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I met a guy a few weeks ago, just randomly at work. We instantly clicked, but because I was at work, I didn't ask him for his number or anything else personal. When I was home later that day, I realized that I couldn't stop thinking about him. And even now, weeks later, I can't get him out of my mind. All information I have about him is his first name, and not even the full one, just his nickname (which could lead to two possible first names). I've tried finding him on the internet for hours. It's like an obsession. I don't even know if he's single or if he even liked me, and I wouldn't be sad if not, it's just... not KNOWING if there could possibly be something, somehow drives me crazy. I have never obsessed over someone like this before. I don't know if this behaviour is okay or if I've gone insane...

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A year ago, I started to feel demotivated with my job. I used to be good at it but then, out of nowhere, I started to feel unmotivated. The best way to explain it is that I felt like the only reason why I'm working is because I need it for my family. Unlike before were I used to enjoy what I'm doing.I also started feeling so stressed and sad all the time because of our financial status ,my parents pressuring me to work abroad, and I don't have time for myself anymore because I still have to take care of my son when i get home and do some chores.This resulted me to not being able to meet deadlines at work. Eventually, it got worse when our OIC left the company and she was replaced by another coworker. (I don't have any problems with the new OIC and we're actually friends to this day) The first thing she did was to reassign our tasks. At first, I was okay with it but because the tasks are new to me and I always tend to submit or finish reports and tasks late, she removed some of it and assigned it to a different coworker. And instead of being able to solve the problem, this made me even more unmotivated and unproductive as I felt that it was an insukt to me and I am not good enough for the tasks assigned to me. I ended up having only 2 remaining major tasks for the team and I still can't finish them on time. I am well aware that my actions might affect our team's reputation and I felt guilty about it. But as I felt more guilty, my productivity got worser. The company and my team are just so nice that they haven't fired me yet. But I always felt like I'm unwanted and they talk behind my back eventhough I don't hear anyone saying that around me. A week ago, I submitted my resignation because I don't feel like staying anymore. I know that it's best for them if I leave. I hope I was able to explain it well. I'm aware that it's my fault that I'm feeling this way but I just needed to vent out because i havent told anyone about what im feeling for the past year.

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  • It's okay. Sometimes you just go through a shitty phase in your life. If it helps you being happier in the long run, then it's good that you quit. If you continue feeling depressed and if that stops you from getting a new job in the next few months, please don't hesitate to see a therapist or talk to someone about it! Wish you all the best

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My boyfriend came to live with me on June 24th 2019. Since then he has quit 2 jobs. He plays video games on an average, 6 to 12 hours a day. The other hours are on YouTube or on his phone about 2-3 hours. When I met him, he was living with a longtime friend and was a manager at a restaurant working 8-12 hours a day. I just!?!?!?@#&!*

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  • I think you should carefully approach the subject over a prolonged period of time (if you're willing to; doing what the other comment said is also fine). I'm saying this because I was in the boyfriend's place once. I had a depressive episode, and whenever someone tried to talk sense into me, I shut down. Because I KNEW that I was fucking up my life, I just couldn't help it, so I pretended the others were wrong... But deep down I wanted help and would have accepted it if someone had been nicer to me. I'm not saying you're obligated to baby your lazy bf, just that this might be his mindset right now and if you're willing to, you could help him this way. (If you've got any questions, Because I'm sure I worded this rather badly, just ask.)

  • Is he on your lease? Tell him what you are seeing and how it makes you feel. Ask what his plan is. If he's not at least looking for work this week make a move to get him out.

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Is there someone here who's in Saudi right now? I'm a filipino that wants to work there as a nurse in the near future. However, due to the recent missile attacks there, my family is discouraging me to continue my application. I need to know if it's still safe to work there after the attacks because I still want to continue my application.

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I can't cope with working 40 hours a week. I just can't. It's too much. Choosing between getting up so early that I want to die and be tired the whole day, or working so long that I can only eat and sleep after work, is too draining. Having two days out of seven to do something I like and relax is not enough. I am constantly feeling like I'm gonna be sick because of all the emotional stress. I'm not made for a 40 hour week. But being unemployed would probably be even worse, so...

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  • I'm only working 36 hours a week and still feel like it's just too much. Two weeks after the holidays and I'm a complete mess. So yeah I feel ya.

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i wasn't sure about it at first but im glad i made the decision. getting a husky is a pain in the ass but not only do i have a companion now, i changed my whole lifestyle (for the better) because of him. i was a lazy piece of crap but after getting my husky it taught me alot about patience, discipline and overall tests my endurance. if u have a husky u KNOW how hard it is to train them but it also teaches u a valuable life lesson of, with time, perseverance and effort anything is possible; it just makes the end result all the more worth it

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By my company's policy, we can take days off of work without a doctor's note for one day at a time. Basically as many days as we want in total, so in theory, you could skip work every two days every single week. The managers are expected to regulate the frequency, and if they think it's too much, you have to go to the doctor. It's a really nice system, it allows you to rest when you're just having a bad day or feel too unfit to work without having to sit in a waiting room half a day. But our manager takes advantage of that, and it annoys us all. She takes a day off a lot, about once or twice a month, and we pretty much know that she doesn't do it because she's sick. She spends time with her grandkids, takes a short vacation over the weekend, runs errands or sleeps in after a long shift. I wouldn't even call this wrong, we have a hard job and family time is important and all... what's bad about this is that WE aren't allowed to take days off for that. Or even for being sick. Sometimes, yes, but if you try to call in for the third time in a year, she doesn't allow it. Unfortunately, that behaviour is okay by company policy, she isn't required to allow anyone such a day at all, so we can't do anything. It's just unfair.

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  • Well you just said the company policy is that you can, in fact, do that. So if your manager is being a hypocrite, there's got to be someone you can report her to. You are entitled to time off, or sick days at the very least.

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I told my self, not to be hurt. It's still hurts though, it hurts a little less, her words. Maybe one day, I won't feel it again.

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Hi, how's your day going. I don't mean to disrespect you . I'm looking for a sugar baby who is honest, loyal and trustworthy. And I also expect to keep my company by listening to me and I need a companion, so I don't get depressed in exchange for some weekly allowance,if you don't mind. nothing sexual time in California can you text me on kik Davidjaxs60

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  • since it's not sexual, maybe it should be call a personal aide, or a personal assistant.

  • okay

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I finished my research program, and I made it. I finished the shit out of it. I was in a foreign land with shit American colleagues (nice Thai colleagues though very nice people). But I made it, I finished it. I learned a lot in life from it more than the research. One thing I learned, I have to really know myself before deciding on doing things.

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