft, more quiet and sensitive. Very strange, since it doesn't change when he speaks to other people. Whenever we talk we look deeply in our eyes, and sometimes even forget to talk. Then we just smile for a bit and look in our eyes. I think that behavior is at least for a teacher student relation a bit strange. I remember once, when there was like only one laptop left to work, I stood up to get it, an other boy stood up to, was faster then me, and got this laptop, so I haven't had one, just because he sort of runned just to get it quicker then me. The teacher then said to this boy that to me, he should always be a gentle man, so he should give it to me. As he said the, he was quite aware that I heard it, and he looked to me in that strange cute look he always gives me. This is a stupid story but should just stand as an example of the many stories I always have with him. And God, I can't stop thinking about him and his beautiful eyes. But don't get me wrong, I've never seen this in a that childish way. I don't think that sth between us would work, I also don't think that he would make it happen. I don't think that he would ever really have sth with me, I guess he would always feel that it's wrong and that he's not in that position to do so. But I do think, just for the way he speaks to me (this is not sth you can explain that easy, so it might be hard to understand) and how he looks at me, wich is different to how he looks to other people, that he has some feelings for me, and I don't know how to deal with that, because soon he will be gone, because I will graduate and wount have him in lessons anymore. But I will really miss the conversations we were having aswell as his eyes and his way of saying things, and everything about us, but it would be way to strange from me to ask if we could stay in contact, because for me it would not be on a friendly basis, so it wouldn't work. But I'll miss him so much :( idk what to doooo :(

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  • No adult should be sexually or romantically interested in a teenager. You're at two very different life levels. If he is interested its best you pretend he's not. Any involvement would go terribly for both of you. I say as someone whose been there.

  • I'm currently in a situation like this as well with my teacher and, just like you, I try not to overanalyze it but I can't help but connect the dots and think that he has some kind of feelings for me. He'll often give me answers to tests that we can't use our notes for or he'll spend his breaks with me and we'll have an endless conversation on topics students and teachers really shouldn't. He's even mentioned multiple times that he likely shouldn't be this close to his students and he always makes an effort to ensure that I'm okay, that he's available as a confidant, and to separate me from the normal class when giving compliments. I wanted to ask him how he feels if I can do so subtly and have it related to our conversation rather than just bringing it up out of the blue. At the very least, you should ask your teacher his feelings about you to and ask how he'd feel about keeping in touch after you graduate. Just ensure he's not married or seeing anyone so it doesn't get too awkward. The worst that can happen is you putting your mind to rest with the truth once and for all.

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I'm scared of relationships because my parents' relationship always made me feel unsafe. They argued about even smallest things - one of them first misinterpreted the other and got offended or angry, and then they both just refused to understand. It was constant, at least a few times every day. I was always on guard, fearing that a fight might break out at any time. I was also scared of expressing thoughts that conflicted theirs because I wanted to avoid possible conflicts. Now I'm scared that my own relationships will be like what I just described and that I'll never find someone I feel emotionally safe with.

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  • Same. I constantly use my parent's divorce to justify my celibacy and refusal to date others. I know things don't last anymore, not in this day and age. If a marriage, a "sacred bond" between two people can't even make it past a couple years, what makes me think a casual boyfriend/girlfriend will?

  • wow, that sounds terrible OP. You might consider therapy. You will need to develop skills to properly communicate in a relationship, cause clearly your parents will not be able to teach you any of them!

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benci banget sama kating! punya acara gede minta bantuan adek tingkat buat jadi panitia tapi bikin peraturan ga ada toleransinya. cuma ga ikut rapat 2x karna sakit dan emang tubuh gue ini penyakitan mau gimana anjer tetep kena denda.

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  • Your kating suckss. Well,, get well soon for you!

  • sabaaar

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My friend's sister died today. She overdosed. The saddest part is, everyone is so surprised. She was only 17, top of her class, had her future all lined up, very straight edge. She wasn't just some junkie who overdid it. I just can't stop wondering why. Why did this happen? Why did she do it? Why didn't she survive? I can't imagine the terrible loss my friend is suffering. I have a sister who's the same age as his, they were in the same class; I can't imagine losing her right now, so suddenly and unexpectedly. I wish I had any words at all to console him or comfort him, but what can you say? What can anyone possibly tell someone who has lost so much that would help them in any way?

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  • I bet they cut the Oxy with Fentanyl. Fentanyl can be super easy to OD on and it's cheaper and acts similar to Oxy. It is happening so often too. I have gone to one too many OD funerals. I'm starting to feel Singapore had it right. Execute the dealers. Is it any less a murder if a man kills a woman with a pill then with a gun?

  • I don't know what to say, that it's ok to cry coz you loss some important part , but when you can not see her doesn't mean that she is gone, she still alive, the way you want to remember her, in the heart.

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