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I'm scared of relationships because my parents' relationship always made me feel unsafe. They argued about even smallest things - one of them first misinterpreted the other and got offended or angry, and then they both just refused to understand. It was constant, at least a few times every day. I was always on guard, fearing that a fight might break out at any time. I was also scared of expressing thoughts that conflicted theirs because I wanted to avoid possible conflicts. Now I'm scared that my own relationships will be like what I just described and that I'll never find someone I feel emotionally safe with.

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  • Same. I constantly use my parent's divorce to justify my celibacy and refusal to date others. I know things don't last anymore, not in this day and age. If a marriage, a "sacred bond" between two people can't even make it past a couple years, what makes me think a casual boyfriend/girlfriend will?

  • wow, that sounds terrible OP. You might consider therapy. You will need to develop skills to properly communicate in a relationship, cause clearly your parents will not be able to teach you any of them!

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benci banget sama kating! punya acara gede minta bantuan adek tingkat buat jadi panitia tapi bikin peraturan ga ada toleransinya. cuma ga ikut rapat 2x karna sakit dan emang tubuh gue ini penyakitan mau gimana anjer tetep kena denda.

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  • Your kating suckss. Well,, get well soon for you!

  • sabaaar

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My friend's sister died today. She overdosed. The saddest part is, everyone is so surprised. She was only 17, top of her class, had her future all lined up, very straight edge. She wasn't just some junkie who overdid it. I just can't stop wondering why. Why did this happen? Why did she do it? Why didn't she survive? I can't imagine the terrible loss my friend is suffering. I have a sister who's the same age as his, they were in the same class; I can't imagine losing her right now, so suddenly and unexpectedly. I wish I had any words at all to console him or comfort him, but what can you say? What can anyone possibly tell someone who has lost so much that would help them in any way?

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  • I bet they cut the Oxy with Fentanyl. Fentanyl can be super easy to OD on and it's cheaper and acts similar to Oxy. It is happening so often too. I have gone to one too many OD funerals. I'm starting to feel Singapore had it right. Execute the dealers. Is it any less a murder if a man kills a woman with a pill then with a gun?

  • I don't know what to say, that it's ok to cry coz you loss some important part , but when you can not see her doesn't mean that she is gone, she still alive, the way you want to remember her, in the heart.

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i hate myself and yet i love myself. today has been the luckiest day i got free tickets to something i didn't have any homework. and i had a wonderful dinner i made. and at the end im depressed bc I've been wanting to talk to this girl all day and i feel like she's been avoiding me or not interested in me. its all because her ex is trying to come back and im pretty sure he sussed. i just want the truth i dont care if it hurts me as long as i dont have to suffer through it anymore worrying but yet i do bc i really care about her... and i feel . well idk anymore and it scares me i wish that things will work out between us and if it doesn't i just need to remember that my friends are next to me and if i dont have them then i have god

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  • thx but i found out today that its not going to workout

  • Just remember that some things are just meant to be (or not meant to be). Some things are out of your control, and that's okay. I hope this works out for you, but if it doesn't, just remember that maybe if you're not supposed to be with her, it's so you can leave your heart open for the girl you ARE supposed to be with.

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im in a communal type situation its supose to be a home for me and my children but its not a home its my junkie boyfreinds brothers place and i feel like a used piece of shit for my bf convenience i know hes lying about stuff but i cant being it up he tells me i got nothing and im just lying i have never felt safe and comfortable hes never assured security and has never been my freind hes always been distant made alot of excuses and lied on where and what he makes me out to be crazy so he can keep his good boy image since his mum and partner live on the same property i have no way out i have no income i have no family to help i have had suicidal thoughts i havent been able to pick myself up this time this hasnt been something anyone would be happy about im sick of feeling nothing and wasted being told i got nothing am nothing i dont have freinds to talk to as im quite private and like my alone time only when i need to be social i have no problem well atleast once apon a time i was this is only the tip of the ice berg i literally feel i have no future and my kids will have no mum 4 years ago i was seeing a much brighter picture and i knew who i was and still am i lived and learned and grew and i appreciated all i had been through but this time i dont think theres any saving me this time i dont think god is even here with me Anymore im slowly withering away theres nothing left of me.

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  • You will get out of this. Leave your so-called boyfriend and find someone who can actually love you and care for you and your kids.

  • I don't think it's God's fault. You have kids with some other guy, you date a junkie, you don't have a job. What did you expect to happen? This is all pretty predictable. Your best hope is your children. If they can turn out well, they will take care of you. That means making sure they DON'T make the same mistakes.

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I really think I may have something wrong inside me. I feel depressed and think my life is pointless. I had a dream that I had a illness, my wife left me and I was dealing with al this alone.

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I'm not one of those people who lives by astrology and constantly asks people what their sign is. I don't believe in all that. But there are parts of all that craziness that seem to have something to them. For example, the past weeks have been complete shit for not just me but EVERYONE I KNOW. Found out today Mercury is in retrograde. It was like "Oh well that would explain a fucking lot." Sometimes I wonder how much "insanity" people dismiss that's actually at least somewhat valid.

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  • The way I see it, horoscopes and tarot cards and all that is some weird, old prototype to therapy because in a way reading tarot cards and interpreting the stars can be loosely applied to someone's troubles and appropriate advice can be given about the subject. But that's just a theory. Humans are weird...

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Im not a religious person... when i was a kid i used to go every sunday to the church with my parents.. i hated it.. i just wanted to stay home, sleep a little bit more and watch cartoons like other kids.. im 30 years old now.. and when im nervos (happens every day because im really nervous every day) i can hear in my head this church music that i used to hear in the church with my parents.. somehow it calms me down.. is that weird?

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  • That's totally normal. The music is designed to have a calming effect. You'd be surprised how much of the services are designed as a form of meditation. To build community and family. Standing together, drinking something together, all walking in unison. It builds a feeling of family deep down in your soul. Since I had no family at the time it really helped me become better adjusted.

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I message with married women

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I was once in a hotel in Helsinki for 3 weeks in a vacation. Im a Brasilian woman who lives in switzerland for about 5 yeas now. I dont like switzerland so much.. the thing is.. when i checked out from my hotel in helsinki, the receptio ist asked me if i would travel for another country or if im just going to go home.. i answered “im going home” and he asked me “where is home?” That question bugged my head.. i dont feel like home in switzerland, but brazil is not my home anymore.. and them i just answered “ i dont know, but i live in the moment in switzerland”. Since this day i just have a weird feeling in my heart.. i dont feel like “home” anywhere.. :/ is that normal??? And everyday now i remember the question.. “where is home??” :(

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